Ever try to guide your child with ❤️ only to end up as “the enemy”? 😅

Matt and Alona unpack why even well-intentioned boundaries around 📱 devices, 🍦 junk food, or commitments can trigger resistance—especially in strong-willed kids 💪.

From ice cream showdowns 🍨 to summer camp standoffs 🎪, they explore how control sparks rebellion 🚫 (or resentful submission 😤) and how shifting to true collaboration builds connection 🤝 instead of conflict.

💡 Hear how they use real-life parenting fails (including a Halloween candy overload 🎃🍬 and an epic camp meltdown) to reveal a roadmap for keeping shared family values intact while honoring your child’s autonomy 🌱. You’ll learn:

• Why “no” can instantly shut down connection ❌
• How to help kids link their choices to deeper values 🧭
• A step-by-step way to move from power struggles to teamwork 👫—without giving up on what matters most ❤️

Have a Kinectin Account? 🚀 Explore these Nudges to see how they apply to your own life — in a way only Amari can.

💬 Nudge: I keep trying to set limits with my child around something important, but they either rebel or comply with resentment. I want to find a way to stay connected while still honoring my values.
💬 Nudge: My child agrees with me in calm moments, but makes choices that go against what we discussed. I want to help them build internal motivation so I’m not always the gatekeeper.

🤖 What is Amari?
webe Parents has partnered with Kinectin to bring you Amari, your personal AI coach. Now you can interact with the ideas from our podcasts, articles, and parenting tips — and Amari will help you apply them directly to your personal life.

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To learn more about what Alona & Matt are up to check us out at webeparents.com, or follow us on our socials at Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, or YouTube. Be sure to subscribe to webe Pärents wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts.

What if the way you're venting to your partner is actually pushing them away—and your kids are watching it all unfold? In this episode, Matt & Alona get real about emotional spirals, invisible resentments, and those subtle daily habits that either build connection or destroy it 💥.

Hear the powerful tool called the "30-second container" that transforms explosive moments into connection—even if your partner laughs it off. 🧠 Learn why rituals like a 2-minute hug at pickup, authentic thank-yous, and “hard hugs” with your kids can radically shift your family’s emotional climate.

💔 Feeling seen but dismissed?
🤐 Choosing artificial harmony over honest truth?
🧩 Learn the tension trade-offs that most parents face but rarely talk about.

Have a Kinectin Account? Explore these Nudges to see how they apply to your own life — in a way only Amari can.

Nudge = I tried being vulnerable with my partner using the 30-second container, but they laughed. Now I feel foolish and disconnected. What do I do next?

Nudge = My kids see the coldness between me and my partner. I’m afraid they’re learning this is what love looks like. Is it too late to change?

What is Amari? webe Parents has partnered with Kinectin to bring you Amari, your personal AI coach. Now you can interact with the ideas from our podcasts, articles, and parenting tips — and Amari will help you apply them directly to your personal life. Don't have a Kinectin Account? Create one here

To learn more about what Alona & Matt are up to check us out at webeparents.com, or follow us on our socials at Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, or YouTube. Be sure to subscribe to webe Pärents wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts.

Is your relationship running on logistics and low fuel? This episode calls out what so many parents feel but never name — the subtle, painful erosion of connection with the person you once couldn’t stop touching. 😮‍💨 Matt and Alona get real about what happens when we pour everything into our kids and forget to show up for our partners... and ourselves.

🧠 Matt & Alona share personal moments that will feel uncomfortably familiar:

• That moment you vent your frustrations without warning — and accidentally trigger a defensive warzone.
• The difference between showing up for your kids with warmth and for your partner with efficiency.
• How micro-moments of care (yes, even 30 seconds) can shift everything.

Have a Kinectin Account? Explore these Nudges to see how they apply to your own life — in a way only Amari can.

Nudge: I keep showing up for my kids with love and patience, but when it comes to my partner, everything feels cold, rushed, or transactional. What happened to us?

Nudge: Sometimes I unload everything I'm holding onto my partner without asking if they have space for it — then wonder why we feel disconnected afterward.

