Kaycee and Amanda get candid about mental health, anxiety, and trying to stay sane in 2025. From panic attacks and people-pleasing to therapy, routines, and coping mechanisms, the wives open up about how they support themselves and each other when things get overwhelming. Plus, this week’s What’s Gayer: sharing the same first name with your partner or having a very strong opinion about who killed Jenny Schecter.

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Kaycee and Amanda are back from Italy! In this ep, the wives are recapping their gayest (and most chaotic) moments abroad, and what they learned about traveling together. Plus, this week’s What’s Gayer? has you choosing between 2 things they actually did!

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Kaycee and Amanda talk travel — from their top trips to the gayest packing habits. Enjoy the ups and downs that come from one of them being a spreadsheet queen while the other is more “we’ll figure it out when we get there.” Plus, this week’s What’s More Gay (Gayer)?: renting a U-Haul vs. an eyebrow ring.

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Kaycee and Amanda face off over the thermostat, dishwasher, and all their household quirks! From lights left on to “soaking” dishes, they confess their biggest everyday pet peeves and how they keep the peace! Plus, this week’s What’s More Gay? (brought to you by Amanda): wearing a carabiner keychain or checking your astrology compatibility before you agree to a second date?

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Kaycee and Amanda talk long-distance! From marathon calls to airport goodbyes and cross-country trips, they share their long-distance dating story and what they learned before finally living in the same city. Plus, this week’s What’s Gayer?: flying cross-country for 36 hours together vs. falling asleep on FaceTime.

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Kaycee and Amanda talk money! From splitting the bill on dates to merging finances after marriage (yes, there's a prenup story), they dig into spending, saving, and making financial decisions as a couple. Plus, this week’s What’s Gayer?: flannel at a Brandi Carlile concert vs. driving a Subaru to a Sparks game.

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Kaycee and Amanda talk about friendship! From high school cliques to intentional adult friendships, they unpack how besties change across life stages, how they each approach friendship, and why it’s okay when friendships fade. Plus: What’s Gayer? Matching outfits or strangers asking if you’re related.

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A lighthearted podcast about queer marriage, grown-up gay life, and all the messy, magical stuff in between. Join co-hosts & wives of each other, Amanda and Kaycee Conlee, for honest, funny, and way-too-relatable conversations! Follow @kayceeconlee on IG for exclusive Wife Support content!