Welcome back to the podcast! We’ve all heard them. Little phrases that sound wise, comforting, or even spiritual—but they’re not true. In this series, we’ll uncover some of the most common believable lies people buy into about God, life, and faith.

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Believable Lie #3: God Won’t Give Me More Than I Can Handle

It sounds comforting to say “God won’t give you more than you can handle,” but it’s not true. In fact, the Bible teaches the opposite. Paul admitted he was “crushed and overwhelmed beyond his ability to endure” (2 Corinthians 1:8). Why? Because God never intended us to handle life on our own. He allows more than we can bear so that we’ll finally lean on Him. The promise isn’t that we’ll never be overwhelmed—the promise is that we’ll never be abandoned.

The Misunderstood Verse

This lie comes from a misreading of 1 Corinthians 10:13. The verse isn’t about suffering—it’s about temptation. God promises He won’t let temptation be more than we can bear, and He always provides a “way out.” But suffering is different. Sometimes we really do face more than we can handle.

The Truth About Temptation

Temptations are real but not irresistible. Israel’s history proves this: some fell, others stood firm—not because temptation was weaker but because God was stronger. Endurance is possible, not by willpower but by God’s faithfulness (Hebrews 2:18, James 1:12, 2 Thessalonians 3:3). God’s “way out” can be changing your environment, fighting back with Scripture, or reaching out to others for help.

The Truth About Suffering

Unlike temptation, suffering may indeed overwhelm us. Paul admitted he faced trials he couldn’t endure on his own (2 Corinthians 1:8-9). Yet suffering teaches us to rely on God, not ourselves. It drives us into the arms of Jesus and into the comfort of His people. God comforts us so that we can comfort others (2 Corinthians 1:4).

The Big Picture

God may give us more than we can handle, but He will never give us more than He can handle. Trials push us to depend on Christ, to lean on our church family, and to prepare the next generation to do the same. Suffering will come. But Christ is enough.

In this episode, we explore the four main parenting styles—authoritarian, authoritative, permissive, and uninvolved—and look at how each one impacts children, while offering biblical wisdom to help parents raise kids God’s way.

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Parenting is one of the most important roles in a person’s life, and it significantly shapes the development and well-being of children. Over the years, psychologists and researchers have identified four primary parenting styles, each characterized by different levels of warmth, control, and communication. Understanding these styles can help parents recognize the potential outcomes of their approaches and make more informed decisions about how they raise their children. See this article.

The four main parenting styles are:

1. Authoritarian Parenting
2. Authoritative Parenting
3. Permissive Parenting
4. Uninvolved Parenting

Each of these styles affects children differently, influencing their emotional, social, and cognitive development.

Authoritarian parents are often seen as strict, controlling, and demanding. They set high expectations for their children, emphasizing obedience and discipline above all else. Communication tends to be one-sided, with little room for dialogue or flexibility. Rules are enforced with little explanation, and punishment is used as a means to maintain control.

• Key Characteristics:
• High demands and expectations
• Low responsiveness to the child’s emotional needs
• Emphasis on obedience and discipline
• Limited communication and explanation of rules
• Effects on Children: Children raised by authoritarian parents often develop a strong sense of discipline and respect for authority but may also struggle with self-esteem and decision-making. They may become either overly submissive or rebellious, depending on their temperament. Social skills can be underdeveloped, as they may not feel comfortable expressing their thoughts and feelings openly.
• Biblical Response: Authoritarian parenting emphasizes strict rules and discipline, often with little room for discussion. While discipline is important, Scripture also encourages understanding and wisdom in its application.
• Ephesians 6:4 – "Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord."
• Colossians 3:21 – "Fathers, do not embitter your children, or they will become discouraged."

Authoritative parenting is widely regarded as the...

Welcome back! We’ve all heard them—little phrases that sound wise, comforting, or even spiritual—but they’re not true. In this series, we’re exposing some of the most common believable lies people buy into about God, life, and faith.

