This episode explores why so many mothers feel like they’re parenting without a village, even when they’re surrounded by people who care.

I break down the five different kinds of support mothers actually need, and why expecting them all from the same people creates disappointment, resentment, and exhaustion. When we understand that the village isn’t one thing, it becomes easier to stop blaming ourselves for what’s missing.

You’ll hear about:

• Why loneliness in motherhood is often structural, not emotional

• The difference between emotional support, practical help, and time

• Why the people who love your child aren’t always the ones who can lighten your load

• Why collapsing all needs into one place leads to burnout

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One year into The Mama Circle Podcast, I’m revisiting one of the most listened-to episodes and checking in with myself.

In episode two, I shared what I wanted my motherhood to feel like. Ease. Fun. Flow. A sense that my child would naturally fit into my life.

A year later, a lot has changed. My son is older. I’m working. My relationship has ended. And my assumptions about how motherhood would feel have been quietly challenged.

In this episode, I reflect on what actually shifted, what surprised me, what felt heavier than expected, and what turned out to be easier than I imagined. I talk about ease as a daily practice, how fun looks different than I thought it would, and why stability now matters more than I realised then.

This isn’t an audit or a how-to. It’s a pause. A noticing. And an invitation to reflect on your own motherhood, not to fix it, but to understand it more clearly.

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Motherhood doesn’t exist in isolation.

Two women can love their children just as deeply, want motherhood just as much, and still have completely different experiences of it.

In this episode, I talk about one of the most overlooked and rarely named factors shaping motherhood: the person you have children with, or raise children with.

This is not about blame, judgement, or “choosing wrong”. It’s about understanding the environment you are mothering inside of, and why motherhood can feel heavier than expected for some women.

We explore:

• Why your partner is part of your motherhood ecosystem

• Emotional regulation, nervous system load, and co-regulation

• Mental load, initiative, and the slow build of resentment

• Capacity, illness, trauma, burnout and long-term compensation

• Money, financial security, and the hidden costs carried by mothers

• Why motherhood looks easier for some mums and not others

  
  

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In the first episode of 2026, Nat reflects on finishing This Is Us and why the show stayed with her long after the final episode.

This isn’t a recap or a spoiler-filled review. It’s a conversation about motherhood, family, and the quiet expectations we absorb from TV.

Nat explores:

• Why This Is Us feels both comforting and unrealistic

• How motherhood and family life are idealised on screen

• The invisible labour behind “magical” childhood memories

• Why older family structures feel impossible to recreate today

• What the show gets right about love, connection, and the village

• And why modern motherhood often feels like failure when it’s actually a lack of support

A reflective episode for any mum who’s ever watched a family drama and wondered why real life feels so much harder.

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New Year can feel like magic or heaviness or absolutely nothing at all. In this short New Year’s Eve episode Nat invites you to pause, breathe and gently acknowledge the year you just walked through. No resolutions. No reinvention. No new-year-new-you.

This conversation is a soft reflection space where you’ll explore three grounding questions:

• What surprised you this year
• What challenged you more than you expected
• What did you get through without ever stopping to recognise it

You are not expected to sprint into January or reinvent yourself by midnight. You can walk, limp, sleep or drag yourself into a new phase of life. Nat offers an alternative to pressure: noticing what you want less of, and what you want more of. Not goals. Just truth.

If you need a gentle voice reminding you that what you carried was heavy and what you did this year matters, this is your moment. You’re doing big work. You really are.

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Christmas Eve is here and if you are listening as this episode lands, you are probably juggling excitement, pressure and a to do list too long for one day. This is a short and gentle episode to simply ask how you are, really. Not the polite answer, not the performance, but the truth.

We look at how Christmas amplifies everything. The magic and the mess. The joy and the grief. The overwhelm and the tenderness. Whether Christmas feels beautiful this year or complicated, you are not behind, you are not failing, you are human.

Inside:
• a moment to pause and check in with yourself
• permission to do less even when tradition says more
• a one minute regulation tool for today or any day that spirals
• the reminder that you do not have to perform Christmas

If today feels joyful, soak it in. If it feels heavy, you are not the only one. However this season is meeting you, you are doing an incredible job.

We will meet again for the New Year episode next week.

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n this week’s episode I share something I hadn’t planned to, but it felt right in the moment. Motherhood has a way of piling a lot onto our minds and our hearts, and sometimes the most supportive thing we can do is speak the truth we’re carrying.

This episode is a very real, present-moment reflection on:

• the end of a ten-year relationship
• why the decision took months
• the complexity of co-parenting under one roof
• the fears and shame that have surfaced along the way
• my little boy’s biting phase and the worries underneath it
• how an unexpected tarot reading gave me a sense of peace
• why sharing honestly has always been part of my healing

If you’re going through something that feels heavy, confusing or hard to name, I hope this episode helps you feel less alone. You are doing big and important work, no matter how messy or uncertain things feel today.

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Motherhood is full of love and magic, but it also comes with expectations none of us signed up for. In this episode Nat breaks down seven common myths that keep mothers overwhelmed, burnt out, resentful and doubting themselves.

These myths are everywhere in our culture and in the conversations we inherit from generations before us. When we believe them, we push ourselves past capacity. When we question them, everything becomes lighter.

Inside this episode you will hear:

• Why instinct is not the same as skill
• The cost of the “patient and selfless” mother narrative
• Why feeling resentment or overwhelm does not mean you are failing
• Why putting children first every time is dangerous for everyone
• Why trying harder is not the answer
• Why motherhood cannot be your sole source of identity
• Why good mothers absolutely need help

You deserve a version of motherhood that feels human, supported and grounded in truth, not pressure.

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