Welcome to Young Not Dumb—a podcast for young adults who desire to lead by example and walk in truth. Here, we dive into your real questions and offer honest, practical answers rooted in God’s Word. Our goal is to help you navigate life confidently so you can step into the purpose God has for you to experience.

Can Christians have close friendships with people who do not follow Jesus? What about your inner circle—should your best friends all be believers? And how do you love others well without letting their influence pull you away from your faith?

In this episode, we dig into some of the most common but rarely voiced questions about friendship, influence, and following Jesus. We look at the example of Christ—how He was a friend to sinners, yet chose to spend the majority of His time with those who were hungry to follow God.

We also talk about how to find godly, deep friendships when you do not have them, how to be the type of friend you want to have, and how to navigate relationships in a way that honors God. Whether you feel stuck between two worlds or are craving the kind of community that actually sharpens your faith, this conversation is for you.

Insecurity isn’t just about what you see in the mirror—it’s about what’s going on in your mind. In this episode, we talk honestly about where insecurity comes from, how it affects our relationships, and why we often project our internal battles onto the people around us (even when they’ve said nothing at all).

We look at real examples of insecurity in the Bible and how God's people respond with truth, purpose, and grace. We also dive into the tension between accepting how God made you and still working to grow with excellence—not out of pressure, but out of purpose.

We tackle comparison, confidence, and what it actually means to find your identity in Christ. If you’ve ever struggled with feeling not so content with pieces of yourself, this episode is for you.

If you've ever felt awkward while praying, unsure what to say, or worried you're doing it wrong—you’re not alone!! In this episode, we break down the basics of prayer in a real and relatable way.

We talk about what prayer actually is, what the Bible says about it, WHY we pray, and how to pray when you don’t feel confident, spiritual, or “put together.” We also answer questions like: Do I need to say the right words? What if I get distracted? Do I have to fold my hands and close my eyes? Does God really hear me? Does he answer every prayer?

Whether you’re new to faith or just want to deepen your prayer life, this episode is here to take the pressure off and help you connect with God—honestly, simply, and consistently.

If God is in control of everything, do we really have a choice? And if we do have free will, how can God already know—and decide—how everything plays out?

In this episode, we tackle one of the biggest and most debated topics in Christian theology: predestination vs. free will. We unpack what Scripture says about both, challenge common misunderstandings, and talk through how these two truths can actually work together—not against each other.

Whether this topic has always confused you or you’ve just been too afraid to ask, this conversation will help bring clarity, peace, and a better understanding of God's character.

Pride is sneaky. It doesn’t always show up as arrogance...it can look like defensiveness, comparison, self-doubt, or needing to be in control. In this episode, we talk honestly about what pride really is, how it shows up in everyday life, and why humility is the God-given antidote.

We dig into what the Bible says about both pride and humility, why it’s so easy to fall into one and so hard to walk in the other, and how true humility isn’t about tearing yourself down, it’s about lifting Jesus up.

This episode will challenge you, encourage you, and help you get real about what’s going on in your heart. Because the way up in God’s kingdom always starts with bowing low.

What do you do when the people who raised you don’t share your faith? It can feel intimidating—or even impossible—to talk to your parents about Jesus. In this episode, we talk about how to honor your parents while still sharing the truth in love.

We cover what the Bible says about spiritual influence, how to live your faith out boldly (without being preachy), and why prayer is your greatest weapon. You’ll hear encouragement, real-life examples, and practical steps to help you plant seeds of faith with the people closest to you.

Because no one is too far gone—and God can use you right where you are.

We all know the Bible says not to lie—but what about those tricky situations where telling the truth feels impossible? What about people in Scripture who lied and seemed to be blessed for it?

In this episode, we unpack some of the most debated examples in the Bible—like Rahab hiding the spies and the Hebrew midwives protecting babies in Egypt. Was their lying wrong or justified? What do these stories actually teach us?

We wrestle with real-life “gray areas,” explore what God’s Word says about truth and integrity, and ask the hard question: Can lying ever be okay?