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They sound right at first, but when you dig deeper, you realize these lies can actually lead you in the wrong direction.

Last time we looked at the lie that “God is a killjoy.” The truth is, God created everything for our joy and good, but within the boundaries of His wisdom. Adam and Eve rejected His definition of good and the result was shame.

That brings us to today’s believable lie: “I’m too far gone for God.”

Maybe you’ve thought this before:

• “If He only knew where I’ve been or what I’ve done, He would never want me.”
• Maybe it’s your past mistakes—crossing boundaries, addictions, broken relationships.
• Or maybe it’s not even what you did, but what someone else did to you that left you feeling unworthy.

The truth is this: No one is too far gone for God.

To prove it, let’s look at two stories—one from the Old Testament and one from the New Testament. Both reveal God’s heart of mercy for people who seemed beyond hope.

Story #1: Nineveh (Jonah 3)

The city of Nineveh was infamous for its cruelty, violence, idolatry, and immorality. If anyone seemed too far gone, it was them. Yet when Jonah preached judgment, the people repented in humility—and God forgave them. Jonah himself confessed the truth about God: “You are a merciful and compassionate God, slow to get angry and filled with unfailing love. You are eager to turn back from destroying people.” (Jonah 4:2 NLT).

This echoes God’s character revealed throughout Scripture—Exodus 34:6-7, Nehemiah 9:17, Psalm 103:8, Joel 2:13, and in the New Testament, 2 Peter 3:9. God does not want anyone destroyed but desires everyone to repent.

Story #2: The Prodigal Son (Luke 15:11-20)

In Jesus’ parable, the younger son insulted his father, wasted his inheritance, and ended up in utter disgrace. He was convinced he was unworthy of love and hoped only to be a servant. Yet when he returned home, the father ran to him, embraced him, and restored him as a son.

The prodigal’s story proves that no matter how far you’ve run, God is watching and waiting for you to come back.

The Point

The Ninevites weren’t too far gone. The prodigal son wasn’t too far gone. And neither are you. Whatever your past, God’s love is greater. He wants you to repent, turn back to Him, and receive His mercy.

Here’s God’s honest truth: No one is too far gone for God.

In this episode, Bryan and Layne unpack the final temple recommend questions—showing how LDS “worthiness” tests create pressure and why the Bible offers true confidence through Jesus’ finished work, not our performance.

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Temple Recommend Questions (Part 2): Worthiness and the Gospel

In this episode, Bryan and Layne continue their conversation about the 16 temple recommend questions every Latter-day Saint must answer in order to be considered “worthy” to enter the temple. Picking up at question nine, they explore the topics of honesty, tithing, the Word of Wisdom, divorce obligations, temple covenants, serious sins, and the final worthiness questions.

Layne shares from his own experience as a former Mormon how these interviews shaped his view of God and created constant pressure to prove his worthiness. Together, Bryan and Layne contrast that system with the Bible’s message of grace—where worthiness is not earned by man but fully given through Christ.

You’ll hear how:

• Honesty and integrity matter, but only Jesus was perfectly honest.
• Tithing becomes a “fire insurance” requirement in Mormonism, but the Bible calls us to joyful generosity.
• The Word of Wisdom mixes biblical wisdom with added, shifting rules.
• Temple covenants are heavy and impossible to keep perfectly—yet Jesus kept the law on our behalf.
• True confession begins with God, not with a bishop or stake president.
• Our worthiness is found in Christ alone, not in passing a list of man-made questions.

This episode helps listeners see the difference between the pressure of man’s system and the freedom of Christ’s finished work.

Welcome back to the podcast! We’ve all heard them. Little phrases that sound wise, comforting, or even spiritual—but they’re not true. In this series, we’ll uncover some of the most common believable lies people buy into about God, life, and faith.

