Try an Audible book on us
How to Raise Your Adult Children
People who bought this also bought...
-
Setting Boundaries with Your Adult Children
- Six Steps to Hope and Healing for Struggling Parents
- By: Allison Bottke
- Narrated by: Margaret Strom
- Length: 7 hrs and 42 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 81
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 68
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 64
A tough-love guide to coping with dysfunctional adult children, Setting Boundaries with Your Adult Children will empower families by offering hope and healing through S.A.N.I.T.Y. - a six-step program to help parents regain control in their homes and in their lives.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Absolutely Liberating!
- By Amazon Customer on 06-10-16
-
When Our Grown Kids Disappoint Us
- Letting Go of Their Problems, Loving Them Anyway, and Getting on with Our Lives
- By: Jane Adams
- Narrated by: Jane Adams
- Length: 4 hrs and 29 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 27
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 24
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 25
How do today's parents cope when the dreams we had for our children clash with reality? What can we do for our 20- and even 30-somethings who can't seem to grow up? Who can we turn to when the kids aren't all right and we, their parents, are frightened, frustrated, resentful, embarrassed, and especially, disappointed? In this groundbreaking book, a social psychologist who's been chronicling the lives of American families for over two decades confronts our deepest concerns when our grown kids have failed to thrive.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
I'm about to read it again.
- By Tabitha on 08-01-16
-
How to Raise an Adult
- Break Free of the Overparenting Trap and Prepare Your Kid for Success
- By: Julie Lythcott-Haims
- Narrated by: Julie Lythcott-Haims
- Length: 12 hrs and 31 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 1,037
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 871
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 862
In How to Raise an Adult, Julie Lythcott-Haims draws on research; on conversations with admissions officers, educators, and employers; and on her own insights as a mother and as a student dean to highlight the ways in which overparenting harms children, their stressed-out parents, and society at large.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Sometimes it's okay to preach to the choir
- By Justin on 12-16-15
-
The Power of Praying for Your Adult Children
- By: Stormie Omartian
- Narrated by: Stormie Omartian
- Length: 3 hrs and 30 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 56
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 46
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 47
In this important follow-up to The Power of a Praying® Parent (2 million copies sold), Stormie addresses areas of concern you may have for your grown children and shares how to lift them up to God. With stories from other parents and insight gleaned from personal experience, Stormie helps you pray with the power of God's word over your adult children.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Blessed by Heart of this Book
- By Stephanie Abraham-Middleton on 04-02-18
-
Let Go Now: Embracing Detachment
- By: Karen Casey
- Narrated by: Kristin Allison
- Length: 6 hrs and 12 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 293
-
Performance4 out of 5 stars 254
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 251
So many of us spend so much time enmeshed in other people's problems, trying to solve or change them, that we don't really know where we end and they begin. Not reacting to people or situations that provoke us is not an easy skill to develop. It takes practice and conviction that not reacting, not increasing the drama, doesn't mean we don't care. On the contrary, we are freed to show genuine love and care only when we can detach from the knee-jerk need to fix, solve, rescue, or control.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Live your own life first!
- By evoefficient1 on 06-15-14
-
Walking on Eggshells
- Navigating the Delicate Relationship Between Adult Children and Parents
- By: Jane Isay
- Narrated by: Ann Marie Lee
- Length: 7 hrs and 31 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4 out of 5 stars 15
-
Performance4 out of 5 stars 14
-
Story4 out of 5 stars 14
We raise our children to be independent and lead fulfilling lives, but when they finally do, staying close becomes more complicated than ever. And for every bewildered mother who wonders why her children don't call, there is a frustrated son or daughter who just wants to be treated like a grownup. Now, renowned editor Jane Isay delivers the perfect gift to both parents and their adult children-real-life wisdom and advice on how to stay together without falling apart.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Wonderful
- By Kimberley A Hays on 02-10-18
-
Setting Boundaries with Your Adult Children
- Six Steps to Hope and Healing for Struggling Parents
- By: Allison Bottke
- Narrated by: Margaret Strom
- Length: 7 hrs and 42 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 81
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 68
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 64
A tough-love guide to coping with dysfunctional adult children, Setting Boundaries with Your Adult Children will empower families by offering hope and healing through S.A.N.I.T.Y. - a six-step program to help parents regain control in their homes and in their lives.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Absolutely Liberating!
