In Conclusion, Don't Worry About It

De: Lauren Graham

Narrado por: Lauren Graham

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • Advice for graduates and reflections on staying true to yourself from the beloved Gilmore Girls actress and New York Times bestselling author of the memoir Talking as Fast as I Can and the novel Someday, Someday, Maybe.

“If you’re kicking yourself for not having accomplished all you should have by now, don’t worry about it. Even without any ‘big’ accomplishments yet to your name, you are enough.”

In this expansion of the 2017 commencement speech she gave at her hometown Langley High, Lauren Graham, the beloved star of Gilmore Girls and Parenthood, reflects on growing up, pursuing your dreams, and living in the here and now. “Whatever path you choose, whatever career you decide to go after, the important thing is that you keep finding joy in what you’re doing, especially when the joy isn’t finding you.” In her hilarious, relatable voice, Graham reminds us to be curious and compassionate, no matter where life takes us or what we’ve yet to achieve. Grounded and inspiring—and illustrated throughout with drawings by Graham herself—here is a comforting road map to a happy life.

“I’ve had ups and downs. I’ve had successes and senior slumps. I’ve been the girl who has the lead, and the one who wished she had the bigger part. The truth? They don’t feel that different from each other.”

This Spoke to my Actor PTSD

Though this was a short listen, this spoke directly to the part of me that always wished I was “better” as an actor. Whether I didn’t get laughs, didn’t get a good part in a show, didn’t rehearse enough, or had trouble networking and auditioning, I always kept myself under this pressure to be the best, most perfect, lovable, person.

Like the author, this came from some desire to feel important or special as a performer. I had the same excitement when I auditioned for high school shows; I too was just happy to be there. Over the years, accomplishments would mean nothing as I pined for more success, more respect, more laughs, more love.

I haven’t read or listened to anything that specifically touched on this feeling, and I’m grateful I took a chance on this book. It was cathartic to know other people feel the same pressure of imperfection, even the people that have had immense success in their lives.

This book applies to more than just actors, it applies to anyone who feels they are supposed to accomplish something great in their lives but feel like they are missing something or can’t figure out how.

I highly suggest it!

Spot on

Short, to the point, full of stellar advice. A great pick-me-up for anyone at any stage in their life (I'm just married, trying to purchase a house) but would OBVIOUSLY be an amazing graduation gift.

#ChooseJoy ❤️

No, she doesn't sing or dance or do a bit. Look to Will Farrell for such a performance.

Lauren delivers timeless advice, not only for graduates, but for everyone - especially when in need of a positive perspective.

Will definitely come back to this one over and over again.

Narration is comforting

To be perfectly honest, I only purchased and listened to this book since it was narrated by the author. Sometimes I need a good comfort listen with a familiar voice.

I do wish I would have stumbled onto this essay in earlier times of my life - a must listen for soon to be college graduates!

Delightful short listen from LG

I loved the encouraging message, even more than 10 years after my high school graduation. It’s honest and funny and down to earth; all the things we love about Lauren Graham. Only regretted it wasn’t longer!