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Believable Lie #1: God Is a Killjoy

We’ve all heard little phrases that sound wise, comforting, or even spiritual—but they’re not true. One of the most common is this: God doesn’t want me to have any fun. Christianity is painted as a straightjacket, filled with rules and regulations designed to rob us of joy. But when we look at the Bible, we discover the opposite. God is not against our joy—He designed us for it.

When God created humanity, His very first action was blessing.

From the beginning, God was for humanity, not against them. He gave people:

• The blessing of family (“be fruitful and multiply”)
• The blessing of purpose and responsibility (“fill the earth and govern it”)
• The blessing of authority as image-bearers (“reign over all the animals”)

This is not a killjoy God. This is a good Father who wants His children to flourish.

God also provided generously for His people.

From food to meaningful work, God filled their lives with everything needed for satisfaction. Genesis even describes Eden as a “protected place of pleasure.” Far from being restrictive, God’s design was overflowing with joy and provision.

But God also gave the first moral boundary.

This wasn’t about killing joy—it was about protecting it. Boundaries are part of love. Just as good parents set limits to protect their kids, God gave Adam and Eve a command for their flourishing.

In Genesis 3, the serpent planted the first seed of suspicion:

Notice the distortion—turning God’s...

In this episode, we explore how biblical parenting is about more than rules—it’s about helping your kids move from “renting” values to truly owning a faith that lasts.

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The Principle of Ownership in Parenting: A Biblical Approach

One of the greatest responsibilities a parent has is to raise children who are equipped to navigate the world with strong, biblically grounded values. A fundamental principle of parenting is the idea of “ownership”—that the ultimate goal is for our children to leave home with the values we have instilled in them firmly rooted in their hearts. This means moving from a phase where they "rent" these values—temporarily adopting them while under our guidance—to a place where they "own" them, making those values personal, enduring, and guiding their decisions as independent adults.

Scripture provides a foundation for this principle, particularly in passages that emphasize training, teaching, and passing on faith to the next generation. Proverbs 22:6 says, "Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old, he will not depart from it." This well-known verse reflects the heart of biblical parenting—intentional training in godly ways. However, for this promise to hold true, children must internalize the faith and values taught to them. They must “own” these teachings so that they continue to live by them when parents are no longer watching.

Moses also spoke about this principle in Deuteronomy 6:6-7: “These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.” The goal is not merely that children hear the commandments but that they become imprinted on their hearts. Moses was calling parents to make God’s truth a natural part of everyday life, ingraining it deeply in their children so that it would influence them long after they left their parents' homes.

A crucial distinction for parents to understand is the difference between children being "renters" of values versus being "owners." As long as children are under our care, there is a temptation to assume that because they obey the rules, they are fully committed to the values behind those rules. However, rented values are often temporary—children follow them when it’s convenient, but they haven’t necessarily embraced them as their own. The danger is that when parents are no longer present to enforce those values, the children may abandon them.

Ownership, on the other hand, happens when children take personal responsibility for their beliefs and decisions. When children “own” the values you’ve taught them, they continue to live by those values even when no one is watching. In Luke 6:45, Jesus says, “For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of.” The values in their hearts will naturally influence their words and actions. True ownership transforms these values...

In this part 1 of 2 episodes, Bryan and Layne pull back the curtain on Mormonism’s temple recommend—walking through the 16 worthiness questions, why they emphasize loyalty and performance over Jesus’ finished work, and what the Bible says about true access to God.

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In this episode, Bryan and Layne take listeners inside one of the most important—and least understood—practices in Mormonism: the temple recommend interview.

For members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (LDS), receiving a temple recommend is like getting a spiritual passport. Without it, you cannot enter Mormon temples, where sacred ordinances such as baptisms for the dead, eternal marriages, and endowments are performed. To get one, every member must answer the same 16 “worthiness questions” in interviews with both their local bishop and their stake president.

Layne, who held temple recommends for decades before leaving Mormonism, explains what these questions are, what they test, and how they compare with the Bible’s teaching about salvation, worthiness, and grace.

