Continuing The Happier Life Project’s ‘relationship month’ series, this week’s episode takes a powerful look at narcissists, narcissistic abuse, and toxic relationships with Dr. Jaime Zuckerman, licensed clinical psychologist, media contributor, and global expert in narcissistic abuse.

Dr. Z is a three-time published author and host of the podcast Next Up: Narcissism. A leading relationship coach for those experiencing narcissistic abuse, she’s also the founder of The Z Group, a private therapy practice specializing in anxiety, depression, and complex relationship dynamics. With years of in-depth research into narcissistic behavior, Dr. Z has empowered people around the world to break free from emotionally abusive relationships.

In conversation with host Gabby, Dr. Z unpacks the traits and tactics commonly used by narcissists, revealing why platforms like social media and dating apps offer ideal conditions for manipulation. She also sheds light on the type of person narcissists often target, and clears up a widespread myth: a toxic relationship doesn’t always mean a narcissist is involved.

Dr. Z shares why it often takes several attempts to leave a narcissistic abuser, whilst outlining the essential steps to take when you’re ready to get out for good. Her insights offer hope, clarity, and a powerful reminder that healing is always possible.

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🔗 For more on Dr. Jaime Zuckerman: https://www.drjaimezuckerman.com/

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Dating and communication, whether with a partner or potential partner, can feel overwhelming and confusing. But with the right tools, it can actually be empowering… and even fun! In this episode of The Happier Life Project, we continue our mini-series on romantic relationships and mental health by focusing on one of the most important skills in love: communication.

Criticism, defensiveness, silence, or feeling misunderstood are all signs of a communication breakdown. When communication goes wrong, it can seriously impact your confidence and self-worth. In a relationship, healthy communication is essential for navigating stress, de-escalating conflict, and staying emotionally connected. To communicate well means expressing yourself in a clear, confident, constructive and respectful way. When you bring this mindset into your dating life, you can avoid unnecessary confusion and heartache.

This week’s guest is Hayley Quinn, one of the UK’s leading dating coaches for both men and women. She’s on a mission to make dating great again! In her conversation with host Gabby, Hayley shares practical advice on how to communicate when someone you’re dating goes quiet, and what to say when you want to address defining the relationship. Hayley also explains why that elusive “spark” isn’t always a reliable sign of compatibility, and how to spot when dating is being used to avoid uncomfortable emotions.

Plus, Hayley calls out the unrealistic fairy tale narratives we’ve inherited (yes, Disney, she means you) and reminds us that real love is built, not magically bestowed.

If you’re dating, thinking about dating, or simply want to become a better communicator in your relationship, this episode is packed with relatable insights and helpful advice.

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🔗 For more on Hayley Quinn: www.hayleyquinn.com

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While the team at My Possible Self is busy behind the scenes working on a podcast revamp for the new season, we didn’t want to go too quiet on you until September! So The Happier Life Project is bringing you a handpicked selection of standout episodes from our archives, starting with a mini-series all about mental health and romantic relationships.

In the first of five episodes, Gabby welcomes Therapy Jeff, a licensed professional counselor based in Portland. With millions of followers on TikTok and over 1.2 million on Instagram, Jeff is known for his bite-sized, relatable relationship content that regularly goes viral. He’s also the author of the book 'Big Dating Energy' and host of the popular relationship podcast 'Problem Solved'.

Together, Gabby and Jeff dive into the joys and pitfalls of online dating; from finding your dream match to receiving an unsolicited 'dick pic' and everything in between. Jeff shares his expert advice on spotting the early red flags on dating apps, handling the dreaded ghosters, crafting an authentic and enticing profile, and offers his top five tips for attracting the right match. Jeff and Gabby also have some fun exploring the best (and worst) opening lines after a match.

So whether you're deep in the dating trenches or just dipping a toe into the app pool, this episode is packed with laughs, lessons, and everything you need to swipe smarter and navigate the world of online dating with more confidence.

To download the free My Possible Self app: https://mypossibleself.app.link/podcast

🔗 For more on Therapy Jeff: https://www.therapyjeff.com/

https://www.tiktok.com/@therapyjeff

https://www.instagram.com/therapyjeff/