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  • Episode 61 How to create a Personal Board for your leadership career
    Jan 9 2026

    In this first episode of 2026, Sarah introduces the powerful (and often overlooked) concept of a personal board for your leadership career. Drawing on the idea of organisational boards, Sarah explains how having the right people around you can help you make better career decisions, gain perspective, build influence, and stay motivated as a leader.

    You’ll learn about the different roles a personal board can play, how to identify who is already supporting you (often unconsciously), where the gaps might be, and how to intentionally build stronger, more strategic support around your career and leadership journey.

    In this episode, you’ll learn:
    1. What a personal board is and why it matters for female leaders
    2. The three key categories of a personal board
    3. The 12 different roles people can play in supporting your career
    4. How one person can fulfil multiple roles
    5. How to identify gaps in your current support network
    6. Practical steps to start building or strengthening your personal board
    7. How to approach people in a way that feels reciprocal and authentic
    8. Why paying it forward is part of sustainable leadership success

    Timestamps

    [00:00] Welcome to Unstuck and Unstoppable and the purpose of the podcast

    [01:35] Episode 61 introduction and New Year reflections

    [02:00] Why creating a personal board can transform your career

    [03:00] What a personal board is (and how it mirrors organisational boards)

    [04:00] Overview of the personal board framework and key principles

    [05:00] The three categories of a personal board

    [05:30] Information roles: Inspirer, Expert, Navigator

    [07:00] Power and influence roles: Connector, Sponsor, Unlocker, Influencer

    [09:00] Development and support roles: Challenger, Improver, Cheerleader/Anchor

    [11:00] Real-life examples from Sarah’s leadership career

    [12:00] Becoming more intentional about who supports you

    [13:00] Identifying gaps in your personal board

    [14:00] Who to consider when building your board (beyond line managers)

    [15:00] How to approach people and make it mutually beneficial

    [15:45] Paying it forward and supporting others in their careers

    [16:30] Practical action to take this week

    [17:00] Final reflections and episode close

    Take action

    After listening, write down three people who already support your career or could play a role on your personal board. Reach out to one of them this week to reconnect, say thank you, or start a more intentional conversation.

    Useful Links

    Who is in your Personal Boardroom? By Zella King & Amanda Scott

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  • Episode 60 Design Your Leadership journey for 2026
    Jan 2 2026

    In this first episode of the New Year, Sarah invites you to step back from the day-to-day demands of work and intentionally design your leadership journey for the year ahead.

    Whether you’re listening in January or later in the year, this episode will help you move out of “autopilot mode” and into conscious, values-led career decision-making. Sarah shares practical reflections, coaching insights, and powerful questions to help you clarify what you want for your career – not just what you want at work.

    If you’ve ever felt stuck, unsure about what’s next, or driven more by others’ agendas than your own, this episode is for you.

    Show Notes

    [00:00] Welcome to Unstuck and Unstoppable

    [01:45] Episode 60: Designing your leadership journey for 2026

    Why this is the perfect time to set intentions for your career (and why you can do this at any time of year).

    [02:45] The danger of running your career on autopilot

    How slipping into “unconscious mode” can leave you at the whim of organisational decisions, other people’s careers, or knee-jerk reactions.

    [03:45] The benefits of being intentional about your career

    How clarity, purpose, authenticity, self-leadership, and alignment support sustainable career success.

    [05:00] A real-life example of unconscious career decision-making

    A coaching conversation that highlights why stepping back before making a move matters.

    [06:30] How to become more intentional: 3 key areas to focus on

    [06:45] 1. Increase your self-awareness

    Understanding your why, what drives you, and how your work connects to your values.

    [07:30] Discovering your “why”

    Why it can feel hard to articulate – and how values, energy, and enjoyment offer clues.

    [08:30] What do you love, and what don’t you love?

    Using simple reflection to identify what to increase, reduce, delegate, or change in your role.

    [09:45] 2. Develop your career success criteria

    Why success is more than job title and pay – and how to define success on your own terms.

    [11:00] Sarah shares her own career success criteria

    Examples including impact, financial freedom, challenge, learning, and flexibility – and how these guide decision-making.

    [13:00] 3. Answering the “what next?” question

    How clarity on your why and success criteria makes future career decisions easier and more confident.

    [14:00] Creating a plan and checking in with yourself

    Staying intentional through regular reflection and adjustment.

    [14:45] Final reflections and encouragement

    Why it’s never too late to choose intentionality in your career.

    [15:00] How to get support

    Invitation to reach out for coaching and explore free resources.

