A routine scan, a rare diagnosis, and a race against the clock set the stage for one of the most honest conversations we’ve had about hope, medicine, and meaning. Angie Graves takes us inside the whirlwind of preeclampsia, a rain-soaked ambulance ride to UAMS, emergency surgery, and four and a half months living by the glow of NICU monitors—where trust with nurses is earned one careful observation at a time and “small wins” become a way of life.
What follows is both heartbreaking and unexpectedly galvanizing. Angie shares how Jackson’s fight revealed the quiet gaps that make or break a family’s day: a better chair for skin-to-skin time, a phone card back when calls weren’t free, a $100 car seat to finally go home. Out of grief, she and her husband James launched the Jackson Graves Foundation, a small but focused charity devoted to NICU families and neonatal nurse education. Think micro-grants that remove discharge friction, holiday gift bags that say you’re not alone, scholarships to the Audrey Harris Neonatal Conference, and support for stabilization rooms and healing gardens. Across two decades and roughly $2 million raised, their north star stays the same: put resources as close to the bedside as possible and invest in the people who deliver care when seconds matter.
We also look forward. Angie explains why the foundation is transitioning to an endowment with the Arkansas Community Foundation, targeting $250,000 to sustain high-impact programs without constant fundraising. It’s a practical blueprint for anyone asking how to turn loss into lasting good: start where the need is specific, keep overhead low, elevate nurse training, and build structures that outlive the founders. If you’ve ever wondered whether small, well-aimed giving can truly change outcomes in neonatal care, this story answers with a clear yes.
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