Have you ever felt stuck when facing an obstacle, unsure how to move forward? The key to transformation lies not in your perception alone, but in what you do next.

Continuing our journey through Ryan Holiday's "The Obstacle is the Way," we explore Part Two – the critical transition from perception to action. Theodore Roosevelt's wisdom frames our discussion perfectly: "We must either wear out or rust out. Every one of us." This choice between meaningful movement and stagnation lies at the heart of overcoming any challenge.

We dive deep into what Holiday calls "the discipline of action" – the deliberate, bold, and persistent steps required to transform obstacles into opportunities. It's not just about movement, but right and effective action aimed at specific goals. Like a baseball player choosing which pitches to swing at, we must be strategic about where we direct our energy rather than spinning our wheels like a hamster going nowhere.

What separates those who triumph over adversity from those who remain stuck? The answer isn't in what happens to us, but in what we do with what happens. We share real stories of people faced with unexpected job changes who chose to see opportunity rather than misfortune – creating momentum for themselves rather than waiting for perfect conditions.

The path forward becomes clear: no one is coming to save you, and complaining only creates the illusion of progress. True transformation begins when you take that first step, however imperfect it might be. As we prepare to explore persistence in our next episode, we invite you to consider: what meaningful action will you take today toward overcoming your obstacles?

Join us on this journey of growth and discovery. If you're finding value in these conversations, please share with others who might benefit and let us know how you're applying these principles in your own life.

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It always starts with a moment. A moment when everything feels impossible.

For Denise, it was standing at the crossroads of a career shift, staring down uncertainty like an opponent in the ring. For Sam, it was watching someone she believed in struggle—not because they lacked talent, but because they couldn’t see their own path forward.

What makes the difference in those moments? It isn’t strength. It isn’t luck. It’s perspective.

In this episode, Sam and Denise dive into Part One of The Obstacle Is the Way by Ryan Holiday, exploring the idea that how we see the world determines how we move through it. Through powerful real-world stories—like John D. Rockefeller during the financial collapse of 1857 and Ruben “Hurricane” Carter’s refusal to be broken by wrongful imprisonment—they break down the ways perception can either trap us or set us free.

But this isn’t just about history. It’s about you.

Denise reflects on the moments when a shift in perspective turned failure into opportunity—how choosing to see a roadblock as a challenge instead of an end point rewrote the story. Sam shares how learning to stay calm when everything screamed panic became the key to unlocking new possibilities.

We don’t control our circumstances, but we do control how we see them.

Expect to walk away with:

• A new way to look at the challenges in front of you
• Practical strategies for maintaining perspective under pressure
• A reminder that even in the hardest moments, there’s a way forward

Tune in. Shift your view. And take the first step through the obstacle in front of you

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Denise and Sam explore how practicing objectivity can transform our approach to life's obstacles, drawing wisdom from Ryan Holiday's bestseller "The Obstacle is the Way."

• Distinguishing between perception (emotional reactions) and observation (factual reality)
• Our first thoughts come from programming and defaults, but our second thoughts define who we are
• Reacting immediately to first impressions can cause us to miss valuable opportunities and connections
• Diversity of thought helps us see beyond our limited perspectives
• Where the head goes, the body follows - perception precedes action
• Taking yourself out of the equation often reveals solutions previously hidden by emotion
• Altering perspective transforms seemingly impossible obstacles into solvable challenges
• George Clooney's career breakthrough came from changing his perspective on auditions

If you're interested in coaching to help shift your perspectives and overcome obstacles, reach out to Denise and Sam through the contact information in the show notes.

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Denise and Sam explore the concept of perception in Ryan Holiday's "The Obstacle is the Way," focusing on how steadying our nerves and controlling our emotions can transform obstacles into opportunities.

• Perception shapes our response to challenges and determines whether obstacles block us or become the way forward
• Public speaking anxiety as a common example of needing to steady your nerves in high-pressure situations
• The importance of being "the adult in the room" when facing workplace or personal challenges
• Controlling emotions doesn't mean suppressing them—it means creating space between feeling and response
• NASA astronauts' training demonstrates how remaining calm allows for better decision-making in crisis
• When emotions escalate, ask "what am I choosing not to see right now?"
• Emotional intelligence means recognizing when values are violated without letting reactions control you
• The obstacle is only insurmountable if your perception makes it so

Join us next week as we continue our journey through "The Obstacle is the Way," exploring objectivity and how to alter your perspective when moving through different obstacles.

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Discover the transformative power of military leadership principles in our exclusive new series featuring Denise Russo and special co-host Zach Elliott. This debut episode introduces a fresh perspective on leadership through the lens of military experience, specifically exploring how the disciplined, accountable leadership style of elite military units translates to business success.

The conversation centers on the groundbreaking book "Extreme Ownership: How U.S. Navy SEALs Lead and Win" by Jocko Willink and Leif Babin. Together, Denise and Zach unpack why military leadership resonates so powerfully in corporate spaces – from the unwavering focus and accountability instilled in military personnel to their ability to build trust and take complete responsibility for outcomes.

