Kaycee and Amanda face off over the thermostat, dishwasher, and all their household quirks! From lights left on to “soaking” dishes, they confess their biggest everyday pet peeves and how they keep the peace! Plus, this week’s What’s More Gay? (brought to you by Amanda): wearing a carabiner keychain or checking your astrology compatibility before you agree to a second date?

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Kaycee and Amanda talk long-distance! From marathon calls to airport goodbyes and cross-country trips, they share their long-distance dating story and what they learned before finally living in the same city. Plus, this week’s What’s Gayer?: flying cross-country for 36 hours together vs. falling asleep on FaceTime.

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Kaycee and Amanda talk money! From splitting the bill on dates to merging finances after marriage (yes, there's a prenup story), they dig into spending, saving, and making financial decisions as a couple. Plus, this week’s What’s Gayer?: flannel at a Brandi Carlile concert vs. driving a Subaru to a Sparks game.

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Kaycee and Amanda talk about friendship! From high school cliques to intentional adult friendships, they unpack how besties change across life stages, how they each approach friendship, and why it’s okay when friendships fade. Plus: What’s Gayer? Matching outfits or strangers asking if you’re related.

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A lighthearted podcast about queer marriage, grown-up gay life, and all the messy, magical stuff in between. Join co-hosts & wives of each other, Amanda and Kaycee Conlee, for honest, funny, and way-too-relatable conversations! Follow @kayceeconlee on IG for exclusive Wife Support content!

Kaycee and Amanda discuss “How gay is too gay for the office?” From first-day jitters to navigating bias, microaggressions, and figuring out when (and how) to come out at work, they unpack what it means to prove yourself while queer on the job. Plus: this week’s What’s Gayer? face-off — PTO for Pride v. the REI lunch tote.

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Kaycee and Amanda ask the big question: “Are we codependent or just gay married?” From women’s magazine “red flags” to the way queer relationships get misread by straight culture, they unpack what healthy intimacy looks like and where their own boundaries get tested. Plus: The first-ever What’s Gayer? showdown.

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