You’ve been told your whole life that if you fix that one thing, things will finally shift for you.

Be less loud and more people will like you.

Be more serious and you’ll be respected.

Tweak your nose and your attitude, and suddenly you’ll be worthy of love and success.

But here’s the truth.

That belief isn’t empowering you. You’re being manipulated.

This episode unpacks why you actually don’t need to change a single thing to feel and be magnetic, you just need to start with remembering who the f*ck you are.

Because when your version of unconditional love matches Source’s definition, that’s when everything finally shifts.

You get chosen. Opportunities are lined up for you. You stop performing and overgiving. You stop losing yourself just to win over others.

Unlocking your full power and potential doesn’t come from shapeshifting into someone else. It comes from letting go of what you thought you had to be or do to get what you want.

You get to rewrite the script, where you are the standard and love for yourself doesn’t come with conditions.

RESOURCES MENTIONED

The Glow Foundation - LIVE 90-min Workshop - September 2025

https://www.alexandraninfo.com/theglowfoundation

Your $28 Foundational Program

https://www.alexandraninfo.com/the-foundation

The Alexandra Ninfo Affiliate Program

https://www.alexandraninfo.com/affiliate

Unf*ck Yourself Membership

https://www.alexandraninfo.com/membership

FOLLOW ME

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You Can Also Listen to Unf*ck Yourself Podcast Here
Site - https://www.alexandraninfo.com/podcast

Apple Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/unf-ck-yourself/id1647393740

Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/4OfhtVIbV73xuSrZ2MnXKZ?si=f3fabaa47ca4482e

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@AlexandraNinfo

From the Source perspective, self-image is the KEY to anything you desire to create in your life. And when we have self-image blocks that remain unhealed, it becomes the root to every single obstacle in our life.

Didn't get the raise you wanted?
Can't get pregnant?
Partner won't commit to you?

Every single perceived obstacle comes down to a self-image problem somewhere.

How?

Our brains create neural pathways that have conditioned us - with beliefs and patterns - to be our own worst critic. Since childhood, it's created neural loops that... we aren't good enough. And those create issues that appear in our life, in every area of life - finances, relationships, your health, anywhere.

But so often, we try to fix an internal problem with an external solution. That doesn't get to the actual root cause which means you don't actually heal. If you break your leg and try to cover up the bruises with concealer... it doesn't actually fix the problem.

This episode gives you the answers on how to start to reprogram and rewire your brain for actual healing, by suffocating these old neural pathways to create new ones.

RESOURCES MENTIONED

The Glow Foundation - LIVE 90-min Workshop - September 2025

Your $28 Foundational Program

The Alexandra Ninfo Affiliate Program

Unf*ck Yourself Membership

PODCAST EPISODES

You’re Hot But You Don’t See It

Why Self-Love The Spiritual World Teaches You Is Keeping You From Your Potential

Foundation of the Source Truth of Self-Image + Why It’s Causing All Your Obstacles

SELF-LOVE: the key to getting what you want + program your creator field for success (from SOURCE)

This specific Source-channeled self-image healing is what’s MISSING from your ability to create your manifestations

FOLLOW ME

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/alexandraninfo

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@alexandraninfo

You Can Also Listen to Unf*ck Yourself Podcast Here
Site - https://www.alexandraninfo.com/podcast

Apple Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/unf-ck-yourself/id1647393740

Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/4OfhtVIbV73xuSrZ2MnXKZ?si=f3fabaa47ca4482e

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@AlexandraNinfo

Connect with Rebecca Ives

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_content_queen/

Rebecca’s Course: Girls Just Wanna Have Funnels

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Rebecca Ives knows firsthand how truly powerful self-image work is - it’s shifted her entire life.

She’s no stranger to my world - she’s invested in multiple programs, attended the live in-person Glow Retreat in February, and has worked with me 1:1. The literal definition of dedicated to transformation.

In this episode, Rebecca gets vulnerable and shares her personal journey with fertility struggles, feeling dependent on weed, and not being able to sustain her business that took off faster than she expected.

She opens up about how the self-image tools and teachings she’s learned helped her finally create the results she was looking for.

Inside, we discuss:

✔️ The overwhelm Rebecca felt when her business skyrocketed but felt too heavy to carry with unhealed self-image wounds

✔️ The role self-image played in her fertility journey

✔️ The exact moment she realized she needed to shift her life

✔️ How connecting with her innate value and healing her self-image helped her unlock her next aligned steps

✔️ Identity shifts - transitioning from who you think you should be to who you truly are

✔️ The self-image tools and courses Rebecca invested in to transform

✔️ How you become a match for others’ projections through your self-image

✔️ Reprogramming limiting beliefs around finances

✔️ How shifting her self-image finally helped her quit weed

AND SO MUCH MORE

This week’s episode is a POWERFUL reminder of what’s possible when you choose healing over quick-fixes.

RESOURCES MENTIONED

Rebecca’s Course: Girls Just Wanna Have Funnels

The Glow Foundation Waitlist

https://www.alexandraninfo.com/theglowfoundation

Your $28 Foundational Program

https://www.alexandraninfo.com/the-foundation

The Alexandra Ninfo Affiliate Program

https://www.alexandraninfo.com/affiliate

Unf*ck Yourself Membership

https://www.alexandraninfo.com/membership

FOLLOW ME

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/alexandraninfo

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@alexandraninfo

You Can Also Listen to Unf*ck Yourself Podcast Here
Site -

FOLLOW ME

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/alexandraninfo

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@alexandraninfo

You Can Also Listen to Unf*ck Yourself Podcast Here
Site - https://www.alexandraninfo.com/podcast

Apple Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/unf-ck-yourself/id1647393740

Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/4OfhtVIbV73xuSrZ2MnXKZ?si=f3fabaa47ca4482e

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@AlexandraNinfo