- By Amazon Customer on 06-10-16
-
When Our Grown Kids Disappoint Us
- Letting Go of Their Problems, Loving Them Anyway, and Getting on with Our Lives
- By: Jane Adams
- Narrated by: Jane Adams
- Length: 4 hrs and 29 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 27
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 24
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 25
How do today's parents cope when the dreams we had for our children clash with reality? What can we do for our 20- and even 30-somethings who can't seem to grow up? Who can we turn to when the kids aren't all right and we, their parents, are frightened, frustrated, resentful, embarrassed, and especially, disappointed? In this groundbreaking book, a social psychologist who's been chronicling the lives of American families for over two decades confronts our deepest concerns when our grown kids have failed to thrive.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
I'm about to read it again.
- By Tabitha on 08-01-16
-
How to Raise an Adult
- Break Free of the Overparenting Trap and Prepare Your Kid for Success
- By: Julie Lythcott-Haims
- Narrated by: Julie Lythcott-Haims
- Length: 12 hrs and 31 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 1,037
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 871
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 862
In How to Raise an Adult, Julie Lythcott-Haims draws on research; on conversations with admissions officers, educators, and employers; and on her own insights as a mother and as a student dean to highlight the ways in which overparenting harms children, their stressed-out parents, and society at large.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Sometimes it's okay to preach to the choir
- By Justin on 12-16-15
-
The Power of Praying for Your Adult Children
- By: Stormie Omartian
- Narrated by: Stormie Omartian
- Length: 3 hrs and 30 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 56
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 46
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 47
In this important follow-up to The Power of a Praying® Parent (2 million copies sold), Stormie addresses areas of concern you may have for your grown children and shares how to lift them up to God. With stories from other parents and insight gleaned from personal experience, Stormie helps you pray with the power of God's word over your adult children.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Blessed by Heart of this Book
- By Stephanie Abraham-Middleton on 04-02-18
-
Let Go Now: Embracing Detachment
- By: Karen Casey
- Narrated by: Kristin Allison
- Length: 6 hrs and 12 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 293
-
Performance4 out of 5 stars 254
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 251
So many of us spend so much time enmeshed in other people's problems, trying to solve or change them, that we don't really know where we end and they begin. Not reacting to people or situations that provoke us is not an easy skill to develop. It takes practice and conviction that not reacting, not increasing the drama, doesn't mean we don't care. On the contrary, we are freed to show genuine love and care only when we can detach from the knee-jerk need to fix, solve, rescue, or control.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Live your own life first!
- By evoefficient1 on 06-15-14
-
Walking on Eggshells
- Navigating the Delicate Relationship Between Adult Children and Parents
- By: Jane Isay
- Narrated by: Ann Marie Lee
- Length: 7 hrs and 31 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4 out of 5 stars 15
-
Performance4 out of 5 stars 14
-
Story4 out of 5 stars 14
We raise our children to be independent and lead fulfilling lives, but when they finally do, staying close becomes more complicated than ever. And for every bewildered mother who wonders why her children don't call, there is a frustrated son or daughter who just wants to be treated like a grownup. Now, renowned editor Jane Isay delivers the perfect gift to both parents and their adult children-real-life wisdom and advice on how to stay together without falling apart.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Wonderful
- By Kimberley A Hays on 02-10-18
-
When Parents Hurt
- Compassionate Strategies When You and Your Grown Child Don't Get Along
- By: Joshua Coleman PhD
- Narrated by: Paul Boehmer
- Length: 8 hrs and 43 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 23
-
Performance4 out of 5 stars 17
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 16
This unique book supports parents who are struggling with the heartache of having a teenager or an adult child who is troubled, angry, or distant. Such rifts can cause unspeakable sorrow that parents too often must bear alone. Psychologist and parent Joshua Coleman, PhD, offers insight, empathy, and perspective to those who have lost the opportunity to be the parents they desperately wanted to be and who are mourning the loss of a harmonious relationship with their child.
-
1 out of 5 stars
-
Not worth tour time...
