The Shift

Change Your Perspective, Not Yourself

De: Tinx

Narrado por: Tinx

The lifestyle creator, advice expert, and host of the It’s Me, Tinx podcast shares her hilarious and (sometimes brutally) honest wisdom on how to shift your approach to life, step into your confidence, and enjoy the journey.

It’s time to get laser-focused on what makes us feel happy and fulfilled. Tinx wants to take your hand and guide you to a new way of thinking about life, love, happiness, and friendships—where dating evolves into an era of self-discovery and not just a means to an end, sharing wisdom becomes a collective power, and chaos turns into a source of creativity. Making small but mighty shifts in thinking can be a tool for personal growth that fuels you instead of fatigues you. The point is to know yourself, discover what fulfills you, and have fun along the way.

In The Shift, Tinx collects all her revolutionary theories and hilarious personal anecdotes in one place, presenting you with a guide to simple mindset shifts that will completely change the way you approach decision-making and relationships.

Through her own stories, from the good to the bad, Tinx helps you better understand how to step into your power and own self-worth. Some say you cannot love another before you learn to love yourself: Tinx teaches you how to do both at the same time. And she does it while making you laugh out loud.

With her signature wit and candor, Tinx shows you:
-How to change your scarcity mindset
-How to understand and employ her famous Box Theory dating concept
-How to feed the things that fulfill you
-How living well is the best revenge
-How therapy can reframe struggles into strengths
-How to break up with dignity
-How knowing your worth makes you a better friend and partner

©2023 Christina Najjar (P)2023 Simon & Schuster, Inc.

Reseñas de la Crítica

"At the top of this audiobook, Tinx, an influencer previously known as Christina Najjar, says she’s going to provide some “holy fucking shit breakthroughs” you can use on a daily basis. And I have to say, her advice is pretty damn good — perhaps the most grounded and salient wisdom about trusting yourself and simply adjusting your perspective I’ve heard in a long time. It helps that Tinx is both direct and self-effacing as she’s offering it up." (Marshall Heyman)

Required reading

I am 32 and wish I had this book in my 20s. That being said, it’s serves as a great reminder and refresher about being independent and looking forward. Tinx has a great perspective and this is all amazing advice

Authentic

She’s 100% true and authentic. I am so grateful to her. Real and someone who “gets it.” Thank you.

Finally, the voice of our generation!

If only this advice, and shifts, had been around to save me from myself during my 20s! The book is fun and enjoyable but the content is serious business- pointing out societal flaws and how women can empower themselves to overcome the obstacles/pressure/patriarchy. My twin daughters are 15 months old and this will be the first book I give them when they are old enough to get it!! Thank you Tinx! 💜💜💜

A must listen!

In her usual wit and funny banter, Tinx continues to give the best advice - a must listen for all girls single or not and of all ages

Every woman should read!

I am probably not her target audience here as I’m in my late 30’s and not in the dating scene. However, this book was incredible and I LOVE that Tinx read it herself for the audio book. Well done Tinx, can’t wait for the next one!

If there’s one thing you gift yourself this year, let it be this book.

I now couldn’t imagine reading this book without the distinct humor, wit, and sincerity of the author’s voice. Not only does she just get it, but she shares her stories and advice so vulnerably that you can’t help but feel seen. And she’s funny as hell.

Do yourself a favor — buy it. The best version of you deserves.

Love yourself, have grace, be a good friend...

This was a good book that helped reground me in dating and giving myself the space to just be. Knowing I don't have to settle and that there are some fun things in life that a girl needs like her RMW, her ESB, and a vibe about herself that is top notch! Enjoyed this! Took notes. Enjoyed the glossary at the end as well.

You’re never too old to hear the wise words

Wow, I’m crying. Just like Tinx said, advice she wished she had when she was 19. Same. I will be referring back and listening on a semi-regular basis when I’m having a menty B over life experiences. Practical, real advice that really is going against what is millennials were taught (or not taught at all). Thank you Tinx for putting a positive & intentional message out into our world.

Loved

Thank you tinx I wish I had this 4 years ago! But still resonates in my late twenties

I just had to get the audiobook too!

I’m an OG listener of “It’s me Tinx” pod so obviously had to preorder her book! After reading the second chapter I just knew it would be an even better experience listening to Tinx read it, so double buyer here! Great stuff in this book… sharing with all my single gals! And such a cute book to have on a shelf!