• Let Him Chase You: Dating Advice for Women Who Want Both Long-Lasting Love and Respect in Their Relationships with Men

  • By: L. Lynn Gilliard
  • Narrated by: L. Lynn Gilliard
  • Length: 2 hrs and 23 mins
  • Categories: Erotica, Sex Instruction
  • 4.2 out of 5 stars (1,062 ratings)

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Publisher's Summary

Real, Practical Dating Advice for Women

Are you the pursuer or do you let men pursue you? The answer is the difference between you becoming a side toy for a man to play around with or a girlfriend with a title and eventually a woman who any man would be eager to call his wife.

Many of us modern women have been taught that in order to get a guy we have to go out there and snag him, trick him, tag him, and drag him home. But that doesn't work - at least not in the long run.

Men are natural-born hunters. It's in their DNA. They won't always admit it, but they absolutely love the chase. They want a woman who has the traits described in this audiobook. They want to be given the opportunity to earn a woman's love.

Let him chase you!

You get all sorts of advice about dating, from act like a lady think like a man, understanding the power of the pussy, knowing the five love languages for men, the art of seduction, and the irresistible qualities men want in a woman. But above all, there's one bit of relationship and dating advice for women that you should always keep in mind no matter what - don't chase love or men.

When you have full confidence in yourself, you'll never chase men again. Instead, you'll radiate that confidence and beauty everywhere you go. They'll be drawn to you. You'll know how to manage men when dating, and how to weed out the ones who are not right for you. Stop apologizing for wanting both love and respect in a relationship.

This simple, easy-to-follow audiobook explains how you can shake off meaningless flings with men and start to attract men who are serious about you.

You are deserving of real, respectful love in your relationships. Don't allow anyone to convince you otherwise!

©2013 Venup Self-Help & Development (P)2013 Venup Self-Help & Development

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It’s not for me.

I’m not a chronically single woman and I wouldn’t date a bay daddy .. I just know that’s a no go and I enjoy fwb and actually freely leave them often. I’m tired of the narrative that women are sad and always get the short end. I need a book for a woman like me. I felt like I was then man in half of these stories and if fact have been told by my ex that I act like a man sometimes . I want a book that will teach me but not make me out to be some cry baby who can’t get or keep a man. I want a book that gives regular women lessons and doesn’t act like women in the 21st century are crying over getting ghosted. Hell we are doing the ghosting. Teach me how to find someone so I don’t have to block them after 2 weeks of sex because they are annoying me. Where are the books for girls like me .

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what I needed to hear!!!

I am a 50+ women still searching , after 2 failed marriages and numerous failed relationships, this book has made clear some decisions that have helped in my failures, thank you for the clarity....

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Impressive!

What did you love best about Let Him Chase You?

How women contribute in healthy relationships for lifetime, mostly I loved that guideline.

What was one of the most memorable moments of Let Him Chase You?

The instruction for self-empowerment and being pleased about thyself impressed me a lot.

What’s an idea from the book that you will remember?

The guidelines about the long lasting relationship is the most effective and impressive idea from my aspect.

Any additional comments?

For women, this is a must listen audio book. It's so simple, the guidelines for women revealed for long-lasting love and respect in relationships are helpful because it is outstanding, no doubt. I will recommend it to all women.

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You're the prize

Where does Let Him Chase You rank among all the audiobooks you’ve listened to so far?

This is the first audio book I've listened to and it was pretty good. The author narrated it and she sounds 'real' like she's speaking to you. She tells you things you should know, but you need to hear... for example Being confident, not giving in, knowing your standards, and where you stand. She tells you what men look for in women, doesn't sugar coat the fact that guys go after looks first. Gives personal stories that you can relate to, not boring. She is straight forward, no time wasted or off topic. I recommend this audio

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This book is simple and basic on what types of mistakes women make in the world of dating. I feel these things are common sense, but it's good to have your memory refreshed once in a while. I like the author's laid back style in reading, but at the same time, I didn't think it was as professional as other books on this topic.

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A Clear Guide with a Powerful Message

The author has a brilliant message for young women: "When you truly believe in yourself and the power of your womanhood everyone else starts to believe it too." She did a lovely job of reinforcing this message throughout the book.