- By TMT on 12-12-16
-
Gift from the Sea
- 50th Anniversary Edition
- By: Anne Morrow Lindbergh
- Narrated by: Claudette Colbert
- Length: 2 hrs and 26 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 338
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 252
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 253
In this inimitable, beloved classic - graceful, lucid, and lyrical - Anne Morrow Lindbergh shares her meditations on youth and age; love and marriage; peace, solitude, and contentment as she set them down during a brief vacation by the sea. A mother of five, an acclaimed writer and a pioneering aviator, Lindbergh casts an unsentimental eye on the trappings of modernity that threaten to overwhelm us and helps readers find a space for contemplation and creativity within their own lives.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
A Treasure
- By Rebecca on 11-11-12
-
Boundaries & Emotional Development
- Boost Self-Esteem & Assertiveness for Healthier Relationships with Inner Child Healing
- By: Dr. Sebastian Goff
- Narrated by: Mike Norgaard
- Length: 2 hrs and 12 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 81
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 72
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 71
Do you tend to struggle in personal or professional relationships? Do you find it difficult preventing others from walking all over you? Or do you simply feel that people don't treat you with enough respect? If so, then it is likely that you have trouble establishing functional boundaries with the people in your life. This book will inform the listener of the basis of boundary setting, through visiting their past, healing it, and finally moving beyond. It will demonstrate how to develop emotionally by improving self-esteem, which is a necessity for a healthy personality.
-
1 out of 5 stars
-
FAKE REVIEWS?
- By Rudy on 09-08-17
-
Toxic Parents
- Overcoming Their Hurtful Legacy and Reclaiming Your Life
- By: Craig Buck, Susan Forward
- Narrated by: Jo Anna Perrin
- Length: 10 hrs and 32 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 407
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 355
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 351
In this remarkable self-help guide, Dr. Susan Forward draws on case histories and the real-life voices of adult children of toxic parents to help you free yourself from the frustrating patterns of your relationship with your parents---and discover a new world of self-confidence, inner strength, and emotional independence.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
You mean I am not the crazy one?
- By Todd on 06-05-12
-
Parenting Your Adult Child
- Keeping the Faith (and Your Sanity)
- By: Susan V. Vogt
- Narrated by: Susan V. Vogt
- Length: 3 hrs and 53 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall2 out of 5 stars 5
-
Performance2.5 out of 5 stars 5
-
Story1.5 out of 5 stars 5
It's eighteen years after the birth of your child. He is now stronger than you. She is now taller than you. Either one of them can work a cell phone faster, text message, IM, or design a web page while you're still reading the newspaper. How did your baby grow up so quickly? As a parent, do you have anything left to say to your son or daughter? Is there anything your child still needs to hear from you - or will tolerate you saying?
-
1 out of 5 stars
-
Not what I expected either!
- By Steve on 10-05-14
-
The Betrayal Bond
- Breaking Free of Exploitive Relationships
- By: Patrick Carnes Ph.D.
- Narrated by: Paul Costanzo
- Length: 6 hrs and 56 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 54
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 45
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 45
In The Betrayal Bond, Patrick Carnes presents an in-depth study of these relationships, why they form, who is most susceptible, and how they become so powerful. He shows how to recognize when traumatic bonding has occurred and gives a checklist for examining relationships. He then provides steps to safely extricate from these relationships. This is a book you will turn to again and again for inspiration and insight, while professionals will find it an invaluable reference work.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Great
- By Anthony Smith on 04-23-18
-
Food: A Cultural Culinary History
- By: Ken Albala, The Great Courses
- Narrated by: Ken Albala
- Length: 18 hrs and 22 mins
- Original Recording
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 2,780
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 2,509
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 2,480
Eating is an indispensable human activity. As a result, whether we realize it or not, the drive to obtain food has been a major catalyst across all of history, from prehistoric times to the present. Epicure Jean-Anthelme Brillat-Savarin said it best: "Gastronomy governs the whole life of man."
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
One of my top 3 favorite courses!
- By Jessica on 12-28-13
-
The Science of Trust
- Emotional Attunement for Couples
- By: John M. Gottman Ph.D.
