• How to Be a Gentleman

  • What Every Modern Man Needs to Know About Manners and Behaviors to Attract Women
  • By: Niel Schreiber
  • Narrated by: Michael Goldsmith
  • Length: 3 hrs and 1 min
  • 4.3 out of 5 stars (68 ratings)

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Publisher's Summary

Should you open the door for a lady? Is being kind enough? Can anyone learn to be a real gentleman?

In today's society, being a gentleman isn't as simple as it used to be. Advances in equality and changes in style have made the rules harder to define and follow. How to Be a Gentleman: What Every Modern Man Needs to Know About Manners and Behaviors to Attract Women is more than a simple etiquette book. It's a path toward a more confident and attractive way of thinking and living.

With this third edition, you'll learn more than what to do and what not to do. You'll learn when, why, how, and what is appropriate in every situation including:

  • What real generosity is and when and how to show it
  • How proper etiquette includes actions, appearance, and attitude
  • What you shouldn't say or do in every situation
  • How patience helps develop meaningful relationships
  • Why knowledge and literacy are essential
  • How empathy can change your way of thinking and actions for good
  • Why chivalry and equality are crucial to respecting women
  • How positive body language leads to confidence
  • What having a healthy mental outlook can do for you and your relationships

Start your journey to becoming a true gentleman today with the third edition of How to Be a Gentleman: What Every Modern Man Needs to Know About Manners and Behaviors to Attract Women. This self-improvement book isn't about becoming someone you're not. It's about staying true to yourself while respecting your society and every person you encounter. With each chapter, you'll learn to master a fundamental aspect of posture, behavior, or appearance that makes a real gentleman. Don't let a simple misstep keep you from developing meaningful relationships with women. Get this audiobook now.

©2017 Lean Stone Publishing (P)2017 Lean Stone Publishing
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Very generic

Everything that the author writes is true and I couldn't agree more with him. It is just that it would be very helpful only to someone who grew up in the forest. All his points are valid. It is just all common sense.

Not worth it to spend your time and money to listen to someone telling you that you should dress properly, respect women, be generous etc. If you are interested in being a gentleman (which is probably the reason you are buying this book) you already know these things.

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The book for the man who wants to better himself

I find this book to be perfect for the man who wants to better himself.
I really appreciate the opportunity for such great life advice, and the narrator does a great job.
I only wish it had better audio quality.

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a little ruff

could finish the book past chapter 2. due to the man's voice. Also they were beating around the bush.

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The guys voice killed this book, it was a chore to

I struggled to get through the book. The content was alot of common sence not usefull at all.

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A voice that fits the narrative

listened to it twice. will probably listen again. learned a lot about being a gentleman in specific detail. the narrator spoke with a gentleman quality giving the text higher depth. the author wrote with percision and care to the reader.

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Good content but tough to get through

Unfortunately, the narration of this book is really tough to get through. The narrator is robotic and the inflection as well as the pauses make it a difficult to follow.

The content is very good however and the author has some very good suggestions on how to be a gentleman.

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Great start off really inspires me

I get inspired in reality I hope I can get good stuff and I'll keep you posted about the changes in me in the future 💯 I give it a thumbs up 👍

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The narrator’s voice is nauseating

I would NOT buy this because I can’t listen to the narrator beyond 30 seconds! Argh

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I done told you this will make you smarter.

I done told you this will make you dress better. What that boy talking that gibarish Aha.

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  • S. K. Dunstan
  • 07-17-22

Too orientated around pleasing or pursuing women

There’s a wealth of useful advice in this book.
I’d have preferred it to be constructed more around the pursuit of improving oneself, rather than having it contextualised within the framework of attracting a woman. This will happen, if you want it to, once you invest in yourself.

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  • Ladz
  • 04-24-22

Excellent book

Excellent book. I need to come back to it more often. It contains gems of truth & wisdom.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 07-06-20

Chivalry is not dead

This is truly one of a kind.
It has distinguished vibe.
Makes you feel like true gentleman.
Narrator really makes it worth of listening. Gonna go through this one second time.

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