The author covers exactly what women are doing wrong in their relationships and how to fix these problems. I especially liked that she used three specific examples from her own dating life to clearly illustrate her points by first detailing the relationships and then explaining step by step exactly where the trouble points were.

I also really enjoyed the author's love letter to the most important person in her life at the end. I won't give anything away but it was very moving and I think everyone should write such a letter.

The author's no-nonsense yet friendly and compassionate attitude made you feel like you were chatting with a very wise friend.

The book was read by the author who did a very nice job. Since she clearly knew the material well she presented it exactly as she'd intended it which made it more powerful.

I definitely recommend this to those who are looking for a clear, concise guide to creating the relationship you desire.

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The letter Lynn wrote to herself at the end of the book was beautiful!

I learned SO MUCH about myself listening to this book! How I was causing the pain I experienced in bad relationships.... We create the rules of how we will be treated, no one else... This book touched a few nerves deep in my soul and it forced me to re-evaluate the value I had always put on myself and others! How very educational for those who truly want to change themselves and final find peace and happiness inside ourselves! I have no doubt that I will find a great man !

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Amazing book

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This book came into my life right when I was in a 3 year relationship that I knew in my heart it would not be ever lasting love. Although I knew that in my heart, it was hard when he was the one to break the relationship. In the mist of my transition I meet someone who open my eyes to see the color of life again, however this was a short and sweet relationship that I broke off bc it would lead no where in the long run. I came across this book a day before I choose to break that relationship and it gave me the strength to approach the topic at hand and go about it respectfully. Both relationships have been handled in the most mature and open hearted way, thanks to this book I can keep my chin up high and value my standard I look for in a man and know I will find my long term love someday.

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Amazing

Love love love this book... I've instantly felt so connected to this book and I am going to use all these great things in my current dating life starting immediately ! I feel so good about this !!!!!!

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One of the Best things about the book is its ability to weave in so many common classics and apply those principles to modern day dating, which isn't much different from the laws of dating laws of old.

It's tempting to simply suggest that you read the law of attraction by Napoleon Hill or any of his works, but the perspective that she offers it's very valuable and useful.

Her New York accent somehow made me cringe at times, but the content made her voice endurable.

I think this book is very important for all women and girls even prepubescent girls. There is a lot of unlearning to do and this author offers a place to start

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  • Sam
  • 01-14-19

Great book

Fantastic advise worth every penny . Especially if you are considering dating online . Good resource tool

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  • Enlightened One
  • 12-13-16

Excellent, very honest and helpful

Excellent book on modern dating and self esteem, really enjoyed it and would recommend to anyone who is repeating negative dating experiences

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  • sezzz
  • 10-31-16

Get your copy now

Great book! Found it very useful and would recommend it to the single ladies out there. Yes yoy have probably heard of some of the tips but sometimes you need to be reminded. Only annoying thing was the pause between each chapter otherwise it was brilliant!

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  • PJ
  • 10-05-15

Lots of Top Tips

My blinkers have been opened.
It's lovely to finally shed light on all the negative feelings I've internalised over the years.
L.Lynn describes patterns of behaviour simply and non judgementally and has made me realise that it's not that there is something wrong with me, just the choices I have made in the past.
I would have LOVED this book starting out as a teenager as a go to guru. But even as an adult in a long term relationship it have given me the confidence to say what I truly want.
I'm worth it!!!
I shall be buying this book for my partner's daughters, with love from me and relief of knowing they need never enter their forties lacking knowledge and the confidence it brings.
Thank you L.Lynn

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  • Jenny m
  • 11-20-19

The writer hates men

It’s a good read to give you some boundaries & protect your self from being a walk over, but it’s going to make you think there’s no good men out there!

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  • Anonymous User
  • 08-29-20

wow

Omg i loved this just wish I had read this book years ago. I couldn't put it down. thankyou

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  • Sian Woodham
  • 08-22-20

So relatable!!

Life changing. Best thing I've listened to in years! changed my thinking of many years!

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  • susan probert
  • 02-26-19

Shallow & short

Most of what she writes is subjective with no basis. She has huge biases and they come through strongly. Don’t waste your time on this!