Welcome to Young Not Dumb—a podcast for young adults who desire to lead by example and walk in truth. Here, we dive into your real questions and offer honest, practical answers rooted in God’s Word. Our goal is to help you navigate life confidently so you can step into the purpose God has for you to experience.

Can Christians have close friendships with people who do not follow Jesus? What about your inner circle—should your best friends all be believers? And how do you love others well without letting their influence pull you away from your faith?

In this episode, we dig into some of the most common but rarely voiced questions about friendship, influence, and following Jesus. We look at the example of Christ—how He was a friend to sinners, yet chose to spend the majority of His time with those who were hungry to follow God.

We also talk about how to find godly, deep friendships when you do not have them, how to be the type of friend you want to have, and how to navigate relationships in a way that honors God. Whether you feel stuck between two worlds or are craving the kind of community that actually sharpens your faith, this conversation is for you.

Insecurity isn’t just about what you see in the mirror—it’s about what’s going on in your mind. In this episode, we talk honestly about where insecurity comes from, how it affects our relationships, and why we often project our internal battles onto the people around us (even when they’ve said nothing at all).

We look at real examples of insecurity in the Bible and how God's people respond with truth, purpose, and grace. We also dive into the tension between accepting how God made you and still working to grow with excellence—not out of pressure, but out of purpose.

We tackle comparison, confidence, and what it actually means to find your identity in Christ. If you’ve ever struggled with feeling not so content with pieces of yourself, this episode is for you.