There’s often this idea that you’ll find the “PERFECT” person and they’ll just have and know everything you need! Unfortunately this isn’t true. The right or perfect person is the one you decide to grow and create love with. It’s a series of experiences, that cause you to do things you never thought possible, while expanding your mindset. Are you ready to create your PERFECTION?

Desperation can take you out of your character! The pursuit of love and companionship can create a rose colored glasses effect or love laced feeling. It’s important to realize reality in the moment and not get swept away. Have you ever been caught up?

Maturity seems to be the one attribute that eludes time! Why is it that we stay mentally and emotionally stagnant, when experience is ongoing? What does perception do to those who feel their beauty is limitless? Let’s talk about the dating shelf life and how the goal post seems to keep moving.

Have you ever moved on before you were truly ready to? Did you push forward or take time? I’ve found that many people attempt to move forward, leaving a trail of broken hearts and spirits along the way. Let’s try untying the emotional knots!

To understand where YOU ARE! You must ACKNOWLEDGE where YOU’VE BEEN! So much of how we connect and interact, is informed through childhood. As we get older it doesn’t always mean growth. Just more time using what we knew. Growth in your Emotional and Mental capacity requires work. When was the last time you took an inventory of your progress? More importantly, how are you showing up? #dating #datingadvice #datingtips #gay #men #lgbtq #relationships #gaydating

We are all the sum of our life’s experiences! Many of which are formed in childhood. From the ways we Connect, Love and Manage Emotions… or Not! It’s a delicate yet intricate process of challenging what you know and understanding what you need to. Is your Emotional and Mental in check? #dating #datingadvice #datingtips #gay #lgbtq #love #relationships #mentalhealth

Truth can be a key to a universal lock! Once you’re honest with yourself, about yourself; you can then expect and respect it from others. Rejection is a part of this! You’re going to be on the giving and receiving end at some point. How comfortable are you in both?

The Dating Formula is INTENTION + ACTION= WORK! You have to be ready to put in the work to cultivate and curate the relationship you want. Readiness isn’t solely about a checklist. It’s a mindset, mixed with forward motion.