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Deceived: Facing the Trauma of Sexual Betrayal
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- Length: 9 hrs and 2 mins
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Publisher's Summary
Multiple affairs, compulsive pornography, prostitutes, and voyeurism - no matter their “drug” of choice, men who act out sexually leave their partners reeling in fear, rage, shame, and isolation. But there is hope. Best-selling author Claudia Black’s revised edition of her classic work Deceived offers women in relationships plagued by sexual betrayal the validation and guidance to create a new path of clarity, direction, and confidence.
Dr. Black uses stories of women who have been through a wide variety of experiences to help listeners develop the understanding and skills to confront the trauma of the betrayal. She offers them the opportunity to shift from their overwhelming emotions to action derived from self-esteem and integrity. Deceived encourages women to proactively emerge from traumatic stress and emotional isolation and discover their power to facilitate their own healing, allowing them to move forward in their lives.
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Overall5 out of 5 stars
- faulkners407
- 02-28-20
eye opening
this book is a hard listen. But eye opening. anyone walking the journey as a partner of a sex addict. living in betrayal trauma. please listen to this book. i also reccomend the adult chair podcast, and the place we find ourselves.
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- Sara
- 03-22-21
I'm not crazy
Thank you so much for a relatable and healing listen. The prompts at the end of each chapter helped my insight and healing. Definitely recommend.
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- Healing from Loss, Abandonment, and Fear
- By: Claudia Black PhD
- Narrated by: Randye Kaye
- Length: 7 hrs and 43 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 5
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 5
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Story5 out of 5 stars 5
In this new edition of her best-selling Changing Course, Claudia Black extends a helping hand to individuals overcoming the complex trauma of being raised with addiction in the family.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Meaningful, life changing read
- By Ella on 03-02-23
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The Betrayal Bind
- How to Heal When the Person You Love the Most Has Hurt You the Worst
- By: Michelle Mays LPC CSAT-S
- Narrated by: Sarah Welborn
- Length: 10 hrs and 25 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 3
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 3
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 2
What happens when your partner, your primary person, in an instant, becomes a source of danger and pain? The Betrayal Bind introduces new language, concepts, and imagery to explore the crucial relational dilemma that betrayed partners face when their significant other is unsafe to connect to, yet connection is the key to healing.
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4 out of 5 stars
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Great Info!
- By twbme on 06-05-23
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Intimate Deception
- Healing the Wounds of Sexual Betrayal
- By: Dr. Sheri Keffer
- Narrated by: Dr. Sheri Keffer
- Length: 10 hrs and 54 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 203
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 173
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Story5 out of 5 stars 171
Nothing destroys trust like sexual betrayal. Beyond broken vows, a woman who discovers that her husband has been viewing pornography or having an affair must deal with devastating blows to her self-image and self-worth. She must grapple with the fact that the man she thought she knew has lied and deceived her. She may even bear the brunt of shame and judgment when the people around her find out.
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4 out of 5 stars
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Great. But too Female Centric
- By Gary Shlifer on 10-26-18
By: Dr. Sheri Keffer
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Mending a Shattered Heart: A Guide for Partners of Sex Addicts
- By: Stefanie Carnes
- Narrated by: Deb Thomas
- Length: 9 hrs and 2 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 107
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 91
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When your partner betrays, what are the first steps to picking up the pieces of your shattered heart? Many unsuspecting people wake up every day to discover their loved one, the one person whom they are supposed to trust completely, has been living a life of lies and deceit, because they suffer from a disease: sex addiction. This is a disease shrouded in secrecy and shame. This is your go-to guide for what to do when you discover your partner is a sex addict.
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2 out of 5 stars
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- By Amazon Customer on 03-06-20
By: Stefanie Carnes
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Exaholics
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- By: Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby LMFT BCC
- Narrated by: Jennifer Jill Araya
- Length: 9 hrs and 24 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 332
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1 out of 5 stars
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Don’t waste your time
- By Sarah El on 09-08-20
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Bradshaw On: The Family
- A New Way of Creating Solid Self-Esteem
- By: John Bradshaw
- Narrated by: Alan Bomar Jones
- Length: 10 hrs and 11 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 146
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Performance4 out of 5 stars 124
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 122
Based on the public television series of the same name, Bradshaw On: The Family is John Bradshaw's seminal work on the dynamics of families that has sold more than a million copies since its original publication in 1988. Here, you will discover the cause of emotionally impaired families. You will learn how unhealthy rules of behavior are passed down from parents to children, and the destructive effect this process has on our society.
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4 out of 5 stars
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Helpful book; WRONG narrator
- By Brian on 09-07-12
By: John Bradshaw
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Codependency for Dummies, 2nd Edition
- By: Darlene Lancer
- Narrated by: Courtney Patterson
- Length: 13 hrs and 3 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 60
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 51
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 50
Written in plain English and packed with sensitive, authoritative information, Codependency for Dummies, 2nd Edition describes the history, symptoms, causes, and relationship dynamics of codependency. The majority of the book is devoted to healing and lays out a clear plan for recovery with exercises, practical advice, and daily reminders to help you know, honor, protect, and express yourself, with new chapters on working the 12 Steps to recover from codependency and how therapists/coaches/nurses are affected by codependency.
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5 out of 5 stars
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This book feels like a massage to the codependents
- By Ghada on 09-16-19
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Absent: How to Heal from Emotionally Toxic Parents
- A Grown-Up’s Guide to Healing from Childhood Neglect, Manipulation, Trauma and Abusive Emotional Behavior
- By: Olivia K. Rice
- Narrated by: Janna L Cardia
- Length: 3 hrs and 54 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 33
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 32
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 31
Do you feel like your relationship with your parents is always bringing you down? Do they blame you for their problems, for being a thorn in their shoes, always endeavoring to make you feel like the most massive burden? Abusive parents tend to share common traits - they are constantly negatively reactive, lack empathy, are extremely controlling, always critical, and continuously transfer blame to you. If your parent ticks any of those boxes, then you are likely already aware of who and what you're dealing with. But from here on, things can only get better if you let them
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5 out of 5 stars
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I really appreciate the action steps provided.
- By John Wesley on 06-04-21
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Take Your Life Back
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- By: Stephen Arterburn M.Ed, David Stoop Ph.D.
- Narrated by: Tom Parks
- Length: 6 hrs and 1 min
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 147
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 129
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 125
From the creators of the best-selling Life Recovery series, Take Your Life Back is a groundbreaking look at how to overcome unhealthy relationships and love others well. Counselors Stephen Arterburn and David Stoop offer personal examples, clinical insight, and scriptural truth to help you navigate your toughest relationships.
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3 out of 5 stars
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Depressing
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- Length: 9 hrs and 2 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 107
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 91
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 90
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2 out of 5 stars
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 332
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1 out of 5 stars
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- Length: 10 hrs and 11 mins
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 146
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Performance4 out of 5 stars 124
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 122
Based on the public television series of the same name, Bradshaw On: The Family is John Bradshaw's seminal work on the dynamics of families that has sold more than a million copies since its original publication in 1988. Here, you will discover the cause of emotionally impaired families. You will learn how unhealthy rules of behavior are passed down from parents to children, and the destructive effect this process has on our society.
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4 out of 5 stars
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Helpful book; WRONG narrator
- By Brian on 09-07-12
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- Narrated by: Courtney Patterson
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 60
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 51
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 50
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5 out of 5 stars
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5 out of 5 stars
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