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Publisher's Summary
We don't think too much about sex; we're merely thinking about it in the wrong way.
So asserts Alain de Botton in this rigorous and supremely honest book designed to help us navigate the intimate and exciting - yet often confusing and difficult - experience that is sex. Few of us tend to feel we're entirely normal when it comes to sex, and what we’re supposed to be feeling rarely matches up with the reality.
This audiobook argues that 21st-century sex is ultimately fated to be a balancing act between love and desire, and adventure and commitment. Covering topics that include lust, fetishism, adultery, and pornography, Alain de Botton frankly articulates the dilemmas of modern sexuality, offering insights and consolation to help us think more deeply and wisely about the sex we are, or aren’t, having.
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- Richard
- 02-26-13
How to Think About Sex as Only Sex
Would you listen to How to Think More About Sex again? Why?
I listened to it twice. I would consider listening again. It is full of brilliant insights and observations.
What was one of the most memorable moments of How to Think More About Sex?
I liked his description early on about a couple's first date and his description of what they were both experiencing and why.
What does David Thorpe bring to the story that you wouldn’t experience if you just read the book?
He has a rich voice and does justice to the articulate text.
What did you learn from How to Think More About Sex that you would use in your daily life?
Intimate relationships are complicated imperfect things. If we adjust our expectations we can appreciate relationships and sex for what they are rather than having pie-in-the-sky expectations.
Any additional comments?
Great book. I can think of 100 people I could recommend it to.
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- Hayden Smiley
- 07-10-17
Realistic Relationship Expectations
A realistic look at the positives and negatives of long term relationships and thr sexual human experience. Depressing and humorous.
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- Martin
- 06-02-16
amazing work
this is the best book I've ever read. It tackles the issues in my life in a way that no other book has come close to.
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- Francesco De Paoli
- 08-21-17
Partially wise but mostly paternalistic
Despite having some wise observations here and there De Botton has a very paternalistic tone all over the book. I find his little exemplary stories awkward and full of annoying stereotypes and the chapter on internet porn prudeish, parodic and obtuse.
4 people found this helpful
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- Steve McMillan
- 02-23-16
must read for anyone struggling in marriage or
entering marriage in an idealistic way. Eye opening and validating. Romantic marriage for decades is impossible, makes me realize I am not inadequate but striving for the impossible. those who say they have it I now know aren't truthful consciously or unconsciously.
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- artur elias
- 12-28-20
elegant and enriching
comprehensíve, very well researched, navigates admirably well the treacherous waters of both prejudice and trend, beautifully written with charme and wit - my best Audible purchase in many months!
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- Karen Johnston
- 10-19-15
could not finish it
never caught my attention. I wanted to like it but found it too self important
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- Emily Rosequist
- 12-09-22
Satisfying read!
That lovely moment when someone puts perfectly into words, a particular pattern that you’ve been aware of for a very long time without ever having spoken word about it. This book is full of that. Well done.
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- juan carlos
- 05-30-22
very good for beginners
ease to read clear interesting ideas to try and use in life easy understand with fun narrative and entertaining
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- William
- 11-16-21
Truth
Very much inline with the truth about sex and the direction or culture is finally going. If this topic interest you I recommend Sex At Dawn.
