This week on Widowed AF, Rosie is joined by LA-based comedian Sam Morrison, whose life changed forever when his partner Jonathan died from Covid in 2021.

Sam is currently in London performing his critically acclaimed show Sugar Daddy, a wildly funny, deeply personal comedy about love, loss and everything that comes after. What started as grief eventually found its way onto the stage, proving that sometimes you can’t make sense of tragedy… but you can make jokes about it.

Rosie and Sam talk about meeting their partners, navigating loss at a young age, and the strange club nobody wants to join. They also get into dark humour, grief counselling, dating after loss, audience reactions to comedy about death, and why sometimes laughter is the only way through.

Expect conversations about gay bear festivals, cruise ship comedy gigs, grief guilt, autoimmune diagnoses after trauma, and the awkward reality of trying to explain “my partner who died” in everyday conversation.

It’s a thoughtful, funny and refreshingly honest chat about grief, resilience and carrying the people we love forward with us.

Sam’s show Sugar Daddy is running at the Underbelly in Soho, London from 5 March to 4 April.

Find tickets and tour dates at samuelhmorrison.com @samuelhmorrison

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You can also find Rosie on Instagram @widowedaf or at widowedaf.com.

As always… take care of yourselves, and each other.

0:02 Meet Sam Morrison + ‘Sugar Daddy’ arrives in London

3:04 The love story: meeting Jonathan and falling in fast

7:17 The rupture: losing Jonathan to COVID (and surviving the pandemic)

9:57 Finding language, finding help: support networks + queer widowhood

18:22 Building ‘Sugar Daddy’: turning grief into a show (and taking the hits)

28:03 Grief in the body + love after loss

35:37 Living with the long tail: time, milestones, sobriety, success-guilt

41:41 Spirituality, signs, and the wish for one more conversation

45:50 Final plugs + goodbye: dates, links, community

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In this episode, Rosie Moss speaks with Natalie Dodds.

Natalie is a mum of two who lost her partner, Dave, following a workplace crane collapse. She speaks with clear eyed honesty about parenting through shock, bureaucracy and the long tail of grief, while still finding ways to keep Dave’s humour and presence alive at the family dinner table.

We begin with life before. How Natalie and Dave met, built a home and became parents. Alongside that joy came an earlier rupture, the stillbirth of their daughter, Emily Daisy, at just over 38 weeks. Natalie shares the visceral reality of delivering on a main ward while hearing other babies cry, and the complex coexistence of grief and love that followed. In time, she volunteered with SANDS and welcomed two more children, carrying both loss and hope.

At the heart of this conversation is the day of the accident. The unexpected paramedic call. The 126 mile drive. The 7pm news report confirming a crane collapse in Crewe. The moment “alive” became the only word that mattered.

What followed was five weeks of ICU limbo. Sedation, ventilation, internal bleeding and sepsis. Dark humour. Small kindnesses from staff. Impossible choices about protecting children from trauma. Then the call no one survives hearing. There is absolutely nothing we can do. The kindest thing is to switch the machines off and let him die.

Natalie speaks about what comes after the headline moment. The secondary losses that keep arriving. Mortgage threats. Next of kin complications. Institutions insisting on speaking to the person who has died. An 8.5 year wait for an inquest. The exhaustion of fighting systems that do not bend.

She shares how she chose not to take her children into ICU, how she refused false promises, and how she found the words to tell them their dad was not coming home, while still getting them up for school the next morning.

Eight and a half years later, the inquest brought answers about training failures and a wrong method statement, followed by the additional blow of hearing “not guilty.” Natalie reflects on the strange mixture of validation and devastation that comes with official findings that change nothing.

This is a conversation about compounded grief. About loving someone who has died without freezing them in sainthood. About keeping Dave the man present through stories, laughter and everyday references. About maintaining a close bond with his family. About integrating a new partner into a home where Dave is still spoken about with love.

It is also about resilience that does not look shiny. About coping strategies that sound small but keep you upright. Work routines. Blood pressure bingo. Cherries to stay awake on the motorway.

Above all, it is about a woman doing the unthinkable and still showing up for her children.

A powerful, unfiltered episode about loss, responsibility, anger, love and the long road towards something that resembles stability.

In this episode the host Rosie Moss speaks with Caroline Booth. Caroline is a widowed mother of two and the driving force behind a powerful grassroots campaign to reform bereavement support in the UK, born from her own experience of sudden loss and systemic failure.

Caroline’s story begins with the unexpected loss of her husband Steve to aggressive bowel cancer. As she navigated the raw terrain of grief while raising two teenage sons, she quickly found herself caught in a bureaucratic maze—unable to access funds, unaware of her entitlements, and confronted by the limitations of a system that seemed designed to overlook her. Through candid reflection and honest frustration, Caroline details her journey from devastation to advocacy, sharing the real-life impacts of outdated policies, insufficient support, and public misperceptions. This conversation sheds light on how bereaved families are consistently let down, how contributory systems ignore lived complexity, and how a campaign powered by grief and solidarity is shifting the narrative. As Rosie notes, Caroline’s strength is not just in surviving, but in using her voice so others don’t face the same silence. “You look at your kids and you think, shit, actually, would I—how long could I pay my mortgage for if my husband died?”—a reflection many will carry forward.

• Caroline recounts her husband Steve’s swift decline from bowel cancer and the shock of widowhood after 30 years together—and how that grief became a catalyst for action.
• She shares the disorienting reality of navigating bereavement support systems, where help is hard to access and few are told it exists—especially in the critical first three months.
• The conversation reveals how policy decisions, such as freezing the Bereavement Support Payment since 2017, have left families adrift in the face of rising living costs and funeral expenses.
• Public misconceptions—like seeing bereavement support as “taxpayer handouts”—block meaningful dialogue and spotlight society’s discomfort with grief and dependency.
• Caroline’s campaign draws attention to solo parents navigating Universal Credit and how flawed benefit structures penalize them further, often creating enduring disadvantage.
• The discussion explores the limits of life insurance and how caregiving roles disrupt financial security—reminding listeners that bereavement is rarely something one can fully prepare for.
• A grassroots petition, powerful community solidarity, and even a song release (“Warrior”) are all part of Caroline’s effort to push for systemic change, one letter to Parliament at a time.