    Being intentional about your career isn’t about having everything figured out. It’s about choosing to lead yourself with clarity, purpose, and courage.

    Shine brightly. Lead boldly. Be unstoppable.

    Useful Links

    Sign up for Weekly Career Inspiration

    Learn about Leadership & Advancement Coaching Programmes

    Book a Free 121 Clarity Call

    Join The Love What You Do Facebook Group

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  • Episode 59 Career Happiness Chceck In: Are you leading the life you want to live?
    Dec 27 2025

    In this reflective end-of-year episode, Sarah guides you through a powerful Career Happiness Check-In to help you understand whether your work is truly giving you what you need. Using the Career Happiness Wheel, she walks you step-by-step through assessing where you're thriving, where you’re feeling stuck, and what small, practical actions can move the dial toward more joy, purpose, and fulfillment at work.

    If you’ve been feeling flat, disconnected, or simply unsure about your next step, this episode will help you reconnect with what matters and take back a sense of agency in your career.

    Show Notes

    00:00 — Welcome to Unstuck and Unstoppable

    02:00 — Why doing a career happiness check-in matters

    02:30 — Work takes up 92,000 hours - why it deserves attention

    03:00 — The importance of awareness: Are you actually happy at work?

    03:30 — Why high-achieving women rarely pause to reflect

    03:50 — Overview of today’s framework + three actions to take

    04:00 — Three signs it might be time for a shift

    04:15 — Sign 1: Successful on paper but feeling flat

    04:40 — Episode 58 on Success Fatigue (referenced)

    04:55 — Sign 2: You’ve outgrown your role or organization

    05:15 — Sign 3: You’re putting everyone else first

    05:45 — Introducing the Career Happiness Wheel

    06:00 — How to create and label your wheel

    06:30 — Possible segment labels: challenge, culture, learning, expertise, recognition, values, balance, team, progression

    07:00 — Scoring each segment and shading your wheel

    07:45 — Using the visual to spot areas of strength and areas needing attention

    08:00 — Taking a macro view: What do you want your wheel to look like in 6–12 months?

    08:30 — Choosing one area and breaking it down: example - work-life balance

    09:00 — Practical questions to improve balance (boundaries, support, deadlines, delegation)

    09:40 — Three actions to take this week

    09:50 — Action 1: One small action that energizes you

    10:20 — Action 2: Have one honest conversation

    10:50 — Action 3: Book 30 minutes of monthly “career thinking” time

    11:20 — Revisit your wheel every 3 months to track progress

    11:50 — Why this exercise matters: You deserve meaningful, joyful work

    12:15 — Invitation to share your Career Happiness Wheel outcomes

    12:40 — Where to find resources and how to connect

    Useful Links

    Episode 58 What to do if you're experiencing success fatigue

    Sign up for Weekly Career Inspiration

    Learn about Leadership & Advancement Coaching Programmes

    Book a Free 121 Clarity Call

    Join The Love What You Do Facebook Group

    Connect with Sarah on LinkedIn

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  • Episode 58 What to do if you are experiencing success fatigue?
    Dec 19 2025

    In this episode, Sarah explores a topic many high-achieving women experience but rarely talk about: Success Fatigue. If you’ve reached a point in your career where things look great on paper but inside you feel flat, disconnected, or wonder “Is this it?” - this episode will help you understand what’s going on and what to do next.

    You’ll learn what success fatigue really is, how to tell it apart from burnout or boredom, the deeper causes behind it, and three practical steps to regain meaning, motivation, and clarity in your career.

    In This Episode You’ll Learn:

    • What success fatigue is and isn’t
    • Why high achievers are particularly vulnerable to it
    • The four common causes that trigger this feeling
    • How to reconnect with meaning and energy in your work
    • How to redefine success for the next stage of your career
    • Practical tools like job crafting to shift things without drastic change

    Show Notes

    00:00 — Introduction

    01:00 — Today’s Topic: Success Fatigue

    Why this topic matters for female leaders.

    02:00 — What Is Success Fatigue?

    How it feels, why it’s not burnout or boredom, and common signs.

    03:00 — Emotional & Mental Fatigue

    That “Is this it?” feeling and the sense of flatness after achieving big goals.

    04:00 — Signs You Might Be Experiencing It

    Disengagement, cynicism, lack of excitement, going through the motions.

    05:00 — Four Core Causes

    1. Success by default
    2. Emotional depletion
    3. The goal treadmill & hedonic treadmill
    4. Misaligned values

    09:00 — Normalising the Experience

    Why this isn’t a failure -it’s a sign of growth.

