Why are so many young adults choosing to delay — or completely opt out of — marriage and parenthood? In this week’s episode of TUF, I dig into the shifting values around the American Dream: white picket fence, marriage, kids, career… and whether it still holds up in 2025.

As a millennial dad who did get married and did have kids — later than some, earlier than others — I share my personal journey, the challenges of modern parenting, and how becoming a parent forced me to grow. We dive into:

• Why younger generations are rethinking marriage
• The rise of the “DINK” (dual income, no kids) lifestyle
• Economic pressures making family life harder to access
• How fertility struggles impacted our family planning
• Redefining success and purpose in a child-free world
• The value of generational healing through intentional parenting

Whether you’re in your 20s, 30s, or beyond — thinking about starting a family, or actively avoiding it — this conversation is about what it means to build a meaningful life in today’s world.

💬 Where do you stand? Did you delay starting a family? Do you see marriage as outdated or essential? Drop your thoughts in the comments or send me a message — I want to hear from you.

#MillennialParenting #MarriageIn2025 #DelayedParenthood #ChildFreeByChoice #ModernFatherhood #FamilyPlanning #ParentingPodcast #DINKLifestyle #ParentingIn2025 #UnhingedFather

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In this week's thought-provoking episode of TUF, Robbie dives deep into the complexities of parenting, focusing on emotional regulation, discipline strategies, and the controversial topic of corporal punishment.

Robbie explores why kids should be seen as developing individuals—not miniature adults—and why it's critical to balance discipline with empathy and guidance. He candidly shares how his own perspectives on spanking and authoritarian parenting have evolved since becoming a dad. Highlighting the importance of emotional regulation in both parents and children, Robbie discusses strategies for fostering a healthy connection and building a foundation of trust and respect without resorting to fear-based discipline.

Whether you're questioning traditional parenting methods or simply striving to raise emotionally intelligent, compassionate kids, this episode challenges listeners to reflect on their parenting approaches. Tune in as Robbie encourages parents to lead by example, promoting thoughtful discipline, genuine connection, and emotional intelligence in the next generation.

Key topics include:

• Emotional regulation for parents and kids
• Why children shouldn't be treated as miniature adults
• Rethinking spanking and corporal punishment
• Authoritarian vs. connected parenting
• Building lasting legacies through empathetic parenting

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#ParentingTips #DadLife #EmotionalIntelligence #GentleParenting #Fatherhood #FamilyLife #RaisingKids #DisciplineStrategies #ParentingPodcast #UnhingedFatherPodcast

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In this week’s episode of TUF, Robbie gets real about one of the most important—and challenging—parts of parenting: raising kids to be genuinely good people. As his own children grow, he’s reflecting on how to instill values like kindness, character, and doing the right thing, even when no one is watching.

Rather than fixating on academic achievement or athletic success, Robbie dives into how he’s shaping a family identity rooted in integrity and compassion—something he calls being a “Kratty Boy.” Inspired by a blend of proud dad moments, family nicknames, and honest observations of modern parenting, this episode unpacks what it really means to build a legacy through your children.

Whether you’re a parent navigating how to raise respectful and resilient kids, or just someone thinking about what kind of mark you want to leave on the world, this episode is for you.

Topics Covered:

• The pressure of achievement-focused parenting
• Creating a family identity and instilling core values
• Why character matters more than trophies
• Teaching kids the difference between standing up and lashing out
• Real talk on generational legacy, discipline, and doing the right thing

👉 Listen now for a thoughtful, unfiltered look at fatherhood, values, and how to raise kids who don’t just know right from wrong—but live it.

Keywords: parenting podcast, modern fatherhood, raising good kids, family values, positive parenting, legacy parenting, millennial dad, character development in children, teaching values, parenting identity, raising boys, dad podcast

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In this brutally honest solo episode of The Unhinged Father, Robbie returns from a brief hiatus to get real about the chaos of modern life, parenting, and the overwhelming pressure to keep up with social media perfection. From dad life to gym struggles, from toxic positivity to unrealistic influencer expectations—this episode is a raw, unfiltered reminder that life is hard, and that’s okay.

Robbie unpacks the frustrating world of parenting influencers, fitness gurus, and the growing trend of “toxic responsibility.” He calls out the lies we’re fed online—those 10-second highlight reels that leave the rest of us feeling like failures—and makes the case for something more valuable: relentless effort, grace, and the unglamorous hustle of real growth.

Whether you’re a tired parent, a millennial dad trying to get your life together, or someone drowning in the noise of social media expectations, this episode is your reminder that you’re not alone—and that trying (and failing) still counts.

