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When most men think about ego, they think arrogance or insecurity. But the real issue isn’t having an ego — it’s having an unhealthy one.

In this episode of The Work, I explore how an insecure ego drives stress, defensiveness, and relationship struggles, often without you realising it.

We cover what the ego really is, how it forms, why it becomes rigid, and how awareness, mental flexibility, and connection help you build a healthier relationship with yourself.

This isn’t about getting rid of your ego.

It’s about learning how to work with it — so it stops running your life in the background.

This is the work.

Get in touch:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/james_shireby/

Email: jamesshireby@hotmail.com

Interview episodes you might enjoy:

Anthony Barnes: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vwZ3TikRV9s

Chloe Thomas: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JQEhKfcAZgk

Johnny Lawrence: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l_ErlDxpeGk

Read more from me:

https://twpt.co.uk/blog/77/how-to-manage-your-negative-thoughts

Discounts:

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Growth isn’t always loud or obvious.

Often, it shows up quietly in how you think, communicate, and take responsibility for your life.

In this episode of The Work with James Shireby, James explores five subtle but powerful signs that you’re genuinely growing as a man.

We cover:

• Why learning to ask rather than assume is a sign of maturity
• How having difficult conversations builds trust and stronger relationships
• What it really means to invest your time and energy into what matters
• The difference between being driven by growth versus being led by ego
• How to reconcile the paradox of being content while still wanting more from yourself

This episode is for men who are reflective, values-led, and committed to doing the inner work — not for perfection, but for clarity, fulfilment, and self-respect.

If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re truly moving forward or just staying busy, this conversation will help you recalibrate.

This is the work.

Get in touch:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/james_shireby/

Email: jamesshireby@hotmail.com

Interview episodes you might enjoy:

Anthony Barnes: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vwZ3TikRV9s

Chloe Thomas: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JQEhKfcAZgk

Johnny Lawrence: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l_ErlDxpeGk

Read more from me:

https://twpt.co.uk/blog/77/how-to-manage-your-negative-thoughts

Discounts:

Awesome Supplements: https://awesomesupplements.co.uk/?gclid=EAIaIQobChMIn-XrqsCljQMVWJJQBh29URCQEAAYASAAEgJg7vD_BwE&utm_source=google&campaign_id=21383997986&ad_id=702821348557&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=SWK+-+Search+-+Brand&utm_content=166602222467&utm_term=&gad_source=5&gad_campaignid=21383997986

Use: SHIREBY10 at checkout for 10% off