Two options in front of you, months at the crossroads, and every person you ask leaves you exactly where you were. In this fourth episode of the Getting Unstuck series: what you are actually collecting when you ask around (confirmation, not information), the two questions that work like a brake you are pressing yourself, the guarantee hiding inside the word right, why the first hard part convinces you that you chose wrong, and the ten-year question that lets you choose today, standing right where you are.

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Part one: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdZGSQr9kBE Part two: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l5ihPiQ_QOI Part three: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mKLdHsbgslY

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You sit down to start, and all of it arrives at once. The thing is not too big. You are lifting all of it at the same time. In this third episode of the Getting Unstuck series: what overwhelm actually is (the carrying, not the task), the next visible move, the two-minute test, and the deciding-once principle that makes starting almost automatic.

Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mKLdHsbgslY The Headlights System card (free): https://resources.francoisesterhuizen.com/headlights-system/ All free tools: https://resources.francoisesterhuizen.com/

Part one: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdZGSQr9kBE Part two: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l5ihPiQ_QOI