Positive and negative input and how it is said can go a long way, while just being plain hateful shows your true intentions and who you are as a person. Someone with a hateful heart, who will never change their ways. Who always play the victim and blame others for their mistakes. Holding a grudge, while the other person moved on, just shows you never grew up. To plan someones own life out, and to kick them out because they wanted to go their own way. It goes to show everyone that who they are behind the mask, is another version of them. There are so many versions of this person it’s hard to keep up. Words that were said to me, hurt in the moment, and stayed with me forever. Many who said I won’t make it, who tried to stop me or fail me. It just shows that you didn’t want me to succeed in life and that you saw something in me. I proved you wrong, but never once did I have an ego or was arrogant about it. Your arrogance and ego is what caused you to lose your job, retire early and it destroyed your reputation as well as integrity. Once a major mistake will be on your record and will follow you forever. You can blame me, but it was your own doing. Splitting up the family, taking credit for things that you didn’t do but you took it because of my name or that I had a 4.0 gpa. It just shows many will use you to get from point a to point b. They will fake their way, until they get exposed. Everything that was done to me, it stuck with me, but I used it as fuel to succeed. Every intention I had was good, what was meant to destroy me. It made me strong. What goes around does come back around and you need to get ready for it. Both positive and negative input can help you grow, but when it’s used to destroy you. It didn’t create your downfall, it created their downfall. What is done in the dark will come to the light. Once was said to me, was used as my strength and taught me that I was never problem. They were jealous because they didn’t want to work hard to become successful. They wanted everything given to them. That’s not how the world works. Either you work hard for what you want, or stay in past and hold a grudge that is only hurting you.