    10:00 — Step 1: Pause & Acknowledge

    How to understand what’s really going on without gaslighting yourself.

    11:00 — Step 2: Reconnect With Meaning

    What “meaningful work” actually means and how to identify your personal sources of meaning.

    12:00 — Job Crafting Tools

    Task, relationship and mindset crafting to reshape your current role.

    14:00 — Step 3: Redefine Your Success Criteria

    Updating your definition of success so it reflects your life now, not who you were 10–20 years ago.

    15:00 — Recalibrating Your Career

    Why small shifts not big leaps are often enough.

    16:00 — Using Success Fatigue as a Wake-Up Call

    How reflection can set you up for the next phase of your career.

    16:30 — How Coaching Can Help

    An invitation to connect if you want support navigating this transition.

    Useful Links

    Sign up for Weekly Career Inspiration

    Learn about Leadership & Advancement Coaching Programmes

    Book a Free 121 Clarity Call

    Join The Love What You Do Facebook Group

    Connect with Sarah on LinkedIn

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  • Episode 57 How To Be A Resilient Leader in Uncertain Times
    Dec 12 2025

    Sarah explores what it really means to be a resilient leader in a world of constant change, uncertainty, and competing demands. From navigating restructures and shifting expectations to managing your own wellbeing while supporting your team - resilience is no longer optional, it’s essential.

    You’ll learn three powerful practices to strengthen your emotional resilience, adopt a more adaptive mindset, and lead with empathy, even when everything around you feels unpredictable. Sarah also shares real client stories that show you’re not alone in facing decision fatigue, change fatigue, and the pressures of leadership.

    If you're ready to stay steady, centred, and impactful no matter what’s happening around you, this episode will support you in putting your own oxygen mask on first so you can lead with clarity and confidence.

    Shownotes

    01:00 – Today’s Topic: Navigating Change & Uncertainty

    Why resilience matters more than ever in the modern workplace.

    02:00 – From VUCA to BANI

    Introducing the BANI framework - brittle, anxious, non-linear, incomprehensible - why it feels even more unsettling than VUCA, and what it means for leaders today.

    04:00 – The Leadership Pressure Cooker

    Balancing your own wellbeing while supporting your team, dealing with shifting demands, and why uncertainty affects everyone.

    05:00 – Client Story #1: The CMO in Constant Change

    How one leader navigated restructures, rebrands, and an exhausted team—while integrating enthusiastic new hires.

    06:30 – Client Story #2: Leading Under a Changeable CEO

    Handling unclear priorities, changing direction, and decision fatigue while trying to deliver major projects.

    07:30 – You’re Not Alone

    Why so many leaders feel overwhelmed and how shared experience can help.

    Three Foundations of Resilient Leadership

    08:00 – 1. Emotional Resilience

    Why responding rather than reacting matters, and the power of a simple pause practice.

    08:30 – The Pause Practice Explained

    Using breath to regulate your nervous system and make better decisions—even in high-pressure moments.

    09:30 – Practical Examples

    How to use pause techniques before senior meetings, tricky conversations, or urgent decisions.

    10:00 – 2. Cultivating an Adaptive Mindset

    How resilient leaders see uncertainty as an opportunity for growth.

    10:30 – Reframing Your Self-Talk

    Shifting from “Why me?” to “What can I learn here?” and why this conscious mindset shift matters.

    11:30 – 3. Leading with Empathy & Connection

    How to anchor your team during uncertainty without feeling like you must have all the answers.

    12:00 – A Powerful Question for Your Team

    “What do you need from me right now?” — and why this creates agency, clarity, and calm.

    12:30 – Using the Question for Yourself

    Applying the same reflection to your own support and wellbeing.

    13:00 – Bringing It All Together

    Sarah recaps the three strategies and invites listeners to reflect on which one resonates most.

    13:40 – A Final Reminder

    You don’t need to be perfect - you just need to stay grounded, compassionate, and willing to support yourself first.

    Useful Links

    Sign up for Weekly Career Inspiration

    Learn about Leadership & Advancement Coaching Programmes

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  • Episode 56 Are you a self-compassionate leader?
    Dec 5 2025

    In this episode Sarah explores one of the most overlooked yet transformational leadership skills: self-compassion. So many ambitious women lead with empathy for others but are relentlessly hard on themselves. Sarah breaks down why self-compassion isn’t soft or indulgent - it’s a strategic leadership advantage.

    If you’ve ever felt “not good enough,” replayed mistakes, or pushed yourself to burnout levels, this episode will help you shift into a kinder, more effective, and more sustainable leadership style.