A temple recommend is a physical card (now often digitized) that allows a Mormon to enter any LDS temple worldwide. It is valid for two years, after which the member must repeat the interview process to renew it.

For many Mormons, obtaining a recommend is the pinnacle of religious devotion. From childhood classes to teenage priesthood offices, LDS culture builds anticipation for the temple. Preparation includes six weeks of temple prep classes and then the recommend interview.

The interview itself consists of 16 standardized questions. These questions are designed to measure whether someone is “worthy” to enter the temple. But as Layne explains, they often test external performance more than internal faith.

The first few questions sound straightforward:

1. Do you have faith in God the Father, His Son Jesus Christ, and the Holy Ghost?
2. Do you have a testimony of the Atonement of Jesus Christ and His role as Savior and Redeemer?

At face value, many Christians could answer “yes.” But the problem arises in the definitions. A biblical Christian would describe God as one eternal Being in three persons—the Father, Son, and Spirit. Yet Mormonism defines them as three separate gods. Similarly, Mormons often emphasize Jesus’ suffering in Gethsemane rather than His finished work on the cross.

The result? The questions aren’t just about belief in God or Christ—they’re about belief in the LDS version of God and Christ.

Other questions reveal more clearly the institutional loyalty expected:

• Do you have a testimony of the “restoration” of the gospel through Joseph Smith?
• Do you sustain the current prophet and apostles as seers and revelators?
• Do you support or promote any teachings contrary to those of the LDS...

Welcome back to the podcast! Today, we wrap up our Thessalonians series with the "O" word. In this lesson, we’ll see why Paul made "Obedience" his closing challenge.

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As we close our Thessalonians series, Paul leaves his readers with one final reminder: the Christian life is not only about believing the right things (orthodoxy), but also about practicing the right things (orthopraxy). And the word that ties it all together—the “O word”—is obedience.

For many of us, “obedience” feels like a word for children. But in Scripture, obedience is at the very center of what it means to follow Jesus. Paul’s final lesson in 2 Thessalonians 3 is simple yet profound: God cares deeply about how we live.

1. Prayer Fuels the Mission

Paul begins by asking the Thessalonians to pray for him and his team. He longs for the gospel to spread rapidly and be honored wherever it goes. He also asks for protection from wicked and evil people. The lesson is clear: prayer is not a side activity; it is central to God’s mission. 2 Thessalonians 3:1-3

2. Obedience Is an Expectation

Paul expresses confidence that the Thessalonians will continue to do the things he commanded. That word—command—makes many modern Christians uncomfortable. Yet Paul reminds us that obedience is not optional for true believers. Casual Christians may resist authority, but disciples embrace it because it comes from Christ Himself. 2 Thessalonians 3:4-5

3. Laziness Is a Spiritual Problem

Paul then gives one of the most practical commands in the New Testament: don’t live idle lives. He even tells the church to separate from believers who refuse to work and to stop enabling cycles of dependency. Instead, Paul points to the dignity of work and the example he himself modeled. Obedience is not just about avoiding “big sins”—it includes everyday faithfulness, diligence, and integrity. 2 Thessalonians 3:6-10

4. Imitation Is a Key to Discipleship

Paul reminds the Thessalonians to imitate his example. He worked with his hands so as not to burden the church, even though he had the right to receive support. His life matched his teaching—orthodoxy and orthopraxy together. This kind of modeling is essential for healthy Christian discipleship. 2 Thessalonians 3:7-9

5. Correction Is Done in Love

Finally, Paul addresses those who refuse to obey. They are to be warned firmly, even shamed by the community if necessary—but never treated as enemies. Correction in the church should always be motivated by love, aiming to restore brothers and sisters to faithful obedience. 2 Thessalonians 3:11-15

Paul closes his letter with a blessing of peace and grace, reminding us that obedience flows out of God’s love and presence in our lives. 2 Thessalonians 3:16-18

Big Idea: Obedience isn’t just for children. It’s the daily calling of every follower of...