We explore the book's three-part framework that begins with mastering self-leadership ("winning the war within"), progresses to team dynamics ("laws of combat"), and culminates in strategic vision ("sustaining victory"). Throughout the discussion, our hosts emphasize that these aren't merely professional skills but life principles that transform how you approach challenges in every arena.

What sets this leadership philosophy apart is its uncompromising stance on accountability. As the authors write, "Leaders must own everything in their world. There is no one else to blame." This mindset cuts through excuses and creates a foundation for exceptional performance in any organization. Whether you're leading a team of two or two thousand, these principles provide a roadmap for building trust, developing people, and achieving mission success.

Join us on this journey through military-inspired leadership wisdom that will challenge your assumptions and elevate your effectiveness as a leader. Subscribe now to gain insights from each chapter of "Extreme Ownership" and discover how taking complete responsibility can transform your leadership impact.

Extreme Ownership : https://a.co/d/b02WNv7

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It starts with a storm. The year is 1857, and the economy is collapsing. Panic spreads like wildfire. Investors crumble. Businesses fail. But a young man named John D. Rockefeller doesn’t flinch. He watches. He studies. And while others see disaster, he sees an opening.

That’s the power of perception.

In this episode, Denise and Sam step inside The Obstacle Is The Way by Ryan Holiday, pulling real stories from history and personal experience to explore a truth that separates those who falter from those who rise: what we see—and how we choose to see it—determines everything.

You’ll meet Ruben “Hurricane” Carter, a boxer wrongfully imprisoned for nearly 20 years, who refused to be caged in his own mind. His words—“I will not under any circumstances be treated like a prisoner”—are proof that even when we lose control over our circumstances, we never lose control over our perception.

Denise and Sam break down the defining moments when perception makes the difference—between fear and opportunity, between despair and resilience. They uncover how biology wires us for panic, but philosophy teaches us power, and why Marcus Aurelius was right when he said: “Choose not to be harmed, and you won’t feel harmed.”

Join us as we explore how to:

• Stay calm when others panic
• Reframe obstacles as opportunities
• Control what we can—and let go of what we can’t
• Train our minds to see before others do

Whether you’re facing professional setbacks, personal challenges, or just the chaos of everyday life, this episode is an invitation to shift your perspective—and in doing so, change everything.

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Obstacles don't block your path—they are your path. In our deep dive into Ryan Holiday's "The Obstacle is the Way," we unpack how ancient Stoic wisdom offers practical solutions for modern challenges.

The book provides more than inspiration; it delivers a framework for transforming life's inevitable roadblocks into opportunities for growth. We examine the remarkable stories of leaders like John D. Rockefeller, who found unprecedented success during economic depression by maintaining what Holiday calls "unflappable coolness under pressure." Rather than being paralyzed by circumstances, these historical figures developed the mental discipline to see opportunities where others saw only problems.

We share personal stories about leaders we've known who embodied this philosophy—from calm management during national crises to everyday resilience in business challenges. The four-step process Holiday outlines becomes our roadmap: objectively assess the problem, adjust your attitude toward it, apply creativity to transform it, and cultivate the inner will to persevere.

Our conversation reveals how this approach works at all scales—from small daily frustrations to life-altering challenges. We unpack the powerful parable of the king who placed a boulder in the road, rewarding the one person who took initiative to move it instead of complaining about it. As Benjamin Franklin wisely noted, "The things which hurt instruct."

This episode offers both philosophical depth and practical strategies. Whether you're facing professional setbacks, personal struggles, or simply the everyday obstacles of human existence, this timeless wisdom provides a path forward. The obstacle isn't just something to overcome—it's the very way to become stronger, more creative, and ultimately successful.

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Denise was stuck. Sam was frustrated. Different stories, same feeling—an obstacle so big it seemed impossible to move. But what if the struggle wasn’t a dead end? What if it was the path forward?

In this episode, Denise and Sam dive into The Obstacle Is the Way by Ryan Holiday, exploring its powerful lessons through personal stories and the experiences of those who have turned setbacks into success.

You’ll meet a leader who faced disaster but found a way through, a dreamer whose failure became fuel, and the historical figures who proved that obstacles aren’t barriers—they’re invitations to greatness.

Denise and Sam take you on a journey filled with stakes, transformation, and hard-earned wisdom. It’s about the moment you hit the wall, the choice you make next, and the unexpected doors that open when you lean into the challenge.

Because, as Marcus Aurelius once said, “What stands in the way becomes the way.”

This isn’t just a book discussion—it’s a call to action. Tune in, shift your mindset, and start seeing your biggest obstacles as your greatest opportunities.

Resources mentioned:

The Obstacle is the Way: https://a.co/d/cvDTJ2c

Sometimes You Win Sometimes You Learn: https://a.co/d/dF6Czuj

Solve for Happy: https://a.co/d/dCU6ghu

The How of Happiness: https://a.co/d/2PweTq6

Coach Wooden: https://a.co/d/7sTFLVm

Atomic Habits: https://a.co/d/9siYKsD

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