What is Amari? webe Parents has partnered with Kinectin to bring you Amari, your personal AI coach. Now you can interact with the ideas from our podcasts, articles, and parenting tips — and Amari will help you apply them directly to your personal life. Don't have a Kinectin Account? Create one here

To learn more about what Alona & Matt are up to check us out at webeparents.com, or follow us on our socials at Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, or YouTube. Be sure to subscribe to webe Pärents wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts.

Challenging highlights you'll want to hear:
In this episode of webe Parents, Matt and Alona dive into the uncomfortable truth: most of us walk around performing connection instead of living it. 🙃 We force smiles, suppress our real feelings, and accidentally teach our kids—and partners—to do the same.

They’ll unpack why authentic presence matters more than “getting it right” and how chasing joy from the outside inleaves us disconnected from ourselves and those we love. 🎭

🔥 Hear about the viral moment when a parent’s tears on the first day of preschool overshadowed their child’s joy—and why missing those moments creates long-term disconnection.
🔥 Explore the danger of masking emotions with fake smiles, especially with kids who see right through us.
🔥 Learn why setting boundaries from a closed heart can backfire, and how embracing your messy, real self builds trust over time (even if it feels risky).

Have a Kinectin Account? Explore these Nudges to see how they apply to your own life — in a way only Amari can.

Nudge: "I keep finding myself smiling when I’m actually angry, sad, or tired. I want to stop teaching my kids that performing connection is the same as feeling connection."

Nudge: "When my partner or kids don’t respond the way I hoped, I feel deflated and resentful. I want to learn how to give connection as a gift, not as a trade for validation."

What is Amari?
webe Parents has partnered with Kinectin to bring you Amari, your personal AI coach. Now you can interact with the ideas from our podcasts, articles, and parenting tips—and Amari will help you apply them directly to your personal life.
Don't have a Kinectin Account? Create one here.

To learn more about what Alona & Matt are up to check us out at webeparents.com, or follow us on our socials at Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, or YouTube. Be sure to subscribe to webe Pärents wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts.

Challenging Highlights You’ll Want to Hear:
Are you unintentionally modeling disconnection for your kids? In this raw and uplifting episode, Matt and Alona dive deep into how presence—not perfection—shapes the emotional environment of your family. They break down why joy isn’t something that happens after you finish your to-do list, but something you can cultivate in every moment—even when life feels overwhelming.

Matt shares a personal story about hiking Runyon Canyon, discovering how a simple wave or smile can change not just your day, but the energy you bring to your relationships. Alona opens up about how the sudden loss of her father shifted her from someone who was naturally joyful to someone who needed “a reason” to feel joy—and how she found her way back. Together, they challenge the idea that parenting is about controlling outcomes and reveal why being fully present—even in moments of sadness or anger—is the real secret to connection.

Have a Kinectin Account? Explore these Nudges to see how they apply to your own life—in a way only Amari can.

Nudge: I keep waiting for life to get easier so I can finally enjoy it. But what if I've been teaching my kids to live the same way—delaying joy, connection, and gratitude for some future moment that never comes?

Nudge: When my partner or child is upset, I tend to shut down my own feelings—either suppressing my joy or pushing away my sadness. I just want to practice being fully present with what I feel, without trying to fix it or hide it.

What is Amari?
webe Parents has partnered with Kinectin to bring you Amari, your personal AI coach. Now you can interact with the ideas from our podcasts, articles, and parenting tips—and Amari will help you apply them directly to your personal life.
Don’t have a Kinectin Account? Create one here

To learn more about what Alona & Matt are up to check us out at webeparents.com, or follow us on our socials at Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, or YouTube. Be sure to subscribe to webe Pärents wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts.

😳 What if your stress isn’t just in your head, but coded into your biology? In this deeply personal and scientific episode, Matt & Alona sit down with Dr. Steve Cole to explore how your body responds to the vibe of your relationships, your thoughts, and even your to-do list.

💥 The body doesn’t just react to danger — it prepares for it, and most of us are unknowingly telling our systems to brace every single day. From relationship disconnection to unspoken loneliness, these cues are impacting your genes, your immune system, and your children’s well-being.

