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  • What We Are Getting Wrong About Divorce w/ Divorce Lawyer Michele Locke
    Jul 24 2025

    This episode of the SelfHype Podcast features Michele Locke, a dynamic divorce lawyer who’s lived every angle of family law—from navigating her parents divorce as a child to facing her own after 22 years of marriage. Michele shares her raw and inspiring journey with Eli, diving into how her life-altering decision to prioritize herself which led to profound transformation while sharing knowledge on Divorce as well. Michele talks how she turned pain into purpose while building a platform to empower others through her legal work, content and podcast, Love, Lust, Law. She offers candid insights on recognizing red flags in relationships, the power of saying “no,” and the importance of protecting your peace post-divorce.

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    56 m
  • Special Birthday Episode: How To Manage Your Mental Health While Looking For Love
    Jul 17 2025

    In this raw and heartfelt birthday episode of the Self Hype Podcast, Eli Vazquez opens up about his journey with mental health and its profound impact on love and life. Recorded just before his birthday getaway to Orlando, Eli shares how he’s taking a well-deserved break to reflect and celebrate with loved ones. With unfiltered honesty, he dives into the struggles of anxiety, depression, and self-doubt that once consumed him, revealing how facing those dark moments led to creating his transformative brand. Eli challenges the stigma around mental health, emphasizing that your worth isn’t diminished by your struggles—it’s amplified by your resilience. Tune in for an inspiring reminder that you can navigate adversity, seek love, and embrace your enoughness, no matter where you are in your journey. Get ready to feel seen and empowered! 💪

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    48 m
  • From Combat to Calling: Kristofer Goldsmith on Turning Trauma Into Purpose
    Jul 10 2025

    This week Eli we discuss men's mental health and so much more with Kristofer Goldsmith who is a combat veteran, investigative researcher, and nationally recognized expert on disinformation and domestic extremism. He is the founder of Task Force Butler Institute and the On Offense media project, and a co-host of the Find Out Podcast—platforms that use investigative journalism and viral content to expose authoritarian threats and mobilize grassroots action. Goldsmith leverages his voice to normalize progressive values and empower communities targeted by far-right movements. We talk fatherhood, mentorship and how to the hard moments shape your life for the better.

    Learn more about Kristofer Here:

    https://www.krisgoldsmith.com/

    His Story About Being A Nazi Hunter:

    https://www.rollingstone.com/politics/politics-news/nazi-hunter-fascism-antifa-veteran-1234672732/

    If you or someone is struggling please reach out to hotline below:

    For mental health support, the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline is available by calling or texting 988. Additionally, the Crisis Text Line can be reached by texting TALK to 741741

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    1 h y 3 m
  • How To Practice Accountability To Transform Your Love Life
    Jul 3 2025

    This week we are talking all things accountability! Why it so important, how to create a healthy inner child healing system around your own accountability and why men struggle with it. We dive into the nitty gritty so you can stop venting to your poor friends over and over again - so you can start doing the work of interpersonal healing like a boss!

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    23 m
  • Why Your Ex Is Toxic, Why It's A Good Thing And So Much More!
    Jun 26 2025

    This week we are answering community questions! That is right! We are diving into answering questions about your musty, dusty, rusty man. Cheating, how to heal in ways no one talks about and more!

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    34 m
  • How To Heal Your Wounds With Money To Find Healthy Partnership w/Lea Landaverde
    Jun 19 2025

    This week on the Self-Hype Podcast we dive into how your relationship with money could be holding you back from finding true love. Join Eli Vazquez and Latina wealth activist Lea Landaverde, queer first-gen financial educator and founder of Requeza, as they unpack financial wounds and share strategies to heal money habits, challenge limiting beliefs, and foster empowered partnerships.

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    https://www.instagram.com/latinawealthactivist/

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    1 h y 26 m
  • How To Communicate With An Emotionally Avoidant Man
    Jun 12 2025

    This week we are talking all things communication w/ an avoidant attached partner! I dissect and break down the nitty gritty of how to created regulated spaces of communication in a relationship and how to learn to talk to the opposite attached partner. We break down my story of being avoidant, how I did the work and what worked for me in opening up. So you can apply it to success in your love life!

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    29 m
  • How To Love Your Body By Resetting Your Nervous System w Giulia Halkier
    Jun 5 2025

    This week I sit down with Giulia Halkier. Giulia Halkier is a passionate, no-BS Body Confidence and Food Freedom Coach, educator, speaker, and Master Certified EFT Practitioner who helps women break free from lifelong body shame, diet culture, and unworthiness. Inspired by her own lifelong struggles with body image and food, Giulia now guides others through deep healing using EFT, nervous system regulation, and compassion. Her mission is to help women release toxic conditioning, rebuild self-trust, and step into their most brazen, confident, and unstoppable selves.

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    www.instagram.com/brazensoulrebellion

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    47 m