People spent ENORMOUS amounts of time and energy looking for the "right" one and are frequently looking in the wrong place, or putting responsibility outside of them. There isn't a Master Puppeter just itching to bring you the perfect partner. It's more of a preparation game than you think.

And you might be looking in the wrong place and not having fun while doing it.

You know what good head is, but your real head gets in the way of the orgasmic bliss of a good life all the time. What's waiting for you beyond your daily thinking which is distorted by over-thinking anxiety is the life of freedom and contentment you crave. How can you even begin to get past the harm done to you that you're still stewing over? You get clear and you get calm and you try the path of the WAY. The way is in your body because your body is the ONLY route to connection. Your thinking will give you unsatisfactory head again and again - and you'll stay for that til the better end when you'd leave a poor lover long ago. Healing is waiting...why ain't you moving instead of thinking more?

I know, you have a lot of rights you feel like people are going to take away from you.

You spend a lot of time asserting those rights in defense of the fear others hold over you.

However, have you recently stopped to consider what you DO have the right to do but should stop because it doesn't actually create any more space for your rights - while it also pisses people off?

Think about it a new set of anti-rights that might actually liberate you FULLY.

If you don't have a vision, it's hard to establish a goal. This is so simply because without imagination, your end result has no spark...no capacity to magnify the world or people.

Your brand is YOU - who you are, how you speak, what you want, and how you'll get where you're going. It's the concept - the why - behind being alive. And it needs to get into the world and shake things up!

If you're unclear about your vision, or you have a vision but don't understand how to get to your brand from there, then watch my latest podcast where I'm joined by Brand Strategist & Mindset Coach Lisa Guillot (Find Your Clear Vision podcast). Lisa's concept of a C.L.E.A.R. vision will spark your imagination and help you get to the next step in creating the greatest concept of your lifetime - YOU!

You could be missing out on great vocational purpose and fulfilling work because you think of work as a four-letter word. The conundrum with this is that you'll spend way too many hours trying to GET something out of work while giving NOTHING to it. In other words, the days are flat...the mission useless...the people not measuring up.

All of this would be resolved if you could change your perception of work and transform it into something you really give a s**t about.

Ahriana Platten (https://www.youtube.com/@asoulfullworld) has a great perspective on how to be a Wise Woman (wisewomanguide.com) at work, even if your energy is masculine.

Having the experience of being a businesswoman AND coach, Ahriana sees what's needed to change the energy of do, work hard, be smart and be productive for the growth of modern business with reverence and space for the feminine AND masculine.

We agree it's not about hiring more women. Have a listen...

Learning to BE with life will help you balance your energy for proper and most maximum effect. If brokenness happens to you, if you feel darkness and despair, your over-intellectual mind will lead you to over-thinking which augments your negative feelings. Most things are small experiences that you keep mulling over and fighting, which makes them larger and most painful. When you remind yourself that being broken up can be worked through, your surrender makes each experience less painful. The most painful experiences SHOULD change you by breaking you and creating pain. Then, the pain creates innumerable heights of greater self-acceptance. You must accept that life will break you open and dealing with it by stopping your feelings is a way of avoiding the problem and, subsequently, the solution. Not to mention, there are thousands of people in your life that you'd like to save and when you're broken open you have the empathy to truly do good for these people. When you change, you can change others. What can you do to make a difference by finding out who you really are?

Hope is highly useful for keeping us going emotionally and mentally. Hoping for the Best is a great attitude. But hope, in and of itself, is nothing but a feeling going neither up or down nor into good or bad. When you add simple actions, the hope become a bona fide strong hold for living a truly succesful life from the inside out. We are only the energy we are creating and hope is a foundation that needs action steps to move us into the life we want. What you want cannot be thought after as much as it needs to be energetically manifested by living your life from reflection, vision and embodiment of love and desire.

What you want is available, you just need to stay connected within and living your purpose.

We all have darkness inside. That's never been the problem. The real problem is the mis-use and misunderstanding of darkness...of how and why it can be beneficial.

Along with that, when you are trying to relate to your darkness, blank spots and lack of self-esteem, you'll find people who will validate you too well, thereby helping you stay stuck while saying they're helping you get out of it. Belonging is good for validation, but NOT when you can't seem to find a way toward the light.

It will become more and more important to learn how to intuitively grow and self-actualize over the next few years. The outside world has changed and you can no longer live externally first, it has to be from the inside out.

Chasing a mania of excitement and validation will only serve to help you fall more deeply into the loneliness of despair. But there is a place inside you and out of the quicksan you've been drowing in. It's your true depth - where sanity exsits and love can take you back to your Highest Self which is powerful and purposeful.