- Narrated by: J. Charles
- Length: 16 hrs and 25 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 288
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 249
-
Story4 out of 5 stars 246
For the past 35 years, John Gottman’s research has been internationally recognized for its unprecedented ability to precisely measure interactive processes in couples and to predict the long-term success or failure of relationships. In this groundbreaking book, he presents a new approach to understanding and changing couples: a fundamental social skill called “emotional attunement,” which describes a couple’s ability to fully process and move on from negative emotional events, ultimately creating a stronger relationship.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Technical version of his other book
- By SoCalSkills on 07-26-17
-
Codependent No More
- How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself
- By: Melody Beattie
- Narrated by: Christina Moore
- Length: 8 hrs and 24 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 3,322
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 2,589
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 2,560
A source of healing and inspiration for millions, this modern classic spent over three years on the New York Times best seller list and made codependency a household word. Codependent No More contains dozens of real-life examples, personal reflections, exercises, and self-tests to help you along the road to recovering your own life. For anyone struggling with a relationship involving alchoholism or other compulsive behaviors, this program points the way to healing and the renewal of hope.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Life changing perspective
- By Tracy Perkins on 05-12-16
-
Insecure in Love
- How Anxious Attachment Can Make You Feel Jealous, Needy, and Worried and What You Can Do About It
- By: Leslie Becker-Phelps PhD
- Narrated by: Susan Boyce
- Length: 6 hrs and 19 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 282
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 241
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 234
In Insecure in Love, you'll learn how to overcome attachment anxiety using compassionate self-awareness, a technique that can help you recognize your negative thoughts or unhealthy behavior patterns and respond to them in a nurturing way - rather than beating yourself up. You'll also learn how insecurity can negatively affect healthy dialog between you and your partner (or potential partners) and develop the skills needed to stop you from reverting back to old patterns of neediness and possessiveness.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Excellent book
- By Danika on 01-28-17
-
Business Boutique
- A Woman's Guide for Making Money Doing What She Loves
- By: Christy Wright
- Narrated by: Christy Wright
- Length: 9 hrs and 1 min
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 535
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 468
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 461
There is a movement of women stepping into their God-given gifts to make money doing what they love. If you're ready to join them, this is your handbook that will take the ideas in your head and the dream in your heart and turn them into action.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Taking back my words
- By Michelle Onuorah on 06-20-17
-
Hardwiring Happiness
- The New Brain Science of Contentment, Calm, and Confidence
- By: Rick Hanson
- Narrated by: Rick Hanson
- Length: 7 hrs and 40 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4 out of 5 stars 321
-
Performance4 out of 5 stars 267
-
Story4 out of 5 stars 265
Why is it easier to ruminate over hurt feelings than it is to bask in the warmth of feeling loved? Your brain was wired in such a way when it evolved, primed to learn quickly from bad experiences, but not so much from the good ones. It's an ancient survival mechanism that turned the brain into Velcro for the negative, but Teflon for the positive.
-
4 out of 5 stars
-
Creating & savoring positive experiences
- By Karen on 06-04-14
Publisher's Summary
There are many books out there that teach you how to handle your children after they graduate from diapers, but none tells you how to proceed once they graduate from high school. As new patterns emerge in the lives of young adults, parents find that their grown children have bigger problems than they did just a few years ago.
How to Raise Your Adult Children is a manual for anxious moms and dads. Whether confronting the question of setting a curfew for a college kid at home or paying for a 40-year-old daughter's wedding, two "been there, done that" moms give advice with an edge on a variety of emotionally and financially perilous situations, including:
- Your kid needs money - your money
- Your kid moves back home and stays home
- You know your child should not marry his or her significant other
- Your big children keep dumping their little children on you
Combining the wit of Emmy Award-winning writer Gail Parent and the insight of psychotherapist Susan Ende, this book answers questions most parents never imagined they would have to ask.
More from the same
What members say
Average Customer Ratings
Overall
-
3.5 out of 5 stars
-
5 Stars7
-
4 Stars5
-
3 Stars4
-
2 Stars2
-
1 Stars2
Performance
-
4 out of 5 stars
-
5 Stars6
-
4 Stars2
-
3 Stars4
-
2 Stars2
-
1 Stars0
Story
-
4 out of 5 stars
-
5 Stars4
-
4 Stars3
-
3 Stars1
-
2 Stars2
-
1 Stars0
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars
-
Story5 out of 5 stars
- Linda
- 10-13-18
excellent <br />
very relatable and excellent advise
I learned so many new things and how to deal with my adult kids
-
Overall2 out of 5 stars
-
Performance2 out of 5 stars
-
Story2 out of 5 stars
- Daphne Stevens
- 11-12-12
Condescending
Would you try another book from Gail Parent and Susan Ende and/or Karen White?
I couldn't finish this book. It's directed toward people in tremendous pain, but its tones quite disrespectful. It's answers are pat, and the authers seem to be too caught up in mutual congratulation to be of servive to the reader.
Would you ever listen to anything by Gail Parent and Susan Ende again?
No
Would you be willing to try another one of Karen White’s performances?
No
If you could play editor, what scene or scenes would you have cut from How to Raise Your Adult Children?
The repeated responses beginning with derogatory labels are unnecessary.
Any additional comments?
Read this if you're helped by pat, formulaic answers. In my experience as both a therapist and a mother, the challenge of dealing with adult children is extremely complex.
3 of 9 people found this review helpful