Episodios

  • Friendships After Kids, Discipline, and You're Not Doing As Bad As You Think
    Mar 10 2026

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    00:00 - Welcome and episode overview
    00:18 - How parenting can isolate social life
    01:10 - The impact of sobriety and limited social opportunities
    02:09 - Longing for female friendship and deep connection
    03:07 - Recalling pre-parenthood friendships and their depth
    03:45 - Winter isolation and planning spontaneous meetups
    04:21 - The importance of informal hangouts and neighborhood bonds
    04:52 - Building new friendships without a long shared history
    05:03 - Challenges of starting over socially in adulthood
    06:44 - Men’s struggle with connection, interests, and shared hobbies
    07:43 - Common male pursuits: exercise, golf, food, and hunting
    08:50 - The cultural differences in interests and hobbies
    09:04 - Parenting phase differences and social opportunities with young children
    10:24 - Male loneliness epidemic and emotional health
    11:51 - The effect of fulfilled childhood friendships on current loneliness
    12:49 - Recognizing loneliness and seasonal depression
    13:25 - The tendency to isolate and burnout management
    14:28 - The need for planned adult outings and social planning
    15:38 - Moving out of toddler survival mode into a more balanced phase
    16:25 - The joys of children’s self-expression and growth
    17:14 - Balancing sports, commitments, and family priorities
    18:08 - Age and interest alignment in extracurricular activities
    19:08 - Debating sports legends and cultural icons
    20:46 - The emotional significance of witnessing childhood milestones
    23:44 - Parenting moments, memories, and the fleeting nature of childhood routines
    28:23 - Recognizing and celebrating children’s independence and growth
    29:29 - The influence of children’s communication and emotional development
    33:05 - Teaching children life skills like gratitude and boundaries
    34:30 - The importance of modeling good behavior, not just compliance
    35:42 - The emotional depth of parenting and self-regulation
    36:47 - Continuing to show up and care despite fatigue
    37:04 - Exciting announcement: pre-ordering the host’s book, special incentives, and a playlist
    38:03 - Closing remarks and gratitude for listeners

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    38 m
  • Your Partners Inner Child, Insecurity, and The Future of Our Children
    Mar 3 2026

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    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction to Parenting and Marriage Dynamics

    02:54 The Impact of Childhood on Adult Relationships

    05:35 Empathy and Understanding in Marriage

    08:38 The Importance of Emotional Intelligence

    11:43 Navigating Financial Dynamics in Relationships

    14:50 The Role of Fathers in Family Dynamics

    17:37 Men's Mental Health and Loneliness

    20:14 Breaking Down Gender Stereotypes

    23:33 The Importance of Open Communication

    26:33 Raising Emotionally Intelligent Children

    29:16 The Role of Emotional Intelligence in Parenting

    32:11 Confronting Insecurities in Relationships

    35:11 The Power of Conversation in Relationships

    38:20 Creating a Better Future for Our Children

    41:15 Conclusion and Call to Action

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    52 m
  • Gilmore Girls, Modern Dads, Adderall and Sharing The Mental Load
    Feb 23 2026

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    Another conversation of stuff consuming our lives. The Gilmore Girls Tour, Adderall and does it help or is it just drugs? My audiobook recording experience, modern dads, and more!

    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Studio Tour

    02:57 Exploring the Warner Brothers Studio Tour

    05:49 Recording the Audiobook Experience

    11:33 Insights on Music and Nashville Studios

    17:34 The Journey of Writing and Parenting

    23:38 Final Thoughts on the Book and Its Impact

    26:36 Exploring Literature and Personal Connections

    28:27 The Journey of Writing and Parenthood

    30:08 The Importance of Fatherhood and Unique Perspectives

    33:55 Candid Moments and Self-Perception

    34:23 Navigating Mental Health and Medication

    38:55 Understanding ADHD and Its Impact

    42:18 Finding Joy in Dance and Self-Identity

    44:18 Balancing Parenthood and Personal Needs

    46:12 The Modern Dad's Role in Family Dynamics

    55:06 Partnership in Marriage and Parenting

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    59 m
  • Uncomfortable Conversations
    Feb 13 2026

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    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction to Parenting and Marriage

    02:02 Uncomfortable Conversations with Kids

    05:05 Sharing Personal Stories and Mistakes

    10:23 The Impact of Parental Vulnerability

    12:10 Navigating Puberty and Parent-Child Relationships

    17:35 The Consequences of Naivety and Trust

    24:18 Creating Safe Spaces for Open Dialogue

    30:02 The Importance of Healing for Parents

    34:28 Managing Household Responsibilities

    49:42 Teamwork in Marriage and Parenting

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    52 m
  • We Need More Conversations
    Feb 9 2026

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    In this episode of the Tired Dad and Tired Mom Podcast, Jessica and I talk life.

    We touch on winter weather, family trips we already miss while we are still in them, and our love for reading, not just for knowledge but for perspective. We talk about why it matters to understand how other people see the world, even when we do not fully agree.

    We get into money too. Living below your means. Being intentional. Building a life that actually feels good to come home to instead of chasing more just to keep up.

    Chapters

    00:00 Welcome to the Podcast

    00:11 Winter Weather and School Days

    03:14 Life in Cold Climates

    05:18 Life on Mackinac Island

    09:54 Exploring Northern Michigan

    12:22 Family Vacations and Experiences

    20:17 Book Reviews and Recommendations

    29:27 Reading Preferences and Audiobooks

    39:04 Conversations and Understanding

    46:22 Living Below Your Means

    01:00:43 Financial Wisdom and Future Planning

    01:11:14 Unspoken Rules in Marriage

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    1 h y 12 m
  • Nihilist Penguin, Being Weird, Deep Thinking, and Doom Scrolling
    Feb 2 2026

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    In this episode, Jess and I talk about life in the middle of chaos, from getting snowed in to helping our kids process the loss of a pet. We also dive into the “Nihilist Penguin” idea and what it says about identity, social media, and mental health.

    At the core, we’re just trying to raise kids who feel safe being themselves, in a home built on acceptance, creativity, and love. We’re figuring it out as we go.

    00:00 Weathering the Storm

    05:38 Navigating Pet Loss

    11:42 The Nihilist Penguin

    17:34 Raising Weird Kids

    23:44 The Impact of Social Media on Parenting

    29:36 Creating a Positive Environment for Kids

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    46 m
  • Learning As We Go
    Jan 23 2026

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    In this conversation, I talk about the everyday stuff that makes up family life. From trying to figure out meals, to dealing with kids getting sick, to what we’re watching at night and even the books we read in high school. It’s a mix of random moments and real life.

    We get into personal growth and how knowing things doesn’t mean much if you don’t actually execute. I share what the process of writing this book has been like, the doubts, the motivation, and why I felt called to do it in the first place.

    We also reflect on marriage, relationships, and how everything shifts when you have a family. At the end of it, it comes back to chasing your dreams, doing the work, and hopefully setting the example for your kids to do the same.

    Chapters

    00:00 Lunch Break Conversations

    02:53 Family Dynamics and Meal Prep

    05:49 Sickness and Family Care

    09:00 Thrillers and Entertainment Preferences

    11:52 Book Recommendations and Reading Preferences

    14:51 High School Literature and Its Impact

    17:44 Negative Influences and Overcoming Challenges

    20:41 Personal Growth and Relationships

    23:40 Execution Over Knowledge

    26:43 The Importance of Following Dreams

    29:29 Parenting and Marriage Dynamics

    32:36 Self-Help and Personal Development

    35:31 The Journey of Writing a Book

    38:34 Final Thoughts and Reflections

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    1 h y 4 m
  • My Wife Has ADHD
    Jan 15 2026

    In this episode, we talk about setting up our new podcast studio and how that whole process has been equal parts exciting and chaotic. From there, the conversation shifts into something we deal with daily: ADHD in a relationship and what that looks like while raising kids.

    We share how ADHD shows up differently for each of us and how learning to understand those differences has changed the way we communicate and divide responsibilities. We talk about building simple systems to survive the day-to-day, parenting kids who are encouraged to be themselves, and finding a balance between social lives, activities, and family time.

    We also reflect on how different childhood looks now compared to when we were growing up, especially with how convenience has reshaped social skills and resilience. At the heart of it all, this episode is about showing up for your partner, your kids, and yourself, even when you’re still figuring it out.

    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction to the New Podcast Studio

    02:55 Understanding ADD in Relationships

    05:43 Dividing Responsibilities in Parenting

    08:47 Managing Overwhelm and Daily Routines

    11:49 The Importance of Structure and Systems

    14:46 Encouraging Self-Expression in Children

    17:58 Navigating Social Interactions with Kids

    20:43 Balancing Extracurricular Activities

    23:37 Reflections on Childhood Experiences

    26:35 The Impact of Convenience on Social Skills

    29:33 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

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    47 m