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From celebrity life coach and motivational speaker Tony Gaskins Jr. and his wife, Sheri, comes an essential guide with hard-hitting truths about a woman’s undeniable influence on a relationship - and the power she has to change her man for the better.

Tony Gaskins has inspired others by sharing his truth - drawing millions of followers online and making him one of America’s foremost experts on love and relationships. Now, he and his wife explore a woman’s positive impact on a relationship in this practical and accessible guide that walks you through a series of irreplaceable lessons on making personal changes that foster healthy relationships. Tony and his wife, Sheri, draw on their own relationship successes and failures as they examine the 18 time-tested truths about how a woman’s influence can shift a relationship for the better - if used correctly.

Including advice for women such as “you are not a maid”, “show don’t tell”, and the “72-hour rule”, where the women makes herself totally unreachable to her partner, Tony and Sheri tackle all of today’s important topics such as misogyny and the “grown boy syndrome” while never losing the empowering and empathetic tone that Tony’s loyal following has come to love and trust.

A Woman’s Influence is a hopeful response to a culture where men behave badly and women are victimized all too often. By providing a vision that empowers women to know their worth and simultaneously bring out the best in men, this guidebook can help you make a lasting change to your relationship.

©2020 Tony A. Gaskins, Jr. and Sheri Gaskins (P)2020 Simon & Schuster

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The Unadulterated Truth!

After listening to this book and crying the first time that I listened, I knew it was time for me to make some changes in my life. This book is the best! I chew the meat and spit out the bones, with every motivational book or sermon that I read or listen to. This book was a sharp contrast, because I chewed the whole book....there were no bones! Thank you, Mr. & Mrs. Gaskins #TheBlessedTribe #IListenToYourVideosEveryday

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Grateful

This book has inspired me in a way I didn’t know I needed at the time. I am grateful I decided to read it. I feel empowered and equipped with new understanding. I appreciate you and your wife’s willingness to be transparent and share your journey. Thank you! ❤️

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I get it now

I am blown away by the content in this book. I will keep it on replay when I'm challenged, or just need some insight as to my why...lol. I even understand that even the more! This book should be read by every person that wants to be loved correctly. It touches on Tony's walk before Christ and after they tell their story as transparent as they possibly can without letting you in their house. I'm grateful for them and by no coincidence did this couple appear in thousands lives and mine at such a trying time. I had to stop reading this book when he spoke about how much love he has for his wife and how he would eat out of her hand just because of the Influence she has in his life. So! I can go on and on but I wont I say this I'm doing my work and this book and his teachings will guide me thank you. God bless you

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Complete Game Changer!

I couldn't stop listening to it. I see why so many men hated this book being written. i was lost. Dealing with a relationship that wasn't even that. Yes I loved him but I had lost myself and my self worth. He was juggling other lives! This book opened my eyes again to what I wanted in a relationship & why it was so important. Thank you for this book! This book has brought me back to alot of the values and self morals I had lost being in the wrong life for so many years! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

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Excellent book!

All single women should read this book. I highly recommend it. Worth reading it twice.

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Great book!

Loved it..easy to follow..lots of great info! Thank you Sheri and Tony!! This book came at the right time in my life ❤

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Rules of Love. Not war 😇

Loved it. A permanent part of my referral reading for clients . Thanks to you both. Blessings 😇

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Great prospective on relationships

I genuinely enjoyed the book. It did help me understand why certain relationships did not work out whether it’s because of my behavior or my former partner. I loved how Sheri Gaskins co work this book and she give great tips to handle certain situations with class and respect.

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Very good book!

I learned a lot from this book and I am done but about to go and listen to it all over again! This book is one that I will replay continuously until it’s deep in my spirit! Thanks so much for this you guys!

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Very INSIGHTFUL!! Awesome!

I loved this book, I rewound parts and chapters to really learn the information. For women, this is a great self help book and self-barometer to understand if oneself know how to carry a healthy relationship.

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  • 11-25-20

Simple lessons provided with great examples

Glad I discovered the authors within the last month. Their point of view and experience holds a lot of value. The examples and the layout of each chapter were precise and simple to carry out should you need to. I will definitely listen again soon.

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  • 08-14-20

Every Woman Needs To Read This Book!!!

Love this book, really helped me out dealing with my alpha male long term partner! Has given me clarity on my own worth. GIven me the strength I didnt know I had in me and see things from a fresh, more loving and HEALTHIER vantage point. Its mature, assertive yet nurturing. The narration is perfect. Easy to understand and the examples the couple use are real life examples. The are truely a beautiful couple and a great team. BLESS them - forever grateful!

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  • 06-14-20

Insightful!!

Great and useful insights! There’s something for everyone to learn from this read regardless of how much you think you know !!!

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  • 06-08-20

AMAZING INSIGHTS into mature womens and mand brain

This is just incredible. We are all called here to find our own systems, but there is so much in this book aplicable to the general Healthy LongLasting Marrige

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  • 05-09-20

Just wanted go needed to hear

I liked the fact you got both a woman’s perspective and man’s perspective, and there were some chapters where the message hit home where I’d been going wrong in my relationships and where I need to learn to improve. I would recommend this book to anyone wanting to start afresh to see the beauty in taking the time to really grow not just for yourself but in your relationships because it’s only then you can experience the true essence of what we have called to be and the influence and power that’s within us. I have rated this book full stars all round, so thank you Tony and Sheri, keep up the great work and being a blessing to so many. 🙌🏽😊

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  • Karen
  • 04-25-20

ABSOLUTELY AMAZING BOOK!

Perfectly written from start to finish. Direct, inspirational and empowering with some valuable lessons to learn. I recommend that if you are reading this review you do yourself a favour and either buy this to read or listen on audible. I managed to get through the book within a day and I'm sure this won't be my first time listening. It has changed my perspective on relationships for the better and here's to hoping that this book influencers others so that relationships in the society in which we live can positively thrive. ☺🙏🏽

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  • kgs
  • 04-13-20

A book on having a healthy monogamous relationship

Tony drew on alot of life experiences that many of us I am sure we can identify with. He has brought some great nuggets of knowledge in this book. It was also great to have Sheri, his wife, giving an extra insight at the end of each chapter. I have bought one of his courses as a result of reading his book. Tony seems to really value the people he teaches and genuinely cares. For me that's a winner. The bottom line for this book for me is to always Know Your Value not just in relationships but in life in general.