Are We Raising Kids or Re Parenting Ourselves

Have you ever caught yourself saying something to your kids and thought, “Damn… that sounded like my parents”?In this episode of Todos Toman, we unpack why parenting feels so heavy — and why so much of it feels personal. We talk about breaking generational cycles, how childhood trauma shows up in our reactions, and the real meaning of gentle parenting versus permissive parenting.We get into:Moments that stop you mid-reactionWhy your kids’ behavior can trigger old woundsCultural clashes when you parent differently than elders expect“We didn’t talk back” vs “We didn’t feel safe talking”What we’re intentionally leaving behind — and what we’re keepingThis is an honest conversation about healing while raising humans, redefining strength, and asking the hard question:If your child talks about you as an adult… what do you hope they say? Listen now and join the conversation.