You know the relationship isn’t right.You’ve prayed, processed, maybe even postponed the conversation…But now it’s time to say it out loud—and you want to do it the right way.This episode will walk you step-by-step through how to break up at every stage of Christian dating—with clarity, maturity, and integrity. Whether you’ve only been texting or you’re weeks away from the wedding, this is your guide to ending it without guilt, ghosting, or games.God cares about how you exit just as much as how you enter.And if He’s leading you to let go, He’ll give you the words to do it with courage and care.

🔍 You’ll Learn:✔️ How to speak up without being harsh or over-explaining✔️ Why obedience sometimes looks like letting go✔️ What to say (and what not to say) during a breakup✔️ How to walk away with clarity, not confusion✔️ Why your breakup can be a witness—not just an ending🙌 This episode is for you if:- You feel stuck in something that’s not aligned- You’re scared to hurt them but know it’s not God’s best- You’ve never been shown how to end something with wisdom- You want to break up without breaking character

Most Christian couples don’t fall apart because they don’t love God.They fall apart because they didn’t have a process.In this episode, we’re walking you through the 6 core stages of dating that almost every godly relationship passes through—from the first spark to the final stretch before marriage—and how to move through each one with clarity, wisdom, and purpose.Whether you're just catching feelings or talking about rings, this conversation will help you:✅ Recognize what season you're in✅ Avoid common mistakes that cost people peace✅ Adopt mindsets that protect your heart and honor God✅ And discern what God might be showing you—before things go too farWe also share our personal stories, the lessons we learned the hard way, and why dating with vision can change everything for your future marriage and family.🙌 This episode isn’t here to shame you—it’s here to strengthen you. If you’ve never done it this way before, that’s okay. You can start now. God is a Redeemer and He’s not done writing your story.👣 Listen in and get equipped to date differently—on purpose, with God, and for His glory.CHAPTERS00:00 - Intro: Why Most Christian Couples Fail (It's Not What You Think) 01:45 - How to Use This Dating Path for Wisdom, Not Just Feelings 03:20 - Stage 1: The Spark — Chemistry vs. Clarity 06:10 - Stage 2: Intentional Talking — Getting to Know Them Without Losing Yourself 10:30 - Stage 3: Exclusive Dating — Dating With Purpose, Not Pressure 15:40 - Stage 4: Discernment — Can I Marry This Person? 20:45 - Stage 5: Engagement — Preparing for Covenant, Not Just a Wedding 25:00 - Stage 6: Final Stretch — Fighting Pressure With Peace 28:45 - Final Encouragement: You Can Date Differently—One Step at a Time

Just because you love someone doesn’t mean you’re supposed to marry them.In this episode, we break down the real difference between romantic feelings and godly love—and why strong chemistry isn’t a good enough reason to say “yes” to forever.Whether you’re currently dating, deeply in love, or trying to discern if this is your person, this conversation will help you stop settling, get clarity, and move forward with confidence.📌 In this episode, you’ll learn:-How to tell if it’s just romance or real love-Why chemistry and connection aren’t enough for marriage-What godly suitability actually looks like-The role of purpose in Christian relationships-How to avoid marrying based on feelings alone⏱️ Chapters:0:00 – Intro: Romance ≠ Real Love2:45 – Why feelings aren’t the foundation8:27 – The difference between chemistry and compatibility10:01 – What “suitability” means in a godly relationship12:40 – Purpose: what’s the real “why” behind your relationship?15:15 – Red flags when love feels right but still wrong19:40 – Closing encouragement & what to pray for clarity

