9 Lies That Will Destroy Your Marriage

And the Truths That Will Save It and Set It Free

By: Greg Smalley, Robert S. Paul

Narrated by: Lyle Blaker

Lies about marriage are rampant in our culture and the church. They’re killing marriages. But the corresponding truths can strengthen marriages and even save the most troubled relationships. In this audiobook, marriage experts Greg Smalley and Robert Paul identify the lies, explain how they work to destroy marriages, and reveal the truths that not only can improve marriages, but rescue those that are floundering.

Hope Restored, the renowned crisis marriage program created for Focus on the Family, is the basis for the discovery and understanding of these specific lies and their impact. Dr. Greg Smalley, a general marriage expert, and Robert Paul, the therapeutic director of a program that resuscitates nearly dead marriages, bring an unusual but powerful combination of perspectives that restore hope and healing in any marriage.

9 Lies That Will Destroy Your Marriage includes several self-tests to help you assess the extent to which your own marriage has been affected by each of the nine lies.

©2020 Focus on the Family (P)2020 Tyndale House Publishers

Wonderful book

This book gives hope for hurting marriages and practical lessons to improve communication, listening, loving and compassion. My husband and I are using this in marriage counseling. We are benefiting from it ourselves. highly recommended!

Lack of knowledge or an abusive partner?

Our behaviors can cross so many normal lines in a marriage to become an abuser.

Turning point in our marriage!

This book and the Intensive often mentioned were pivotal for my wife and I. While we were not on the brink of anything drastic, the health of our marriage was poor. My wife feeling we had a 4 out of 10 relationship - certainly not thriving.

After reading the book, and attending the Intensive, she now happily says we are a “10 out of 10” couple, and has a closeness to me she hasn’t felt in our 15 years together. I’m smiling as I write this because I feel the same. Our understanding of ourselves is deeper, and our marriage is so much stronger!

Very well written. A must read.

Excellent advice for a God fearing marriage!
Very easy to follow along. Would definitely recommend!

HELP IN YOUR MARRIAGE, IF YOU NEED IT. EVERYONE DOES.

Yes, we liked the book. We were planning going to a retreat in Wimberley, Texas. A Focus On the Family retreat called Hope restored. We want to get as much out of it as we can and so we thought we would read the book ahead of time.

We’re on our way now to a weekend retreat. And I hear the M-F retreats are for folks in need for greater help.