In this raw and timely episode of The Partnership Podcast, Lauren and Trey move beyond their usual "how-they" dynamic to tackle a growing digital crisis: the "Manosphere." After watching the Louis Theroux documentary on Netflix, Trey requested a total redo of their original recording. Why? Because viewing this content through the lens of a 41-year-old man is one thing, but viewing it through the eyes of a 12-year-old boy is another entirely.

Trey opens up about his initial reaction; dismissing influencers like Andrew Tate, Myron, and HS Ticky Tocky as "shock jocks" or a "farce" designed to sell trading platforms and casino codes. However, after Lauren challenged him to consider his 12-year-old brother and the youth basketball players he coaches, Trey’s perspective shifted from professional skepticism to a protector mode fueled by anger.

The couple deconstructs the Red Pill ideology, exposing it as a dangerous blend of "new" Purity Culture and financial exploitation. They discuss:

As an Embodied Intimacy Coach, Lauren points out the wild nightmare of seeing religious indoctrination rebranded for a digital age. They explore the dangerous rhetoric of "claiming" women and the "shock value" tactics used to monetize misogyny. Lauren shares her alarm at the real-world danger this poses to female bodies and why it is vital for men like Trey to find their voice and speak up against it.

While they reject the Manosphere’s solutions, Lauren and Trey acknowledge the very real hunger for belonging that drives young men to these spaces.

Is your value system being defined by an algorithm?Whether you are deconstructing your own religious past or trying to navigate these conversations with the teenagers in your life, Lauren offers a trauma-informed, relational approach to building a life of integrity.

Request a free 15-minute consult or ask for resource recommendations at sexedforyou.com/freeconsult.

About Them

Lauren and Trey are partners living in Central Virginia, where Lauren owns and operates Sex Ed for You. She provides comprehensive sexuality education and embodied coaching to individuals, partners, and parents.

Through a biopsychosocial approach, Sex Ed for You works to restore positive and respectful approaches to sexuality and sexual relationships, while increasing the possibility of pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination, and violence (World Health Organization).

Sexual health is fundamental to the overall health and well-being of individuals, couples, and families, as well as to the social and economic development of communities and countries (World Health Organization). When individuals are blocked from sexual health, they are often stunted in their ability to develop sensual play, embodied connection, and enjoyment.

Learn More & Connect

Learn more about Sex Ed for You: ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com⁠

Schedule a FREE CONSULT with Lauren: ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult⁠

Learn more about partnered communication and relational education on Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/⁠

Subscribe to the YouTube channel for conversations about sex, partnership, communication, and love: ⁠https://youtube.com/@thepartnershippodcast⁠

Important Reminders

This is not a “how to” podcast, but rather a “how they” podcast. Lauren and Trey share personal experiences, perspectives, and reflections, inviting listeners to learn from what resonates, question what doesn’t, and decide what feels aligned for their own lives.

Lauren is not a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy and Relationship Coach.

In this episode of The Partnership Podcast, Lauren and Trey dive deep into the transformative power of The Wheel of Consent® following Trey’s recent experience at the "Like a Pro" workshop. They move beyond the basics of "no means no" to explore the nuanced artistry of giving and receiving, and how understanding these four quadrants can dismantle years of sexual obligation and shadow dynamics.

Fresh off his second workshop, Trey shares the profound shifts that occur when we separate who is doing from who it is for. They discuss the common struggle many face, especially those raised in restrictive environments, with the "Shadow of Service" and the "Shadow of Taking." Lauren reflects on how her own "Warrior Queen" energy and professional drive sometimes clash with the need for true receptivity, while Trey explores the vulnerability required to make a "True Request" without an agenda.

The conversation gets raw as they explore how Purity Culture and incomplete sexual education plant "weeds" in our sexual gardens. They discuss:

Integrating the work of David Schnarch, Lauren and Trey model what it looks like to stand in a Solid Flexible Self. They discuss the importance of staying in your own skin during intimacy, ensuring that pleasure is a restoration of agency rather than a performance. Trey shares how his growth in relational intelligence has shifted their dynamic from one of "keeping up" to one of genuine curiosity and "trustworthy touch."

Lauren, as an Embodied Intimacy and Relationship Coach, emphasizes that better sex heals the world because it requires us to be fully present and accountable. They discuss the "Alphabet Rule" (Arousal before Desire) and why understanding Responsive Desire is key for partners who feel like they are "stumbling through" their physical connection.

Whether you’re a purity culture survivor or simply looking to deepen your connection, Lauren offers a trauma-informed, biopsychosocial approach to intimacy. Move past the "caveman theory" of routine and into a partnership defined by mutual pleasure and radical honesty.

Request your free 15-minute consult at sexedforyou.com/freeconsult.

About Them

Lauren and Trey are partners living in Central Virginia, where Lauren owns and operates Sex Ed for You. She provides comprehensive sexuality education and embodied coaching to individuals, partners, and parents.

Through a biopsychosocial approach, Sex Ed for You works to restore positive and respectful approaches to sexuality and sexual relationships, while increasing the possibility of pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination, and violence (World Health Organization).

Sexual health is fundamental to the overall health and well-being of individuals, couples, and families, as well as to the social and economic development of communities and countries (World Health Organization). When individuals are blocked from sexual health, they are often stunted in their ability to develop sensual play, embodied connection, and enjoyment.

Learn More & Connect

Learn more about Sex Ed for You: ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com⁠

Schedule a FREE CONSULT with Lauren: ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult⁠

Learn more about partnered communication and relational education on Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/⁠

Subscribe to the YouTube channel for conversations about sex, partnership, communication, and love: ⁠https://youtube.com/@thepartnershippodcast⁠

Important Reminders

This is not a “how to” podcast, but rather a “how they” podcast. Lauren and Trey share personal experiences, perspectives, and reflections, inviting listeners to learn from what resonates, question what doesn’t, and decide what feels aligned for their own lives.

Lauren is not a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy and Relationship Coach.

In this episode of The Partnership Podcast, Lauren and Trey delve into the complexities of sexual desire, the nuances of arousal non-concordance, and the power of radical accountability in relationship repair. Moving beyond the clinical definitions of High Desire Partners (HDP) and Low Desire Partners (LDP), they share personal stories; from bucket-list moments in an Amtrak bathroom to the restorative power of gentle, non-genital touch.

Lauren, a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator, breaks down a fundamental biological difference that often causes friction in partnerships: the order of arousal and desire. While many people with penises experience spontaneous desire (the sudden "want" for sex) most people with vulvas experience responsive desire, where physiological arousal must happen before the mental desire to pursue sex kicks in. Understanding this "A before D" sequence (Arousal before Desire) is a game-changer for couples navigating mismatched sex drives.

Following their exploration of David Schnarch’s Intimacy & Desire, the duo discusses how these roles are not fixed and often flip depending on the context, whether it's travel, professional ambition, or the need for spaciousness. They tackle the "lonely feeling" of the LDP and the importance of the HDP "wooing" rather than demanding. By standing in the Four Points of Balance, Lauren and Trey demonstrate how to maintain a Solid Flexible Self while negotiating intimacy.

The conversation shifts to a vulnerable look at desire smuggling and brinksmanship. They explore how to make requests that are "true wants" rather than hidden agendas for sex. Trey shares his experience of providing "trustworthy touch"; exploring erogenous zones without the obligation of penetrative sex, and how that safety allowed Lauren’s body to "come online" naturally.

Is your relationship feeling like a "checklist item"? Whether you are navigating mismatched desire or looking to deepen your relational intelligence, Lauren offers embodied coaching to help you restore pleasure and respect in your partnership.

Request your free 15-minute consult at sexedforyou.com/freeconsult.

About Them

Lauren and Trey are partners living in Central Virginia, where Lauren owns and operates Sex Ed for You. She provides comprehensive sexuality education and embodied coaching to individuals, partners, and parents.

Through a biopsychosocial approach, Sex Ed for You works to restore positive and respectful approaches to sexuality and sexual relationships, while increasing the possibility of pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination, and violence (World Health Organization).

Sexual health is fundamental to the overall health and well-being of individuals, couples, and families, as well as to the social and economic development of communities and countries (World Health Organization). When individuals are blocked from sexual health, they are often stunted in their ability to develop sensual play, embodied connection, and enjoyment.

Learn More & Connect

Learn more about Sex Ed for You: ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com⁠

Schedule a FREE CONSULT with Lauren: ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult⁠

Learn more about partnered communication and relational education on Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/⁠

Subscribe to the YouTube channel for conversations about sex, partnership, communication, and love: ⁠https://youtube.com/@thepartnershippodcast⁠

Important Reminders

This is not a “how to” podcast, but rather a “how they” podcast. Lauren and Trey share personal experiences, perspectives, and reflections, inviting listeners to learn from what resonates, question what doesn’t, and decide what feels aligned for their own lives.

Lauren is not a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy and Relationship Coach.

In this episode, Lauren and Trey dive deep into the clinical and practical applications of David Schnarch’s Intimacy & Desire. Moving beyond the bedroom, they explore how the concepts of the High Desire Partner (HDP) and Low Desire Partner (LDP) manifest in every corner of a partnership; from travel and hosting to professional ambition and the pace of daily life.

While these terms are often used to describe sexual frequency, Lauren and Trey chop it up to see how these roles flip depending on the context. They explore how Trey often moderates the pace of adventure while Lauren pushes for the next big trip, and the inherent toll of being the HDP for community and hosting. They take a raw look at the intersection of urgency and spaciousness, examining how Trey’s desire for a slower, more generative pace interacts with Lauren’s high-capacity professional drive.

Lauren and Trey tackle the "heavy burden" of being the Low Desire Partner in a sexual dynamic. Lauren deconstructs the cultural shame often directed at women who are HDPs, as well as the pressure felt by LDPs who feel they are keeping their partner from what they want. They explain why they don’t actually have a sex problem despite their differing levels of desire, pointing instead to the importance of a Solid Flexible Self. By having a well-defined sense of self that doesn't depend on a partner’s constant validation, they are able to use requests and offers in the "third domain" to negotiate intimacy without one person feeling controlled by the other.

Coming off a season of repair, they share a vulnerable moment of "slam poetry" eroticism and the importance of receiving a partner's desire even when capacity is low. They model how to stand in the Four Points of Balance, ensuring that neither partner feels silenced or pressured. By understanding that the initial honeymoon phase is a temporary chemical state, they demonstrate how moving into a differentiated, long-term partnership requires intentional tools and a commitment to separate self-responsibility.

Lauren offers embodied coaching to help you and your partner navigate these dynamics with clarity and grace.

Request your free 15-minute consult at sexedforyou.com/freeconsult.

About Them

Lauren and Trey are partners living in Central Virginia, where Lauren owns and operates Sex Ed for You. She provides comprehensive sexuality education and embodied coaching to individuals, partners, and parents.

Through a biopsychosocial approach, Sex Ed for You works to restore positive and respectful approaches to sexuality and sexual relationships, while increasing the possibility of pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination, and violence (World Health Organization).

Sexual health is fundamental to the overall health and well-being of individuals, couples, and families, as well as to the social and economic development of communities and countries (World Health Organization). When individuals are blocked from sexual health, they are often stunted in their ability to develop sensual play, embodied connection, and enjoyment.

Learn More & Connect

Learn more about Sex Ed for You: ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com⁠

Schedule a FREE CONSULT with Lauren: ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult⁠

Learn more about partnered communication and relational education on Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/⁠

Subscribe to the YouTube channel for conversations about sex, partnership, communication, and love: ⁠https://youtube.com/@thepartnershippodcast⁠

Important Reminders

This is not a “how to” podcast, but rather a “how they” podcast. Lauren and Trey share personal experiences, perspectives, and reflections, inviting listeners to learn from what resonates, question what doesn’t, and decide what feels aligned for their own lives.

Lauren is not a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy and Relationship Coach.

In this final installment on relational wounding, Lauren and Trey explore the unspoken journey of returning to sex after conflict. They discuss navigating the transition from protective isolation to physical connection, proving that repair is as physiological as it is emotional.

Lauren introduces Betty Martin’s "Base Camp" framework; the internal state required for pleasure after trauma. Facing a "two-choice dilemma," she reflects on choosing restoration over the righteousness of suffering and identifies the three requirements needed to move forward.

The couple details their slow road back, starting with non-sexual, comforting touch. Using the Three Minute Game and "May I?" requests, they re-established a flow of energy. Lauren shares the raw reality of their first kiss post-wounding, describing it as a "drawbridge" moment that triggered a vital emotional release.

They dive into their first sexual encounter, which Lauren intentionally centered on her own pleasure. She describes her "crying orgasm"; a somatic cleanse of rage and grief. By asking Trey to withhold his orgasm, she protected herself from the "shadow side of taking," ensuring the experience restored her agency rather than deepening the wound.

Repair is rarely linear. From Lauren testing Trey’s defensiveness to his commitment to over-communication, they model staying present when things feel abrasive. They stress not "brushing things under the rug" just because sex has returned, keeping accountability firm.

Lauren reflects on her forged "warrior queen" energy, viewing pleasure as the ultimate antidote to pain. This episode is a testament to how partnerships can emerge more differentiated and authentically connected after facing the fire.

Are you navigating the journey back to intimacy after a hurt?

Request your free 15-minute consult at sexedforyou.com/freeconsult.

About Them

Lauren and Trey are partners living in Central Virginia, where Lauren owns and operates Sex Ed for You. She provides comprehensive sexuality education and embodied coaching to individuals, partners, and parents.

Through a biopsychosocial approach, Sex Ed for You works to restore positive and respectful approaches to sexuality and sexual relationships, while increasing the possibility of pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination, and violence (World Health Organization).

Sexual health is fundamental to the overall health and well-being of individuals, couples, and families, as well as to the social and economic development of communities and countries (World Health Organization). When individuals are blocked from sexual health, they are often stunted in their ability to develop sensual play, embodied connection, and enjoyment.

Learn More & Connect

Learn more about Sex Ed for You: ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com⁠

Schedule a FREE CONSULT with Lauren: ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult⁠

Learn more about partnered communication and relational education on Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/⁠

Subscribe to the YouTube channel for conversations about sex, partnership, communication, and love: ⁠https://youtube.com/@thepartnershippodcast⁠

Important Reminders

This is not a “how to” podcast, but rather a “how they” podcast. Lauren and Trey share personal experiences, perspectives, and reflections, inviting listeners to learn from what resonates, question what doesn’t, and decide what feels aligned for their own lives.

Lauren is not a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy and Relationship Coach.

In this episode, Lauren and Trey sit down with a sense of relief and connection, marking their arrival on the "other side" of a major relational crisis. While the proximity to the wound is still close, the air has cleared, and the repair has taken deep root. They reflect on how this journey through conflict differed from their past experiences, moving away from old cycles of defensiveness and into a grounded, shared reality.

Lauren shares how impactful it was to be witnessed by her community during the height of the rupture. This external support allowed her to stay anchored in her "queen" energy and maintain her boundaries, rather than collapsing into the role of a victim or feeling the need to nurture Trey through his own growth process.

Trey discusses the necessity of updating his internal "software" after recognizing how his shadow side had taken over. He reflects on the power of being held accountable by other men; sharing his struggle with his peers rather than "taking" emotional labor from his partner. This allowed him to hold up a mirror to his own behavior and realize the conflict was a result of his own internal triggers, giving Lauren the necessary space to move through her rage without having to carry his emotional load.

They demonstrate how they regained physical intimacy through "May I?" requests, ensuring that every touch, from a kiss on the cheek to holding hands, was a conscious choice and not a relational obligation.

They close by celebrating how everyone, including their family and community, benefits from watching a couple work through harm without continuing to wound one another. By modeling this process, they hope to provide the example they never had growing up: two people taking full responsibility for themselves and choosing partnership anew every single day.

If you are navigating a difficult season or want to learn how to use tools like the Wheel of Consent to rebuild trust after a rupture, you don't have to do it alone. Lauren offers embodied coaching to help individuals and couples find their way back to a path of agency and connection.

Request your free 15-minute consult at sexedforyou.com/freeconsult.

About Them

Lauren and Trey are partners living in Central Virginia, where Lauren owns and operates Sex Ed for You. She provides comprehensive sexuality education and embodied coaching to individuals, partners, and parents.

Through a biopsychosocial approach, Sex Ed for You works to restore positive and respectful approaches to sexuality and sexual relationships, while increasing the possibility of pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination, and violence (World Health Organization).

Sexual health is fundamental to the overall health and well-being of individuals, couples, and families, as well as to the social and economic development of communities and countries (World Health Organization). When individuals are blocked from sexual health, they are often stunted in their ability to develop sensual play, embodied connection, and enjoyment.

Learn More & Connect

Learn more about Sex Ed for You: ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com⁠

Schedule a FREE CONSULT with Lauren: ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult⁠

Learn more about partnered communication and relational education on Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/⁠

Subscribe to the YouTube channel for conversations about sex, partnership, communication, and love: ⁠https://youtube.com/@thepartnershippodcast⁠

Important Reminders

This is not a “how to” podcast, but rather a “how they” podcast. Lauren and Trey share personal experiences, perspectives, and reflections, inviting listeners to learn from what resonates, question what doesn’t, and decide what feels aligned for their own lives.

Lauren is not a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy and Relationship Coach.

In this follow-up to one of their most difficult episode to date, Lauren and Trey sit back down in the chairs just 48 hours later. Often in the world of relationship content, we see the "before" and the "after," but we rarely get to witness the messy, fragile middle. This conversation is a raw demonstration of what it looks like to navigate a major wounding in real-time, without rushing the healing process or demanding a premature return to normal.

Trey shares the deep work he has been doing with his professional support, identifying the shadow side that led to his recent dysregulation. He explores the archetypes of the martyr and the victim, and how his fear of being trapped triggered a hostile takeover of his behavior. He discusses the importance of installing early warning systems and taking full ownership of his own mind, rather than expecting his partner to be his therapist.

Lauren reflects on the physiological toll of relational trauma and the "horrified clarity" of the past few days. She shares the reality of moving through the world with a "shook" nervous system, experiencing; nausea, poor sleep, and a total lack of sexual desire as her body prioritizes its own safety. She discusses the power of being allowed to take up space in her rage and grief, resisting the patriarchal script that tells women they must hurry up and heal to keep their partners comfortable. Even while continuing her professional work with clients, she is navigating the challenge of remembering her own values and making her own healing a priority.

This conversation is a demonstration of how trust is regained through play, structure, and clear limits. They experiment with slow, intentional touch, like a back scratch or laying on a chest, while maintaining a strict timer to protect Lauren’s sense of safety. They navigate the reality that sexual desire belongs on the back burner during a season of repair, honoring the first principle of pleasure: the freedom of personal choice. This is an invitation to witness two people choosing to stay in the discomfort of a "critical mass" moment, valuing the slow, honest process of rebuilding over a quick fix.

Request your free 15-minute consult at sexedforyou.com/freeconsult.

About Them

Lauren and Trey are partners living in Central Virginia, where Lauren owns and operates Sex Ed for You. She provides comprehensive sexuality education and embodied coaching to individuals, partners, and parents.

Through a biopsychosocial approach, Sex Ed for You works to restore positive and respectful approaches to sexuality and sexual relationships, while increasing the possibility of pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination, and violence (World Health Organization).

Sexual health is fundamental to the overall health and well-being of individuals, couples, and families, as well as to the social and economic development of communities and countries (World Health Organization). When individuals are blocked from sexual health, they are often stunted in their ability to develop sensual play, embodied connection, and enjoyment.

Learn More & Connect

Learn more about Sex Ed for You: ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com⁠

Schedule a FREE CONSULT with Lauren: ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult⁠

Learn more about partnered communication and relational education on Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/⁠

Subscribe to the YouTube channel for conversations about sex, partnership, communication, and love: ⁠https://youtube.com/@thepartnershippodcast⁠

Important Reminders

This is not a “how to” podcast, but rather a “how they” podcast. Lauren and Trey share personal experiences, perspectives, and reflections, inviting listeners to learn from what resonates, question what doesn’t, and decide what feels aligned for their own lives.

Lauren is not a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy and Relationship Coach.

In what may be their most vulnerable and raw conversation to date, Lauren and Trey open the record in the middle of a significant relational storm. Recorded just hours after Lauren returned from a high-stakes work trip to New York, this episode finds their marriage in a fragile place following a major conflict that unfolded while they were apart.

Trey leads with extreme candor, identifying how he became highly dysregulated and allowed his shadow side to take over. He shares how he leaned into a distorted internal narrative, leading him to lash out at Lauren just as she was reaching a professional milestone.

Lauren reflects on the experience of being on the receiving end of these accusations. She explores the pain of having a partner target the very things she is most afraid of, specifically the fear that pursuing her own dreams might negatively impact her family. She shares the difficult experience of having to maintain a professional exterior for her clients while her personal foundation felt incredibly shaky.

This conversation is a real-time demonstration of two people moving through a crisis without a frantic need for immediate repair. They navigate the heavy reality of the distance created by this conflict, discussing the natural loss of physical desire that often follows a breach of trust. They model the difficult work of differentiation; where Lauren stays anchored in her own reality rather than trying to fix Trey’s behavior, and Trey takes full responsibility for his mental state without expecting his wife to act as his therapist.

This is a raw look at what it looks like to stay present in a relationship when things feel most uncertain. It is an invitation to witness how a partnership can navigate intense pain and disagreement while still maintaining a level of respect and observational distance.

If you are navigating your own difficult season or struggling to find your way back to safety after a major conflict, you don't have to navigate it alone. Lauren provides a supportive, trauma-informed space for individuals and couples to find clarity through embodied coaching. Request a free 15-minute consultation for individuals and couples looking to build a more resilient, embodied connection.

About Them

Lauren and Trey are partners living in Central Virginia, where Lauren owns and operates Sex Ed for You. She provides comprehensive sexuality education and embodied coaching to individuals, partners, and parents.

Through a biopsychosocial approach, Sex Ed for You works to restore positive and respectful approaches to sexuality and sexual relationships, while increasing the possibility of pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination, and violence (World Health Organization).

Sexual health is fundamental to the overall health and well-being of individuals, couples, and families, as well as to the social and economic development of communities and countries (World Health Organization). When individuals are blocked from sexual health, they are often stunted in their ability to develop sensual play, embodied connection, and enjoyment.

Learn More & Connect

• Learn more about Sex Ed for You: ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com⁠ • Schedule a FREE CONSULT with Lauren: ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult⁠ • Learn more about partnered communication and relational education on Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/⁠ • Subscribe to the YouTube channel for conversations about sex, partnership, communication, and love: ⁠https://youtube.com/@thepartnershippodcast⁠

Important Reminders

This is not a “how to” podcast, but rather a “how they” podcast. Lauren and Trey share personal experiences, perspectives, and reflections, inviting listeners to learn from what resonates, question what doesn’t, and decide what feels aligned for their own lives.

Lauren is not a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy and Relationship Coach.