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 256
Essays in Love is a stunningly original love story. Taking in Aristotle, Wittgenstein, history, religion and Groucho Marx, Alain de Botton charts the progress of a love affair from the first kiss to argument and reconciliation, from intimacy and tenderness to the onset of anxiety and heartbreak.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Every relationship you've ever analyzed
- By Maria L. Lantin on 05-07-12
By: Alain de Botton
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The Consolations of Philosophy
- By: Alain de Botton
- Narrated by: Simon Vance
- Length: 6 hrs and 3 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 654
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 485
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 483
Alain de Botton has performed a stunning feat: He has transformed arcane philosophy into something accessible and entertaining, useful and kind. Drawing on the work of six of the world's most brilliant thinkers, de Botton has arranged a panoply of wisdom to guide us through our most common problems.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Cheering, empathic, helpful
- By Austin on 11-11-09
By: Alain de Botton
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The Course of Love
- A Novel
- By: Alain de Botton
- Narrated by: Julian Rhind-Tutt
- Length: 7 hrs and 6 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 1,251
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 1,083
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 1,079
We all know the headiness and excitement of the early days of love. But what comes after? In Edinburgh a couple, Rabih and Kirsten, fall in love. They get married, they have children—but no long-term relationship is as simple as "happily ever after". The Course of Love is a novel that explores what happens after the birth of love, what it takes to maintain love, and what happens to our original ideals under the pressures of an average existence.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Amazing, much needed retooling of the expectations and realities of Love
- By Lydia on 07-04-16
By: Alain de Botton
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On Confidence
- By: The School of Life, Alain de Botton
- Narrated by: Alain de Botton
- Length: 1 hr and 9 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 167
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 137
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 134
We spend vast amounts of time acquiring confidence in narrow technical fields: quadratic equations or bioengineering; economics or pole vaulting. But we overlook the primordial need to acquire a more free-ranging variety of confidence - one that can serve us across a range of tasks: speaking to strangers at parties, asking someone to marry us, suggesting a fellow passenger turn down their music, changing the world. This is a guidebook to confidence, why we lack it and how we can acquire more of it in our lives.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Poignant and timeless
- By Graceny Jimenez on 08-15-20
By: The School of Life, and others
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What They Forgot to Teach You at School
- Essential Emotional Lessons Needed to Thrive
- By: The School of Life
- Narrated by: Sonya Cullingford
- Length: 3 hrs and 18 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 51
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 45
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Story5 out of 5 stars 44
We probably went to school for what felt like a very long time. We probably took care with our homework. Along the way we surely learned intriguing things about equations, the erosion of glaciers, the history of the Middle Ages, and the tenses of foreign languages. But why, despite all the lessons we sat through, were we never taught the really important things that dominate and trouble our lives: who to start a relationship with, how to trust people, how to understand one’s psyche, how to move on from sorrow or betrayal, and how to cope with anxiety and shame?
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5 out of 5 stars
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Wonderful
- By Anonymous User on 07-18-21
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The School of Life
- An Emotional Education
- By: The School of Life
- Narrated by: Alain de Botton, Charlie Anson
- Length: 9 hrs and 27 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 21
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 19
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 19
Emotional intelligence affects every aspect of the way we live, from romantic to professional relationships, from our inner resilience to our social success. It is arguably the single most important skill for surviving the twenty-first century. But what does it really mean? One decade ago, Alain de Botton founded The School of Life, an institute dedicated to understanding and improving our emotional intelligence. Now he presents the gathered wisdom of those ten years in a wide-ranging and innovative compendium of emotional intelligence that forms an introduction to The School of Life.
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5 out of 5 stars
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truly difficult to recuse oneself from
- By Richard Peter on 05-22-23
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Essays in Love
- By: Alain de Botton
- Narrated by: James Wilby
- Length: 7 hrs and 14 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 297
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 254
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 256
Essays in Love is a stunningly original love story. Taking in Aristotle, Wittgenstein, history, religion and Groucho Marx, Alain de Botton charts the progress of a love affair from the first kiss to argument and reconciliation, from intimacy and tenderness to the onset of anxiety and heartbreak.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Every relationship you've ever analyzed
- By Maria L. Lantin on 05-07-12
By: Alain de Botton
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The Consolations of Philosophy
- By: Alain de Botton
- Narrated by: Simon Vance
- Length: 6 hrs and 3 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 654
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 485
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 483
Alain de Botton has performed a stunning feat: He has transformed arcane philosophy into something accessible and entertaining, useful and kind. Drawing on the work of six of the world's most brilliant thinkers, de Botton has arranged a panoply of wisdom to guide us through our most common problems.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Cheering, empathic, helpful
- By Austin on 11-11-09
By: Alain de Botton
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How Proust Can Change Your Life
- By: Alain de Botton
- Narrated by: Nicholas Bell
- Length: 5 hrs and 6 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 528
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 445
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Story4 out of 5 stars 445
For anyone who ever wondered what Marcel Proust had in mind when he wrote the one-and-a-quarter-million words of In Search of Lost Time (while bedridden no less), Alain de Botton has the answer. For, in this stylish, erudite and frequently hilarious book, de Botton dips deeply into Proust’s life and work - his fiction, letter, and conversations – and distils from them that rare self-help manual: one that is actually helpful.