    What You’ll Learn

    • What self-compassion really is (and isn’t)
    • The three pillars of self-compassion
    • How your inner critic gets in the way of leadership effectiveness
    • Simple techniques to create a more compassionate internal dialogue
    • How self-compassion improves team performance, resilience, and confidence
    • A weekly practice to start becoming a more self-compassionate leader

    Show Notes

    01:00 – Why Feeling “Stuck” Happens at Every Level

    Normalising self-doubt and imposter feelings — even for senior leaders.

    02:00 – Today’s Topic: Are You a Self-Compassionate Leader?

    Why self-compassion matters and how it affects leadership performance.

    02:30 – How High-Achieving Women Talk to Themselves

    Common phrases Sarah hears from clients and the toll this negative self-talk takes.

    03:00 – A Client Story: The Compassionate Leader Who Was Brutal with Herself

    A powerful example from a senior tech leader who created a safe, high-performing team — but silently battled her inner critic.

    04:00 – Consequences of an Unmanaged Inner Critic

    Burnout, indecision, perfectionism, and career self-sabotage.

    04:45 – Why We Don’t Notice Our Inner Critic

    Understanding how long-held thought patterns become automatic.

    05:00 – Why We Don’t Need to “Eliminate” the Inner Critic

    Its protective role — and why the goal is to develop an inner coach instead.

    05:40 – Introducing a Self-Compassion Practice

    How compassion builds the foundation for managing fear-based self-talk.

    06:00 – The Research: Why Self-Compassion Is a Strength

    Resilience, emotional intelligence, stress reduction — and why kindness is strategic.

    06:40 – The Three Pillars of Self-Compassion

    1. Self-kindness over self-judgment
    2. Common humanity over isolation
    3. Mindfulness over over-identification

    07:20 – How Over-Identification Fuels Rumination

    Why noticing your thoughts is more powerful than believing them.

    08:00 – Technique 1: Awareness & Noticing Your Inner Critic

    How to identify triggers and write down the language you use with yourself.

    09:00 – Technique 2: What Would You Say to a Friend?

    Reframing your self-talk with compassion and perspective.

    09:40 – Technique 3: Reframing Critical Thoughts

    Turning “I failed” into “I’m learning” — without damaging your sense of self.

    10:30 – Technique 4: A Micro Self-Compassion Check-In

    A moment to breathe, acknowledge difficulty, and ask: What do I need right now?

    11:00 – Using Tone & Touch to Soothe the Nervous System

    How gentle tone, a self-hug, or hand-stroking can reduce stress.

    12:00 – Bringing It All Together

    A summary of the steps and how to blend them into daily leadership.

    12:40 – Weekly Reflection Questions

    Where does your inner critic show up? What triggers it? What’s one act of self-compassion you can choose this...

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  • Episode 55 How to Increase Your Visibility As A Leader Using LinkedIn
    Nov 28 2025

    In this episode, Sarah dives into one of the biggest challenges many female leaders face: visibility. Whether you want to create more impact in your organisation, develop your personal leadership brand, or open the door to new opportunities, LinkedIn is a powerful tool to help you get seen, heard and recognised.

    Sarah breaks down how to use LinkedIn with confidence and authenticity, offering practical tips, mindset shifts and real-life client examples to make visibility feel achievable-not awkward. If you’re ready to elevate your leadership presence online, this episode will give you a clear pathway to start.

    Show Notes

    01:00 – The Purpose of Today’s Episode

    Why visibility matters for leaders and why LinkedIn is one of the most effective platforms to build your leadership presence.

    02:00 – Why Visibility Feels Hard

    How conditioning around humility, not wanting to “show off,” and fear of judgement holds many women back.

    03:00 – Visibility Beyond Job Searching

    Why LinkedIn shouldn’t only be used when job hunting-and how it supports long-term career strategy, influence and recognition.

    04:00 – Client Success Story

    How a senior marketing manager used her leadership brand and consistent LinkedIn engagement to grow her confidence, get noticed internally and step into a Head of Department role.

    05:00 – Starting with Your Personal Leadership Brand

    Understanding who you are as a leader, what you stand for and how you want to be known.

    07:00 – Using Your Voice on LinkedIn

    How to share insights, lessons learned and thought leadership—beyond simply posting achievements.

    08:00 – Telling Your Leadership Story

    Making your experience useful to others, choosing what to share and linking it to your values.

    09:00 – Communicating Your Passions & Strengths

    Highlighting topics that matter to you-such as inclusion, wellbeing, innovation and positioning yourself as the “go-to” person.