Dating as a Christian? Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, or married—these are the things you ACTUALLY need to honor God in every stage of your relationship.✅ We’re breaking down:- What to grab during the talking stage- Must-haves for dating with purpose- Essentials for the serious/engaged season- Game-changers for married couples👀 And the best part? 👉 Most of these are on sale for Amazon Prime Day!These aren’t just cute products—they’re tools that will help you:- Stay spiritually grounded- Build healthy connection- Keep your relationship fun AND holyCHAPTERS00:00 - Intro: Everything You ACTUALLY Need to Date God’s Way 01:55 - Talking Stage: Start With God 05:05 - Dating: Fun, Boundaries & Purpose 06:52 - Serious Stage: Discernment & Depth 9:44 - Engaged: Preparing for Marriage 12:36 - Married: Keeping It Holy & Hot 14:40 - Final Recap + Closing🛒 Shop All Our Prime Day Picks:https://www.amazon.com/shop/wearejustdating/list/2784D104BJ559?ref_=aip_sf_list_spv_ofs_list_d Products We Mentioned:Prayer journalsConversation cardsDevotionals for singles, dating, engaged, & married couplesRegistry must-haves (air fryer, espresso machine, cozy robes)Bible essentials + journaling toolsDate night games + memory makers

You’re always there for him. He says all the right things. But something still feels... off. In this episode, we’re helping you discern whether the person you’re dating truly loves you—or if they just like having access to you.

We break down signs of convenient relationships, what real biblical love actually looks like, and how to avoid wasting time with someone who only loves your presence—not your soul.

This one’s real, raw, and freeing.

You know what wedding day love looks like…But what about the love you need while you're dating?

In this episode, we walk through 1 Corinthians 13—not just as poetry—but as a practical blueprint for how godly love should look and feel before marriage.

If you're tired of guessing whether your relationship is biblical, healthy, or just emotionally chaotic—this is your guide to stop settling and start seeing clearly.

We’re talking:-What “patient” love really looks like in dating

-Why kindness matters more than chemistry

-How to spot love that builds vs. love that drainsThis episode is for singles and dating couples who are done with confusion and ready for real love, God’s way.CHAPTERS0:00 – Intro: Why 1 Corinthians 13 isn’t just for weddings 1:30 – What makes love godly in dating? 4:00 – “Love is patient” in real life 6:00 – “Love is kind” even during conflict 8:00 – Love that doesn’t envy or compete 10:00 – Selfless, honoring, humble love 12:00 – Love that forgives without keeping score 15:00 – Real love protects, trusts, and perseveres 17:00 – How to apply this in your current relationship 21:00 – Are you dating with God’s definition of love—or the world’s? 24:00 – Encouragement & prayer for real love 29:00 – Outro + next episode preview📚 Related Videos: 🎥 Lust, Love, or Lies? How to Tell the Difference

You’re attracted to each other… but can you trust them with your soul?

In this episode of our Real Love series, we’re breaking down the difference between lust, love, and lies in Christian dating. Whether you’re confused about your feelings or wondering if the relationship is really from God, we’re giving you biblical wisdom and honest signs to help you discern what’s real.

We’ve been in relationships that felt right but left us empty—and we’ve learned that love without God at the center always leads to confusion. Let’s talk about the difference between emotional highs and spiritual health, chemistry and covenant, feelings and fruit.

💡 If you’ve ever asked:

-“Is this love or just lust?”

-“How do I know if they really love me?”

-“What does godly love actually look like in dating?”

This episode is for you.

CHAPTERS

0:00 Intro

1:00 Our past experiences with confusing love & attraction

2:30 What is love vs lust vs lies?

12:15 Signs it might be lust, not love

25:07 How lies creep into Christian dating

33:15 What real godly love looks like (1 Corinthians 13)

54:10 Questions to ask when you're unsure about your relationship

56:00 Final encouragement

How long is too long to wait for a proposal?

In today’s episode, we’re answering a powerful question from a listener who’s been dating her boyfriend for 4 years—but still no ring.

We’re diving into:

- Why some men delay commitment (and what’s really behind it)

- How to spot signs of deflection and avoidance

- 5 soft, but direct questions to ask your man

- What the Bible says about hope deferred

And how to protect your future when you’re tired of waiting

If you’ve been dating with no clear timeline, this episode is your wake-up call to stop settling for uncertainty.

👉 This isn’t about rushing a ring—it’s about refusing to stay stuck.

Timestamps:

0:00 – Intro

3:10 – Why some men wait too long

21:19 – What’s “too long” to wait?

32:07 – How to have an honest convo with your man

34:15 – Signs of deflection & avoidance

39:15 – 5 questions to get clarity

53:00 – Final encouragement

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