You Put Down the Drink, But Now You Can’t Stop Thinking About Food. Here’s Why.

If you’ve traded your nightly wine for nightly ice cream binges, you’re not alone.

And no, it’s not just about willpower or “getting your act together.”

In this episode, I sit down with Ali Shapiro, creator of the Truce with Food methodology, to unpack the real reasons we turn to food and sugar in recovery—and it goes way deeper than you think.

Ali shares her personal journey from childhood cancer and pesticide exposure to developing a complicated relationship with food that mirrored so many of the patterns we see in addiction.

We dive into the difference between food addiction and disordered eating, why belonging (not hunger) drives most of our food choices, and the four emotional triggers that send us straight to the pantry.

This conversation will change how you think about food forever.

We talk about the TAIL framework (Tiredness, Anxiety, Inadequacy, Loneliness), why protein is your secret weapon against sugar cravings, and how self-trust—not perfection—is the real foundation of recovery from any substance.

If you’ve ever felt crazy around food, ashamed of your eating habits, or wondered why you can’t just “eat normal,” this episode is for you.

HERE ARE THE 3 KEY TAKEAWAYS FROM THIS EPISODE:

1️⃣ Food Isn’t the Problem—Belonging Is — Understanding this invisible string changes everything.

2️⃣ The TAIL Framework Reveals Your True Triggers — When you can identify what job food is doing for you, you can address the real need underneath.

3️⃣ Protein Is Your Anti-Craving Superpower — It’s not about willpower—it’s about physiology.

Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

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Related Episode: What No One Tells You About Your Eating Habits — Food and fitness expert, Adam Gilbert, sets the record straight on the most common pitfalls of making lifestyle changes and how to overcome them.

How to Stay Sober When You Can’t Control Your Family

The holidays don’t threaten your sobriety. Your addiction to control does.

In this episode, we’re tossing out the traditional holiday survival guides — no more tips about mocktails or leaving early. Instead, we’re talking about the real threat to your peace: the compulsive need to manage everything and everyone around you.

Because if you’re honest, it’s not just Uncle Bob at the punch bowl stressing you out — it’s your internal pressure to make everything go just right.

This isn’t about avoiding triggers. It’s about mastering yourself.
You’ll learn 8 things you need to STOP trying to control this season — and the ONE thing you can control that changes everything.

If you’re ready to protect your peace and stop abandoning yourself in the name of keeping the peace, this is your guide.

🎯 In this episode:

• How trying to control others’ drinking is still an addiction behavior
• The emotional cost of managing everyone’s comfort but your own
• How to set boundaries without apologizing or backtracking
• Why “perfect holidays” are a trap — and what success actually looks like
• The ONE thing you can control that makes sobriety sustainable

This is your permission slip to let go of chaos and reclaim your sanity.
You don’t need a strategy. You need ownership.

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🚨 BONUS: Don’t miss this Friday’s drop from The Unlimited Life™ Starter Series — 10 powerful episodes to rebuild your rhythm, structure, and emotional peace before the New Year.

Avoid these traps so your recovery doesn’t become a revolving door.

Sobriety is just the beginning… and these 6 traps are the exact reason why so many people relapse even when they’re trying to stay sober.

In this episode, Angela Pugh breaks down the most common early recovery mistakes that sabotage your progress, wreck your structure, and chip away at your confidence. You’ll learn how to shift from barely hanging on to leading yourself with clarity, consistency, and personal power.

Whether you’re 2 weeks in or 2 years sober — this is a must-listen if you want long-term peace without chaos.

🔑 HERE ARE THE 3 KEY TAKEAWAYS:

1️⃣ Recovery Is Biological — Not Just Emotional
PAWS (Post-Acute Withdrawal Symptoms) can hijack your energy, mood, and motivation for months. Learn how to support your brain and body so you stop spiraling and start stabilizing.

2️⃣ Bartering = Relapse in Disguise
That inner voice that says “just one won’t hurt”? That’s not logic — that’s addiction bartering. You’ll learn exactly how to shut it down with truth and structure.

3️⃣ Fun Isn’t a Luxury — It’s a Requirement
You won’t stay sober if you hate your life. This episode gives you permission (and strategy) to build joy into your routine — so recovery feels rewarding, not restrictive.

💡 Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

• 🎁 Free Recovery Recipe™
  Your personal structure for strong sobriety — built around life domains.
  Download here → addictionunlimited.com/recipe

• 🗂️ The 90-Day Focus Planner
  Built on the life domain structure you heard in this episode — this is your tool for clarity, consistency, and follow-through in sobriety and life.
  👉 Grab your planner → addictionunlimited.com/planner
• 🎧 Related Episode:
  Are You Being Private About Your Recovery… or Keeping It a Secret?
  Learn the difference between protecting your peace and hiding your truth — and how secrecy can sabotage your growth.
  👉 Listen here → addictionunlimited.com/are-you-being-private-about-your-recovery-or-keeping-it-a-secret

• 🧠 Google This Term:
  Anhedonia — the inability to feel pleasure after quitting drinking. Knowing this one word could explain everything you’re experiencing.

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