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Beyond Consequences, Logic and Control
- Narrated by: Reid Sollberger
- Length: 4 hrs and 42 mins
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- Categories: Health & Wellness, Children's Health
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Publisher's Summary
This first volume of Beyond Consequences lays out the basics of this revolutionary and simple parenting paradigm. Easy to listen to and filled with practical examples, this book will equip you to start parenting from a place of unconditional love and begin the road to healing for your family. Whether you are parenting your biological, adopted or foster children, the Beyond Consequences relationship model shows how to connect with your children and bring your family peace and healing.
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- nicholas
- 06-22-17
confusing dialogue
it was confusing to listen to you going back and forth between the "traditional" and the " new view". you should have only written about the new way that you get works best. The narration was fine.
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- LMG
- 11-11-18
One of the best in its category
This book and The Connected Child (Purvis) are my top 2 recommendations for foster and adoptive parents. (I'm a fost/adopt social worker.) We consistently get feedback about how helpful they are to the parents. Easy to read. Helpful to read over and over because you understand more/differently each time.
#Foster #Adopt #Parenting #tagsgiving #sweepstakes
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- Stacy Mccaughn
- 06-28-19
Great way to re-look at attachment
Love this info and the different and less oppositional approach to attachment intervention. Great book. Also consider "The boy who was raised as a dog" by David Perry.
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- Christopher Arnold
- 12-17-17
Amazing!
I love this book! I love the examples of traditional views next to the new view. I was able to see from my own childhood the times my parents had used traditional parenting and remember feeling more out of control. I have been using the new ways with my daughter and they have been working amazingly well. She feels better, I feel better!
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- Sarah h.
- 08-12-20
Read this!
If you’re struggling with a defiant, angry, hurt child with attachment issues then this is a must read.
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- Minda Pacheco
- 02-11-20
enlightened
helped me understand why my son does what he does and why I react the way I do
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- Sarah B
- 09-07-19
Great parenting advice kept brief
This is exactly what a self-help book should be: brief, to the point, understandable, do-able, with lots of examples.
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- WeedGarden
- 06-08-19
Amazing!
This book is truly life changing and downright amazing!!! I’ve read quite a few parenting books and this one tops the charts for me! This is it.
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- Amazon Customer
- 05-18-19
A must for all parents!
This book should be a required read for all individuals involved in raising children in any way!
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- Marilyn Bader-Nesse
- 04-21-19
Enlightening
Should be mandatory reading for those going into field of trauma work with children, also those considering foster-adopt children in the system.