Happiness: A Memoir

The Crooked Little Road to Semi-Ever After
Narrated by: Heather Harpham
Length: 11 hrs and 14 mins
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A shirt-grabbing love story that follows a one-of-a-kind family through twists of fate that require nearly unimaginable choices.

Happiness begins with a charming courtship between hopelessly attracted opposites: Heather, a world-roaming California girl, and Brian, an intellectual, homebody writer, kind and slyly funny but loath to leave his Upper West Side studio. Their magical interlude ends, full stop, when Heather becomes pregnant - Brian is sure he loves her, only he doesn't want kids. Heather returns to California to deliver their daughter alone, buoyed by family and friends. Mere hours after Gracie's arrival, Heather's bliss is interrupted when a nurse wakes her: "Get dressed. Your baby is in trouble."

This is not how Heather had imagined new motherhood - alone, heartsick, an unexpectedly solo caretaker of a baby who smelled "like sliced apples and salted pretzels" but might be perilously ill. Brian reappears as Gracie's condition grows dire; together, Heather and Brian have to decide what they are willing to risk to ensure their girl sees adulthood.

The grace and humor that ripple through Harpham's writing transform the dross of heartbreak and parental fears into a clear-eyed, warm-hearted view of the world. Profoundly moving and subtly written, Happiness radiates in many directions - new, romantic love; gratitude for a beautiful, inscrutable world; deep, abiding friendship; the passion a parent has for a child; and the many unlikely ways to build a family. Ultimately, it's a story about love and happiness in their many crooked configurations.

©2017 Heather Harpham (P)2017 Audible, Inc.

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Very detailed, author comes off pretentious

If you love every little description and detail as you read them or listen to it, then go for it. This type of writing had me bouncing my leg with impatience looking at the minutes count down until this book was done. It was for a book club so Listened until the end, otherwise, I would not have finished it. Also, be prepared for some doubt about the authors idea of what's important in life as generous people donate for her daughters transplant all while she stocks her walk in closet with Chardonnay and chocolates. I found her pretentious.

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Dragged On

I started off liking this book, but then it came to a plateau...never really peaking. The first half was interesting, but later dragged on. I wouldn’t recommend it.

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Long & Tedious. If Only She'd Had a Good Editor.

When I started the book, I thought, "What a good writer!" By the time I was halfway through I thought, well, she might have been an okay writer, but she really needed a better editor. She's in love with her own words. She's in love with her journals, in which she must have recorded every nuance, every cute word spoken by her children, every anxious fantasy, every argument with her husband AND THEN PUT IT ALL IN THIS BOOK. A good editor would have told her that if she includes everything, readers will be exhausted by what she writes. By the time her child was suffering, I had upped the speed on the reading, and instead of being moved, I was indifferent, eager to have this tedious accounting of every detail of this woman's life OVER. By including everything, readers will feel less, rather than more, deeply about what her child and her family went through. I was the perfect candidate to love this book. I've been a midwife, I've known seriously ill children, my family has been through very tough medical things and has more to come. I have a half-hour left to listen and I cannot wait for this to be over. This could have been a brilliant, moving book. In the end, I cannot recommend it.

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Great Book, Okay Narration

Would you listen to Happiness: A Memoir again? Why?

No i wouldn't

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If the narrator didn't keep yelling for no reason. It kind of ruined the experience for me

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Like Being At A Riveting One-Woman Show

As a motherless non-mother, I didn’t expect to identify this much with a memoir about raising a sick child, about the impossible choices parenting requires, about having to hold fear and hope in the same hand. But the writing is so blazingly good, true, and precise, that sentence after sentence had me nodding with recognition: Yes, I know this exactly. Heather Harpham is a writer of such ability and intelligence that her struggle becomes your struggle; her revelation about the true state of happiness becomes your revelation. Hearing it in her own voice only makes that connection more personal.

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Should be required reading...

Read this book. Listen to this book. Immerse yourself in this life-affirming, heart-warming true story told with unflinching honesty and humor. You will fall in love with (just about) every character that graces its pages. Please don't be afraid to read a story about a sick child. Because it is not a story about a sick child. It is a story about a beautiful family. Another listener had a minor quibble with medical terminology. As a physician who spent months on bone marrow transplant units during my training, I did not register a single false note. In fact, I learned more about the emotional aspect of the transplant experience from the perspective of both parents and patients by listening to this book than I did from hundreds of hours caring for similar patients and their families. Ms. Harpham’s remarkable storytelling ability is exemplified by the glimpse of the world we are given through the eyes of her daughter Gracie, the small, sensitive, extremely bright child at the center of the drama. Gracie's relationship with the IV pole to which she is tethered is, alone, worth the price of admission. This unpretentious story should be required reading for medical students, interns, residents, attending physicians, nurses, social workers and all of the myriad healthcare personnel in whom families like Heather's put their trust and their lives on a daily basis. And finally, kudos to the author for a wonderful reading. I can't imagine anyone else doing this book justice.

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Christ 🙄

Heather seems to really love the poetry of her own words. I couldn’t get past the first chapter of her overly saturated poetic life. Calm down, girl.

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Boring!

Too drawn out! I even listened to it at 1.5 speed and couldn't get through it fast enough. Prob.would have enjoyed an "abridged" version better. Plot line was interesting -- but far too much drag out of the details.

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Loved and hated that the story ended...

This author, in my book, (no pun intended) has one of the most forgiving hearts. I admire that immensely! That she totally owns her shortcomings in every facet of her life is something most of us never even think of. Not without years of therapy anyway.
The delivery in words and tone made this journey very easy to hear, as painful as it was. I found myself avoiding germs and then catching myself. My heart felt like boiled mash at times. I celebrated out loud during the joyful parts. I cried silent, ugly tears over losses.
This book is for anyone, especially parents or loved ones, experiencing a long battle with severely ill children. Or for anyone like me-who loves a story told by a narrator who can deliver such a moving story in a gentle, but matter-of-fact manner.
I loved the story so much that I hated for it to end. I'm hoping there will be a sequel of everyday experiences about this family.

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Great story (minus the language)

Unlike some others, I appreciated the great detail. My niece also went through a stem cell transplant (cancer) and ultimately did not make it. The descriptions of the transplant timeline, the emotions they all experienced, the support they received from family and friends...it all had me riveted. But every F bomb was like an assault to my ears and I wanted to stop listening every time. For this reason, I can’t recommend it to friends, which is a shame.

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