    10:00 – Noticing Resistance & Mindset Barriers

    Why caring about visibility can feel uncomfortable, and how to recognise mindset blocks that may need reframing.

    11:00 – A Key Question to Ask Yourself

    “If someone landed on your LinkedIn profile today, would they know what kind of leader you are?”

    12:00 – Practical LinkedIn Profile Optimisation

    Auditing your banner, photo, headline, About section and recommendations to ensure they reflect your leadership brand.

    14:00 – Posting & Engagement Strategy

    Starting from your current comfort level—whether that’s liking, commenting or posting—and stretching gradually.

    15:00 – Being Strategic With Your Network

    Connecting intentionally with peers, industry leaders and potential future hiring managers.

    16:00 – What to Post

    Using visuals, carousels, shared content and storytelling to create engagement and spark conversation.

    17:00 – Engagement as a Two-Way Street

    Replying to comments, uplifting others, tagging people and sharing others’ work to build visibility and community.

    18:00 – Your Weekly Action

    Choosing one small, doable action to increase your visibility this week.

    19:00 – Closing Thoughts & Resources

    A reminder that visibility isn’t about showing off-it’s about sharing your impact authentically and helping others. Plus, access to free resources and a call to subscribe, review and share.

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  • Episode 54 The Hidden Ways Imposter Syndrome Shows Up For Successful Women
    Nov 21 2025

    In this episode Sarah explores the subtle yet powerful ways imposter feelings show up for high-achieving women-often without them realising. From overthinking to perfectionism to holding back in meetings, Sarah breaks down eight common patterns she sees in her clients and shares a simple but effective mindset tool you can start using today. If imposter feelings have been draining your confidence, energy, or ambition, this episode will help you recognise the signs and take your first steps toward breaking free.

    Show Notes

    [00:00:00] – Welcome to Unstuck and Unstoppable

    [00:01:00] – Why Imposter Feelings Matter

    The hidden ways imposter feelings show up for successful women. Inspired by a recent LinkedIn poll, she highlights overthinking and self-doubt as the two most common manifestations.

    [00:02:00] – Awareness Is Step One

    Imposter feelings are sneaky, often long-established patterns. Sarah explains why becoming aware of how they show up is crucial before you can change them.

    [00:02:30] – Webinar Announcement

    Sarah invites listeners to her upcoming webinar: How to Break Free From Imposter Syndrome and Shine as a Leader (25th November).

    [00:03:00] – Imposter Feelings in Practice

    Sarah shares how imposter feelings affected her early leadership career-leading to over-preparation, comparison, anxiety, and eventually burnout.

    [00:04:00] – What Imposter Feelings Really Are

    She reframes “imposter syndrome” as “imposter feelings” and describes them as a psychological pattern-not a personal flaw. Patterns can be changed.

    [00:05:30] – The 8 Hidden Ways Imposter Feelings Show Up

    Sarah introduces eight subtle but common behaviours driven by imposter feelings.

    The 8 Hidden Ways Imposter Feelings Show Up

    1. [00:06:00] Over-Preparation / Perfectionism

    Feeling you must deliver perfectly, leading to burnout, procrastination, and risk-aversion.

    2. [00:07:00] Downplaying Achievements

    Attributing success to luck or others, which diminishes your visibility and value in the eyes of others.

    3. [00:07:30] Holding Back Opinions

    Staying silent in meetings to avoid being wrong-reducing influence and visibility.

    4. [00:08:00] Avoiding Visibility

    Turning down opportunities that stretch you, limiting growth and career progression.

    5. [00:09:00] Over-Apologising

    Using apologetic language unnecessarily, which can reduce perceived confidence.

    6. [00:09:30] Comparisonitis

    Measuring your success against others rather than your own criteria, distracting from your own growth.

    7. [00:10:00] Second-Guessing & Overthinking

    Overthinking minor or major decisions, causing procrastination, missed opportunities, and decision fatigue.

    8. [00:11:00] Taking On Too Much

    Saying yes to everything or micromanaging to “prove yourself,” often resulting in burnout and appearing less strategic.

    [00:12:30] – The Fear of Changing What “Works”

    Sarah acknowledges the fear many women have: If I stop doing these behaviours, will I still be successful? She explains why the answer is yes and how letting go can unlock more effective leadership.

    [00:13:00] – Mini Mindset Exercise: Naming Your Inner Critic

    Sarah shares a practical technique for bringing the unconscious “imposter voice” into awareness:

    1. Name your inner critic to separate it from your identity.
    2. Identify its triggers.
    3. Present evidence to counter its claims.
    4. Use self-reassurance
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