💔 You’ll want to hear:

• Why finishing your to-do list won’t make you happy—and how it's biologically undermining you.
• How disconnection between spouses creates invisible stress loads on your children.
• Why meaning and purpose aren’t just emotional fluff—they physically change your body’s threat response.

Have a Kinectin Account? Explore these Nudges to see how they apply to your own life — in a way only Amari can.

Nudge = It feels like I’m always doing the next thing on my list, but I'm never at peace. I want to know how to stop operating from this constant low-level stress before it affects my health and my kids.

Nudge = My relationship feels distant. We’re not fighting, but we’re not connected either. I’m worried what message that sends to my kids about love and safety.

What is Amari?
webe Parents has partnered with Kinectin to bring you Amari, your personal AI coach. Now you can interact with the ideas from our podcasts, articles, and parenting tips — and Amari will help you apply them directly to your personal life. Don’t have a Kinectin Account? Create one here

To learn more about what Alona & Matt are up to check us out at webeparents.com, or follow us on our socials at Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, or YouTube. Be sure to subscribe to webe Pärents wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts.

Your Kid’s Immune System Isn’t Just About Germs — It’s About You

🔥 What if your child’s immune system is actually responding to you? In this eye-opening episode, Matt & Alona sit down with Dr. Steve Cole, a pioneering social genomics researcher, to expose the invisible ways our relationships — and even our vibes — shape our family’s biology. From chronic disease to viral vulnerability, connection turns out to be a major health intervention.

😳 Dr. Cole explains how emotional disconnection, unpredictable social environments, and even parenting in “survival mode” can silently activate stress responses in our kids' bodies. You’ll never look at your child’s flare-ups or emotional meltdowns the same again.

💥 Hard-hitting truths we unpack:

1. Why your child can feel safe and still be under constant biological threat.
2. How “loneliness” — even in a house full of people — might be the most toxic stressor of all.
3. What happens when your child watches you run on empty — and how your nervous system becomes a model for theirs.

Have a Kinectin Account? 🔗 Explore these Nudges to see how they apply to your own life — in a way only Amari can.

Nudge = Am I contributing to my child nervous system not being at ease?

Nudge = “I feel like I'm always in survival mode, how do I show up different for my kids?”

What is Amari? webe Parents has partnered with Kinectin to bring you Amari, your personal AI coach. Now you can interact with the ideas from our podcasts, articles, and parenting tips — and Amari will help you apply them directly to your personal life. Don't have a Kinectin Account? Create one here

To learn more about what Alona & Matt are up to check us out at webeparents.com, or follow us on our socials at Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, or YouTube. Be sure to subscribe to webe Pärents wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts.

💥 Ever feel like you're parenting on empty? This episode of the webe Pärents podcast might just shake you awake. Drs. Matt and Alona dive deep into the silent epidemic of parental burnout — not from neglect, but from over-devotion. If you’ve ever felt like your identity is swallowed by your kid’s schedule, or your marriage feels more like a carpooling contract, this one hits hard.

🚨 You’ll hear:

• A mom who cheered at every game—until a panic attack in the parking lot forced her to face the truth.
• A dad who gave his son “everything”—until both of them started to hate it.
• A couple who rediscovered their marriage with a hotel room and a “no dance talk” rule.

🧨 The challenge? Your kids don’t need everything. They need you — present, resourced, and fully alive. Saying no isn’t neglect, it’s wisdom. Prioritizing your needs isn’t selfish, it’s modeling.

💬 Have a Kinectin Account? Explore these Nudges to see how they apply to your own life — in a way only Amari can:

Nudge 1 = “I’ve said yes to everything for my kid—and now we’re both miserable. I don’t know how to step back without feeling like I’m failing them.”

Nudge 2 = “My partner and I are great teammates for the kids, but the romance is gone. I miss feeling like we matter too.”

What is Amari? webe Parents has partnered with Kinectin to bring you Amari, your personal AI coach. Now you can interact with the ideas from our podcasts, articles, and parenting tips — and Amari will help you apply them directly to your personal life. Don’t have a Kinectin Account? Create one here

To learn more about what Alona & Matt are up to check us out at webeparents.com, or follow us on our socials at Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, or YouTube. Be sure to subscribe to webe Pärents wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts.