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In this episode, Kiley explores how Parts Work, most commonly associated with Dr. Richard C. Schwartz’s Internal Family Systems (IFS) model, can transform your experience of polyamory and consensual non-monogamy.

You’ll learn how to identify your inner Managers, Firefighters, and Exiles, and how to lead from your calm, compassionate Self — even in the middle of jealousy, fear of abandonment, or metamour conflict.

We’ll also connect these tools to Jessica Fern’s Polysecure, showing how parts work can help you earn secure attachment both within yourself and with your partners. Plus, Kiley shares her own journey of meeting protective and wounded parts with curiosity and compassion instead of reactivity.

Referenced Resources & Books:

• No Bad Parts — Richard C. Schwartz
• Internal Family Systems Therapy, Second Edition — Richard C. Schwartz & Martha Sweezy
• Polysecure — Jessica Fern
• Self-Therapy — Jay Earley
• Free IFS meditations — IFS-Institute.com
• Jay Earley’s Parts Work Exercises — SelfTherapy.org

Whether you’re new to parts work or deep into your own IFS journey, this episode offers practical tools for emotional regulation, self-compassion, and building security in the beautiful complexity of polyamory.

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In this episode, Kiley sits down with Jack Bohannan from Polarity Unscripted to explore one of the most talked-about — and often misunderstood — relationship dynamics: the anxious–avoidant attachment pairing.

Drawing from her own past relationship (where the answer to “can it work?” felt like a definite no), Kiley brings a candid, real-world perspective to the conversation, while Jack offers his deep expertise on polarity, emotional intimacy, and secure relating.

Together, we break down:

• Why anxious and avoidant partners are so often drawn to each other
• The core fears each style brings into the relationship
• What it actually takes to make this pairing work (and when to walk away)
• How to shift from triggering each other to co-regulating each other
• Practical tools for healing your attachment style — whether you’re dating, nesting, or exploring non-monogamy

This episode blends attachment theory, , and Jack’s signature polarity framework to give you actionable steps you can use in your own relationships — no matter your style.

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• Website: https://jackbohannan.com
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• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@PolarityUnscripted

If you’ve ever wondered whether anxious and avoidant partners can build something lasting — or if you’ve lived the highs and lows of this dance yourself — this is the episode you don’t want to miss.

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The Damage of Decolonizing Love & Black Polyamory: Tiffany @RealPolyLife on Race, Community & Swinging

Join us for a powerful conversation with Tiffany (@RealPolyLife)

https://www.instagram.com/realpolylife?igsh=MTRhYWg4Yngwd3h5Zg==

a Black polyamorous educator and influencer, as she unpacks the complex intersections of race, and intimate relationship structures within the polyamory and swinger communities. We dive into how the not so well-meaning efforts of 'decolonizing love' can inadvertently cause harm, especially for Black women navigating ethical non-monogamy.

In this episode, you'll hear about:

• The tensions between polyamory, race dynamics, and swinger culture in communities of color.
• Stories and insights from Black women in poly to broaden understanding and visibility.
• Tiffany’s work in centering Black voices in polyamorous narratives via her platform RealPolyLife.
• Resources such as:
  • Black & Poly, a culturally rich poly blog/community designed to foster connection and honest discussion in Black-centered polyamorous spaces
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  • Therapy for Black Girls Session 182, featuring Ruby B. Johnson—a polyamorous Black queer therapist—who addresses stigma, communication, and tools for ethical non-monogamy
    Therapy for Black Girls.
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  • Psychology of Black Womanhood entry “Black Women & Polyamory”, spotlighting Dr. Jenn M. Jackson’s research on the experiences and challenges of Black women in poly relationships
    Psych of Black Woman

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  • Online communities like Black & Poly™ and Black

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Let’s talk about the thing no one wants to admit: sometimes we say yes to non-monogamy not because we want to—but because we’re afraid to lose someone we love. In this episode, we dive deep into the term “tolyamory” (coined by Dan Savage), the danger of choosing open relationships out of fear instead of desire, and how to tell if you’re actually aligned with non-monogamy… or just tolerating it.

We’ll unpack:

• The red flags of “tolyamory”
• Why consent isn’t just a checkbox—it’s a felt sense
• How to check in with your nervous system before saying yes
• What to do if your partner wants non-monogamy and you don’t
• How to reclaim your voice, your boundaries, and your truth—even when it’s hard

Whether you’re the one asking or being asked to open up, this episode is for you. Let’s stop calling it love when it’s really fear. 💔➡️💖

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In this powerful episode of The Pineapple Express, sex and relationship coach Kiley George sits down with Dr. Elliot Justin, founder of FirmTech and a leading voice in sexual wellness innovation, to explore the often-overlooked emotional and physical impacts of erectile dysfunction (ED) on women.

We talk about how ED affects women's sexual confidence, why so many partners feel shame, guilt, or self-blame, and how sex tech tools like FirmTech’s Ring are helping couples reconnect with pleasure, intimacy, and honest communication.

This episode blends scientific insights, real talk about libido, and relationship tips for navigating intimacy when things aren’t going “as planned.” If you’ve ever wondered how to support a partner with ED—or how to reclaim your own arousal in the process—this one’s for you.

• Why ED isn’t just “a man’s issue”
• How shame and silence affect female arousal
• Women’s hidden grief around unspoken rejection
• Reframing ED with science, compassion, and tools
• How to have the conversation with your partner
• The role of FirmTech's Ring in enhancing erection strength and pleasure for both partners

Available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and everywhere you stream your favorite shows.

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Ever wondered what makes a play party unforgettable (for all the right reasons)?

In this sizzling episode of The Pineapple Express, I’m joined by Ally Isman, founder of Passport2Pleasure and mastermind behind the KAVANOS: Lisbon Wedding Night experience—an invite-only, immersive destination play party held in a historic Portuguese palace.

Together, we break down everything you need to know to host or attend a play party like a pro, from curating energy and consent culture to creating sacred sensual spaces that feel both sexy and safe.

If you're curious about throwing your own event, leveling up your guest etiquette, or just want a peek behind the velvet curtain of elite erotic events—this episode is your golden ticket.

🔍 Keywords: how to host a play party, KAVANOS Lisbon, sex-positive events, Ally Isman, Passport2Pleasure, consent at play parties, how to attend a sex party, non-monogamy events, luxury swinger events, erotic event planning

✨ We talk about:

• What makes a play party actually work
• Common mistakes and how to avoid awkward energy
• How to design an intentional, inclusive guest list
• Erotic aesthetics, rituals, and ambiance
• Consent communication and comfort culture
• Why KAVANOS is one of the most exclusive sensual events in the world—and how to apply before it disappears forever
• Apply now for KAVANOS: Lisbon Wedding Night (August 2) via Passport2Pleasure.com and use “PINEAPPLE” for expedited review.

This is not your average play party.
This is art, eros, and elevation.

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Want to deepen your relationships without another awkward check-in? In this episode of The Pineapple Express, we explore how The Non-Monogamy Card Game is changing the way we connect—with ourselves, our partners, and our playmates. Whether you're polyamorous, exploring ethical non-monogamy, or just want better conversations in your situationships, this tool is pure gold.

Join me and Ayala & Kristen the creators of The Non Monogamy Card Game as we share how connection, vulnerability, and communication games can ignite intimacy and help non-monogamous folks cut through small talk and get to the juicy stuff.

We talk about:
– How to use the card game on dates or at play parties
– Why asking better questions leads to better connections
– Connection rituals for polycules and swingers
– How to avoid surface-level relating in non-monogamy

Grab your cards, press play, and let’s get real.

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Are you curious about solo polyamory? Wondering how to build fulfilling relationships while prioritizing your own growth and independence? In this solo episode of The Pineapple Express Podcast, host Kiley breaks down everything you need to know about solo polyamory: why people choose it, how to navigate the challenges, and how to embrace your authentic self along the way.

Learn why solo polyamory is a rising trend in ethical non-monogamy
Discover practical tips for dating yourself—and others—without losing your independence
Explore the emotional, social, and logistical challenges of solo poly life

Tune in and empower yourself with the tools to thrive in your own solo polyamory journey—on your terms, at your pace, and with no apologies.

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