Episodios

  • THE UNTOLD STORY OF MENOPAUSE IN THE WORKPLACE
    Jul 23 2025

    Forget the stereotypes, menopause isn’t just night sweats and mood swings. It’s a real challenge that’s changing how women work, lead, and live.

    In this insightful episode of The Forties Formula podcast, hosts Jasmin Dhillon and Amanda Lim sit down with LISA TARQUINI, a UK Registered Nutritionist and Licensed Menopause Champion dedicated to raising awareness, educating, and empowering people impacted by menopause.

    Together, they dive into the real-life impact menopause has on women’s professional and personal lives, highlighting how a lack of understanding often leaves many struggling quietly. Lisa also shares how the “MenoVest” is helping men understand what menopause really feels like, creating more empathy and support at work.

    In this episode, we explore:

    • The silent toll of early menopause on mental health, memory, and confidence

    • Why brain fog and burnout are often misunderstood and misdiagnosed

    • The powerful link between hormonal shifts and mental health

    • What it takes to create corporate cultures that support women in midlife

    • Reshaping the conversation around menopause at work

    • Key lifestyle and health strategies to thrive through menopause

    The more we normalize conversations about menopause, the less women are forced to suffer in silence, second-guess their experiences, or shrink themselves to fit a system that doesn’t see them. Menopause is real, and support shouldn’t be optional.

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    CHAPTERS

    05:18 — A cervical cancer diagnosis at 31

    09:20 — Menopause symptoms affecting work performance and confidence

    13:48 — Menopause awareness is critical to prevent misdiagnosis and fear

    15:59 — Workplaces need menopause support policies

    18:05 — Menopause is still taboo at work

    30:30 — Conversations and empathy can change a woman’s career path

    33:06 — How women with lower SES are hit harder by menopause

    35:45 — Women’s health research still falls dangerously short

    50:30 — Mental health awareness and seeking help are vital

    53:11 — Normalizing protein shakes for women needs

    58:00 — Treat your body well and it will take care of you

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  • HOW HEALTHY HABITS ARE HURTING YOUR HORMONES
    Jul 16 2025

    🎙️ Hormones are only part of the story, stress, diet, and lifestyle play the leading roles in how we feel.

    In this heart-opening episode of The Forties Formula podcast, hosts Jasmin Dhillon and Amanda Lim sit down with JO BROWNLOW, a certified Functional Medicine Health Coach and Bootcamp Trainer passionate about helping women reclaim their health through balance, nourishment, and rest.

    Together, we explore how to balance hormones naturally, support your liver and gut health, and why loving yourself first is the foundation for thriving in your 40s and beyond.

    In this episode, we explore:

    • The hidden dangers of overexercising and its impact on hormones

    • How alcohol affects liver health and gut

    • Why loving yourself is key to feeling your best in your 40s and beyond

    As we navigate the complexities of our health and the inevitable shifts that come with age, it becomes clear that the story of wellness is not just about what we consume, but about how we honor the delicate balance within ourselves. Loving yourself first isn’t selfish, it’s essential. When you prioritize your health and wellbeing, you unlock the freedom to live fully with strength and grace.

    CHAPTERS

    05:02 – The hidden harm of overexercising

    08:47 – Rest is just as important as exercise

    16:25 – Gut health impacts mood & hormones

    19:24 – Why sleep is a big deal

    23:31 – The 3 F’s: Fresh, Fermented, Fibrous

    26:14 – Self-Diagnosis vs. Real Help

    31:55 – How alcohol stresses the liver and gut

    38:35 – The role of testosterone in women’s health

    41:31 – Client case study: Cholesterol and estrogen link

    51:17 – 9D Breathwork: Healing through breathing

    53:07 – Put self-love at the top of your list

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    58 m
  • FINDING YOUR VOICE WHEN THE SCRIPT NO LONGER FITS
    Jul 9 2025

    🎙️ Your story has power, and you get to choose how it’s told.

    In this heart-opening episode of The Forties Formula podcast, hosts Jasmin Dhillon and Amanda Lim sit down with CHRISSIE CHOO, a speaker, educator, mindset coach, and the go-to guide for anyone ready to reframe their story and reclaim their voice.

    Together, they explore how pain can point us toward purpose, why storytelling isn’t just for brands but for healing, and how showing up as your most human self is the most powerful way to lead and connect in today’s world.

    In this episode, we explore:

    • What it means to face the “identity wobble” in your 40s and why it hits so hard

    • How productivity, roles, and routines can slowly erase your sense of self

    • The shift from performing for applause to posting with intention

    • Why giving your pain a name creates distance and clarity

    • What it means to be the director of your own story

    When you become the director of your own story, you gain the freedom to choose how you respond and what your story means. Your story belongs to you, and it deserves to be told with intention, courage, and love.

    CHAPTERS

    05:11 Letting go of shame-based “shoulds”

    09:04 When productivity becomes self-worth

    13:50 Boredom is a portal to ideas

    28:42 Triggers reveal what needs your attention

    31:11 Be careful what you practice

    41:53 Constant digital activity is draining connection

    45:05 Passion is simply joy in motion

    47:48 The messy middle is where we connect most

    51:04 Fear is the internet’s favorite control tool

    52:15 Be the director of your own epic movie

    56:43 Write your own script

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  • THE REAL REASON YOU KEEP SELF-SABOTAGING
    Jul 2 2025

    Self-worth isn’t up for debate even on your heaviest days.

    In this thought-provoking episode of The Forties Formula podcast, hosts Jasmin Dhillon and Amanda Lim sit down with LAURA PHILLIPS—Asia’s only genetics-based coach and the woman behind countless midlife glow-ups.

    Together, they explore why high-achieving women struggle to prioritize their wellbeing, how shifting your beliefs can unlock lasting change, and why investing in yourself is the ultimate business strategy.