Topics covered:

• Why influencer culture is lying to you
• The myth of balance and perfection
• Real talk on parenting, weight loss, and adulting
• Grace vs. giving up: how to keep going when you’re falling short
• The difference between fake motivation and authentic growth

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Hashtags/SEO Keywords: #MillennialDad #ParentingPodcast #DadLife #AuthenticParenting #SelfHelpPodcast #SocialMediaBurnout #RealTalkParenting #UnfilteredParenting #FitnessAfter30 #MentalHealthForParents #PodcastForDads #TheUnhingedFather

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In this episode of The Unhinged Father, we tackle the evolving conversation around mental health awareness, personal accountability, and the challenges within the mental health industry. While acknowledging the importance of recognizing anxiety, depression, and other mental health struggles, I explore a growing concern: Has society swung too far in glorifying mental health labels rather than seeking real growth and solutions?

We also dive into the role of mental health professionals, the risks of misdiagnosis, and the potential influence of political bias in therapy. Are mental health providers helping individuals progress—or are some reinforcing victimhood? Plus, I share personal insights on how to find the right therapist and why validation without guidance can be more harmful than helpful.

This is an open conversation, not an attack—if you’re a mental health professional or someone with thoughts on this topic, I’d love to hear from you! Let’s break through the noise and discuss what really matters when it comes to mental well-being.

📢 Join the discussion: DM me on Instagram @the_unhinged_father or email unhinged.father@gmail.com if you’re interested in a future episode!

#MentalHealth #Anxiety #Depression #Therapy #MentalHealthAwareness #PersonalGrowth #Accountability #TheUnhingedFather #SelfImprovement #ParentingPodcast

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Are modern parenting styles actually making life harder for kids? In this episode of The Unhinged Father, we dive into The Anxious Generation and explore how overprotection in the real world—while leaving kids unguarded online—might be fueling anxiety, depression, and a lack of resilience.

🔹 Why kids need free play and real-world risks to grow strong

🔹 The hidden dangers of unsupervised screen time and social media

🔹 How parental anxiety skews risk perception in today’s hyperconnected world

🔹 The balance between safety and independence—when should kids have more freedom?

If you’ve ever questioned whether you’re being too protective or not protective enough, this episode is for you. Let’s talk about raising resilient, capable kids in a world that’s both safer and more dangerous than ever before.

🎧 Listen now and join the conversation!

#Parenting #RaisingKids #ChildDevelopment #MillennialParents #FreeRangeParenting #ScreenTime #AnxiousGeneration #UnhingedFatherPodcast

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College: is it a golden ticket or an overpriced trap? In this episode of TUF I step away from my usual dad and parenting content to dive into a hot-button topic that affects millions—college, student loans, and the real value of higher education.

As a college graduate (who switched majors after burning out on pre-med), I share my personal experience navigating higher ed and my take on whether a degree is really necessary for success. We break down:

🎓 Why college isn’t for everyone—and why that’s okay

💰 The predatory side of student loans and government-backed debt

🛠️ The rising demand for skilled trades vs. traditional degrees

🏫 Why public universities are absurdly expensive (and what should change)

🤖 The impact of AI on job markets and future career paths

Whether you’re a student, a parent, or just questioning the system, this episode will give you an unfiltered perspective on higher education, debt, and real-world career choices.

👂 Listen now and decide: Is college truly worth the cost?

#CollegeDebate #StudentLoans #HigherEducation #TradeSchool #Parenting #CareerAdvice #FinancialFreedom

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Every parent has a different approach—some lean toward caution and protection, while others believe in letting kids explore, take risks, and learn from their mistakes. In this episode of The Unhinged Father, I dive into the real-life balancing act between my wife’s cautious parenting style and my more hands-off, let-them-figure-it-out approach.

After a day at the park watching our kids climb, fall, and push their limits, I realized just how important it is to have differing parenting styles in a household. While one parent sees danger, the other sees an opportunity for growth. But which approach is better? Spoiler alert: Neither—and that’s exactly the point.

We discuss:

✅ The importance of balance between risk-taking and safety

✅ How differing perspectives create a well-rounded childhood

✅ The biggest struggles parents face when they don’t see eye to eye

✅ Why consistency in parenting (even with different approaches) is key for kids’ emotional regulation

This episode isn’t about proving one style is better—it’s about recognizing how different approaches complement each other to create stronger, more resilient kids. Tune in for some unfiltered parenting truths, real-life stories, and a few laughs along the way.

🎧 Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts!

💬 What’s your parenting style? Do you and your partner see eye to eye, or do you balance each other out? Drop a comment or DM me on [Instagram/Twitter handle]—let’s talk!

#ParentingStyles #Fatherhood #TheUnhingedFather #RaisingKids #ModernParenting #MillennialDad #RiskVsSafety

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