Hey friend! This episode is one of my favorites because it cracks open a hard truth: you’re not stuck. You’re distracted. And when you don’t fully trust yourself yet, distractions can look exactly like opportunities. That’s where discernment comes in.

Here’s what I’m breaking down inside this conversation:

That space between what you say you want… and what you actually choose. This gap is where overwhelm, overcommitment, and comparison quietly run your life.

They’re sneaky. They show up as shiny offers, misaligned mentors, comparison spirals, old habits you’ve outgrown, or the simple “let me check my phone real quick.” (Hi, it’s me.)

Expansion. Truth. Alignment. Sometimes scary, yes. But it activates you, not drains you. Your body always knows the difference.

Whether you’re emotional, sacral, splenic, ego, projector, or reflector, your inner guidance is always speaking. Your intuition is your actual strategy.

That sinking feeling? That “oh no… this isn’t what I thought it would be”? Been there. Recently. And it taught me, again, to stop outsourcing my knowing.

Your Reflection Ritual

Give yourself five minutes and get honest:

• What distractions am I choosing over my goals?
• What opportunities have I avoided because they scared me?
• What does expansion feel like in my body?
• What does contraction feel like and where is it showing up?
• What’s one distraction I’m ready to release before the year ends?

This work builds clarity. Clarity builds momentum.

And momentum is exactly where we’re heading next, in Episode 3, where we tap into your 2026 vision.

Welcome back to Unscripted, babe. We’re kicking off a 4-part end-of-year series—the 2026 Clarity + Visibility Series—and we’re starting exactly where all real transformation begins: radical truth. In this episode, I’m inviting you into a full-body honesty check. Not the version of you Instagram wants. Not the version of you from last year. The version of you sitting right here, right now. The one navigating real life, real emotions, real resistance… and real desires. Because if you want to build something real in 2026, you cannot build it on delusion. You can only build it from your truth. Inside this raw, grounded, fully unscripted episode, I break down:

🔥 The messy middle we all try to avoid Shame. Avoidance. Overcompensation. Burnout. I’ve lived it. You’ve lived it. The only way through it is truth.

🔥 The identity you must release before 2026 You cannot carry outdated, misaligned identities into a year you want to transform. We talk about identity deaths, pivots, and letting go of who you used to be.

I’m literally recording this from the beach after a full-on downpour, because consistency doesn’t always look perfect—and that’s part of what I want to talk about today.

Lately I’ve been thinking a LOT about what it actually takes to go pro with your vision heading into 2026, and why so many of you keep getting in your own way. You say you’re meant for more, you want visibility, legacy, impact… but you’re still playing small because:

• You’re not actually celebrating your wins (I used to hide mine too).
• You’re comparing your journey to people in a completely different season.
• You’re confusing mentorship with buying every course out of fear.
• You’re waiting for clarity—when clarity only comes from action.

Here’s what I’ve learned through marriage planning, long-distance, parenting through injuries, business highs/lows—and still showing the fuck up:

👉 Your nervous system + habits are your foundation. Without that, every storm knocks you over. 👉Your small wins ARE the momentum. When you don’t honor them, you block bigger blessings. 👉 If nobody knows who you are, they can’t find you. Visibility is not optional in 2026. 👉 Scaling isn’t the only way. Some of us are built for intimate, high-touch leadership. 👉 You don’t have to go fast—you just have to go forward.

I also get real about Human Design moments (my fellow Manifesting Generators and Projectors—this one’s for you) and why I’m finally reopening my 1:1 coaching spots for high-level thought leaders in 2026.

If you're ready to get visible, build something that actually feels aligned, and have someone help you hold the vision when life is lifing—this episode is for you.

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DM me what landed. Tell me the win you’ve been hiding. Ask for help—it’s the biggest flex there is.

Blinders on. Full focus. Let’s f*cking go.