Also a Poet

A Memoir

De: Ada Calhoun

Narrado por: Ada Calhoun, Lili Taylor, Josephine Brill

A staggering memoir from New York Times best-selling author Ada Calhoun tracing her fraught relationship with her father and their shared obsession with a great poet, featuring exclusive archival audio from literary and art world legends, living and dead.

When Ada Calhoun stumbled upon old cassette tapes of interviews her father, celebrated art critic Peter Schjeldahl, had conducted for his never-completed biography of poet Frank O’Hara, she set out to finish the book her father had started 40 years earlier.

As a lifelong O’Hara fan who grew up amid his bohemian cohort in the East Village, Calhoun thought the project would be easy, even fun, but the deeper she dove, the more she had to face not just O’Hara’s past, but also her father’s and her own.

The result is a groundbreaking and kaleidoscopic memoir that weaves compelling literary history with a moving, honest, and tender story of a complicated father-daughter bond. Also a Poet explores what happens when we want to do better than our parents, yet fear what that might cost us; when we seek their approval, yet mistrust it.

In reckoning with her unique heritage, as well as providing new insights into the life of one of our most important poets, Calhoun offers a brave and hopeful meditation on parents and children, artistic ambition, and the complexities of what we leave behind.

©2022 Ada Calhoun (P)2022 Audible Originals

Unique, Gripping

Ada succeeded in creating a unique piece of literature. All stories intertwined, holding one’s attention. This book was made to be listened to because of the recordings though I also have a hard-copy to read to fully understand the recordings.

Gonna teach this

I teach a nonfiction gen ed class. This is going in! So interesting and well done

Audible shines!

This is great book but it’s made even better by the audiobook format. The interviews which provide the structure of this book would not be same without the actual voices which we hear here. This book has opened so many directions for me - Frank O’Hara but also the bigger New York literary scene. Thank you!

one of the best audible listens of all time?

why would you read this when you can listen to Ada share her wonderful story and include the tapes and original recordings. I appreciate masterfully she threaded the various parts of this narrative together. Chapter 26 about her feelings about being a writer and never living up to her father reverberated (even though neither of my parents are writers, or even readers for that matter, I think so many of us can relate to all the what ifs of how we fantasize we could be better). What a special memoir that deserves to be celebrated!

Profound

Overall: if it spikes your attention, read it! Some parts became tedious as the depiction of bohemian New York boomers wasn’t particularly interesting to me. Towards the end, the book goes deeper into the complexity of a father- daughter relationship. It’s a profound and beautiful book.

4/5 stars for performance because I really had trouble understanding the audio of the original tapes used

Left me in tears

I love Frank O'Hara. I love Ada Calhoun. What a gorgeous meditation on art, family, and literary fame. Thank you, Ada, for once again bringing us another searching, honest, and potent book. May we have more Frank O'Haras and more Adas in this world.

Listened straight thru- then replayed next day!

Ms. Ada Calhoun:

Can not speak high enough of both you & your fathers contribution. In the audible edition, most quotations are in fact original recordings from 1977 / 1978 discovered in the basement storage or Ada's parents NYC brownstone. As a struggling author and poet myself struggling 20+ year with mental health, addiction, relationships & general recklessness, this story found me at the right time. It displays the bohemian and New York School culture into vivid focus like the warm saturations of a timepiece cinematography. And the personal connections of those involved in its making validates its existence. Thank you Ada. -Benji from St. Pete, FL.

Therapeutic

The author gives voice to a fascinating and heartbreaking dynamic which is one flavor of being the child of an alcoholic. It’s not the alcohol part that is hard. The author shows the reader it is the rejection from the self-involved parent that stings over and over again. Really well written and approachable.

Audiobook adds so much!

I own both the audible version and the hardcover of this wonderful hybrid memoir. Both reading and listening to this work is a great experience but the audible version includes excerpts from Peter Schjeldahl’s interviews as he researched the life of Frank O’Hara. Both are great.

Wow.

What an absolutely beautiful book. Apart from the lovey writing, it made me think a lot about what it means to be a father. The ending was so bittersweet and so poignant. This one left a mark.