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Herbert Fensterheim Ph.D.
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©1975 Jean Baer and Herbert Fensterheim, Ph.D. (P)1989 Audio Renaissance Tapes, Inc.Listeners also enjoyed...
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- Marc M Thomas
- 11-10-09
Short, to the point and very helpful.
I find both the audio quality and the content quite good- sorry previous rewiewers.
Its true, it doesnt include a workbook which is mentioned often but IF YOU REALLY LISTEN it offers much advice.
I guess the value lies in how one wishes to explore and work with the material. I found about 7-8 psychological problems beeing discussed with quite good advice on how to change oneself. Of course, one has to work on the self- it doesnt have lenghty texts to stroke the conciousnes. It does gives practical advice even without the workbook.
I liked it very much. Thank you.
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- Shalisha Alston
- 01-02-19
Very Practical Tools
It's short and easy to implement the techniques. I like that I can listen to it and be done with it during my gym workout.
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- Tomas
- 08-03-05
Unlistenable
The contents may be fine, but the quality of sound is a disgrace. I would not dare to offer this for sale.
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- Dimonica McClain
- 01-16-19
Not too bad
Very Short and to the point. I wish the workbook was available. I feel like I missed out on valuable training because the author constantly refers the reader to the missing workbook.
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