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3 out of 5 stars
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A nice petite primer on Proust
- By Darwin8u on 02-20-13
By: Alain de Botton
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Religion for Atheists
- A Non-Believer's Guide to the Uses of Religion
- By: Alain de Botton
- Narrated by: Kris Dyer
- Length: 5 hrs and 2 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4 out of 5 stars 299
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Performance4 out of 5 stars 261
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Story4 out of 5 stars 257
The boring debate between fundamentalist believers and non-believers is finally moved on by Alain de Botton's inspiring new book, which boldly argues that the supernatural claims of religion are of course entirely false - and yet that religions still have important things to teach the secular world.
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2 out of 5 stars
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Disappointing, Erroneous, Implausible
- By Douglas C. Bates on 11-02-12
By: Alain de Botton
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Magnificent Sex
- Lessons from Extraordinary Lovers
- By: Peggy J. Kleinplatz PhD, A. Dana Ménard PhD
- Narrated by: Holly Adams
- Length: 8 hrs and 2 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 47
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Performance4 out of 5 stars 37
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 36
Magnificent Sex is based on the largest, in-depth interview study ever conducted with people who are having extraordinary sex. It gathers the nuggets for remarkable sex from the "experts", distilling them into an attainable blueprint for ordinary lovers who want to make erotic intimacy grow over the course of a lifetime.
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4 out of 5 stars
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Narrators Take Note!!!
- By D. Belleau on 01-17-22
By: Peggy J. Kleinplatz PhD, and others
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Crazy Good Sex
- Putting to Bed the Myths Men Have about Sex
- By: Les Parrott
- Narrated by: Les Parrott
- Length: 3 hrs and 7 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 144
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 121
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 120
In this practical guidebook filled with straight talk, psychologist and best-selling author Dr. Les Parrott shares six secrets that can enhance a couples sexual intimacy. Parrott offers crucial facts and practical insights to help men and their wives experience the best sex they've ever had.
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1 out of 5 stars
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Very deceiving title...
- By Peter on 12-29-10
By: Les Parrott
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Status Anxiety
- By: Alain de Botton
- Narrated by: Simon Vance
- Length: 6 hrs and 24 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4 out of 5 stars 590
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 418
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Story4 out of 5 stars 413
This is a book about an almost universal anxiety that is rarely mentioned: an anxiety about what others think of us, about whether we're judged a success or a failure, a winner or a loser. This is a book about status anxiety. Best-selling author Alain de Botton asks, with lucidity and charm, where our worries about status come from and what, if anything, we can do to surmount them.
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1 out of 5 stars
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False Advertising!
- By Jon on 08-02-07
By: Alain de Botton
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Sex Magick for Beginners
- The Essential Guide to Learn Simple and Effective Methods to Leverage Your Sexual Energy and Power to Its Full Potential
- By: Rosalyn Vargas
- Narrated by: Ben Herold
- Length: 3 hrs and 26 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 22
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 22
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 22
Do you know why sex is such a taboo subject? Why is it used in magick, and what can you expect from your experiences? Can sex magick make your relationship stronger?This book will explain in detail why sex is so powerful and how it has been part of cultural magic and rituals for generations.
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1 out of 5 stars
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Not a lot of magick
- By Jamie W on 02-27-23
By: Rosalyn Vargas
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The Architecture of Happiness
- By: Alain de Botton
- Narrated by: Simon Vance
- Length: 4 hrs and 40 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4 out of 5 stars 432
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 351
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Story4 out of 5 stars 352
One of the great, but often unmentioned, causes of both happiness and misery is the quality of our environment: the kinds of chairs, walls, buildings, and streets that surround us. And yet, a concern for architecture is too often described as frivolous, even self-indulgent. Alain de Botton starts from the idea that where we are heavily influences who we can be, and argues that it is architecture's task to stand as an eloquent reminder of our full potential.
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3 out of 5 stars
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Many elegant words used for a simple topic.
- By Spirit on 08-15-17
By: Alain de Botton