Episode 198 of the Todos Toman Podcast is all about unwritten rules, the ones everyone follows... until someone doesn’tMiguel, Tank, and Romero talk through the social rules we all magically learned growing up:

– Elevator silence

– The last slice nobody wants

– Don’t hit “reply all”

– Showing up empty-handed

– Taking your shoes off (or not)

– Roasting your friends but defending them in public

Johnny Boy is out this episode, but we’re sending a birthday shoutout to Tina. The crew debates which unwritten rules should be canceled, which should actually be written down, and what happens when someone completely ignores the rule and ruins the vibe.

Press play and see how many of these rules you’ve broken

Have you ever caught yourself saying something to your kids and thought, “Damn… that sounded like my parents”?In this episode of Todos Toman, we unpack why parenting feels so heavy — and why so much of it feels personal. We talk about breaking generational cycles, how childhood trauma shows up in our reactions, and the real meaning of gentle parenting versus permissive parenting.We get into:Moments that stop you mid-reactionWhy your kids’ behavior can trigger old woundsCultural clashes when you parent differently than elders expect“We didn’t talk back” vs “We didn’t feel safe talking”What we’re intentionally leaving behind — and what we’re keepingThis is an honest conversation about healing while raising humans, redefining strength, and asking the hard question:If your child talks about you as an adult… what do you hope they say? Listen now and join the conversation.

The Todos Toman Podcast crew is going LIVE to close out the year with festive sweaters, holiday spirits, laughs, and real talk. Join us as we toast the end of the year and send you into 2026 with good vibes and Palabras de Tank.This special live episode is proudly sponsored by Milpa Milpa—handcrafted candles and soaps inspired by Mexican roots and Midwestern craftsmanship.Grab a drink, get cozy, and hang out with us live.