    In this episode, we explore:

    • Why self-judgment is a false motivator that keeps women stuck in shame cycles

    • How separating your self-worth from the number on the scale changes everything

    • The truth about “getting bulky” and why strength training should be every woman’s priority

    • How chasing success can mask deep-rooted feelings of unworthiness

    • Real talk on excuses, internalized pressure, and what finally cuts through the nonsense

    It’s time to stop making excuses and start choosing yourself. No more blaming your career, your kids, your circumstances, or even your hormones. The truth is, if you don’t prioritize your health and well-being, everything else suffers, and that’s on you. If you’re ready to break free from the cycle of guilt and self-neglect, this episode is your wake-up call.

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    CHAPTERS

    05:59 What gets lost when you don’t choose you

    11:21 Your body keeps the score and your excuses

    17:05 Boundaries don’t start with them, they start with you

    20:15 The weight came off when the shame did too

    28:31 Why chasing comfort is the biggest barrier to change

    35:14 Why muscle is your best anti-aging strategy

    46:05 Trial, error, patience: your nutrition plan

    48:40 How your beliefs shape your habits

    52: 43 Building strength now to thrive in every decade

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  • THE EMPATHY RESET EVERY WOMAN NEEDS
    Jun 25 2025

    🪞 What if empathy wasn’t just a soft skill—but a superpower?

    In this thought-provoking episode of The Forties Formula podcast, hosts Jasmin Dhillon and Amanda Lim sit down with MIMI NICKLIN—empathy advocate, bestselling author of Softening the Edge, and global voice for conscious leadership.

    Together, they unpack the emotional weight women carry in midlife, and how reclaiming empathy—for ourselves and others—might be the key to everything from better parenting to powerful leadership.

    In this episode, we explore:

    • Why empathy has become dangerously undervalued in a hyperproductive world
    • The science behind how empathy builds connection, belonging, and even performance
    • How the empathy gap impacts women at work, at home, and in midlife friendships
    • Ways to soften our edge without losing our voice—including real scripts, boundaries, and mindset shifts

    Whether you’re burned out from over-giving, stuck in comparison cycles, or quietly questioning your purpose… this one’s for you.

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    CHAPTERS

    04:02 Why empathy matters more than ever

    09:34 The empathy deficit at work and at home

    15:48 What soft power really means for women

    21:12 How burnout blocks our ability to connect

    28:55 Scripts and mindset shifts for boundaries

    34:10 Reclaiming empathy without losing yourself

    42:20 Parenting, presence, and emotional fluency

    49:45 Final thoughts and Mimi’s parting wisdom

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    51 m
  • SPEED, SILENCE, AND STARTING OVER AFTER 40 WITH CLAIRE JEDREK
    Jun 18 2025

    Ever felt like it’s “too late” to switch gears, change lanes, or start from scratch? Singaporean celeb Claire Jedrek would like a word with you.

    In this energising episode of The Forties Formula podcast, hosts Jasmin Dhillon and Amanda Lim sit down with motorsport athlete, media personality, and mother CLAIRE JEDREK to talk about what it really means to live life in chapters—and how to unapologetically embrace reinvention at every age.

    She reminds us:

    • Identity is not a one-lane road. Claire shares how she’s navigated multiple career and personal pivots—from car racing to motherhood to entrepreneurship—without ever feeling boxed in.
    • "Balance" is often a myth. What matters more is feeling aligned with your why, not checking every life box every single day.
    • Visibility doesn’t mean vulnerability. Claire reflects on being “known” and how social media can blur the lines between personal sharing and performative openness.
    • Motherhood is messy—and magnificent. She opens up about the chaos of early parenting years, why moms need speed (figuratively and literally), and how she found herself again through sport and space.

    From motherhood to motorsports, personal branding to private moments, Claire brings her signature honesty and edge to a conversation that’ll make you want to hit “reset” on your own limiting beliefs. Listen now anywhere you get your podcasts.

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    CHAPTERS

    03:42 Growing up with grit and drive

    08:30 Shifting gears: from media to motorsport

    12:45 How motherhood changed the tempo

    19:05 Reinvention isn’t a crisis—it’s evolution

    26:15 Finding peace in a fast-paced world

    32:00 Why she’s not interested in “balancing it all”

    38:45 The difference between sharing and performing

    44:00 Advice for women writing their next chapter

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    55 m
  • WE NEED TO TALK ABOUT THE BOYS
    Jun 11 2025

    If you watched the Netflix show Adolescence in shock and awe - you're not alone. And if you're the parent of boys, it probably hit harder than you thought - at least it did for us.

    In this Father’s Day special episode - and a Forties Formula first! - Jasmin Dhillon and Amanda Lim welcome their debut male guest: DR. NEIL FORREST, GP and dad of two, alongside returning guest DR. EMMA WADDINGTON, clinical psychologist.

    Together, they talk about the emotional lives of boys—and how we, as parents, caregivers, and culture shapers—can help them grow up with both strength and softness.

    🧠 What We Explore:

    • Why “good boy” messaging can be just as limiting as “man up”
    • How boys develop (or don’t develop) emotional language—and what to do about it
    • Why emotional literacy isn’t soft—it’s essential (especially in adolescence)
    • The role of fathers—and father figures—in shaping self-worth and safety
    • How to stop passing on shame around tears, anger, and vulnerability

    If you’re raising sons, co-parenting with a man, or even unpacking your own childhood stories about “being good” and “not crying,” this episode will challenge and comfort you in equal measure. Listen now anywhere you get your podcasts.

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    CHAPTERS

    00:00 Intro: Our first male guest + why we're talking about the boys

    04:20 How boys are socialised to suppress emotion

    09:40 “Good boys” vs. emotionally healthy boys

    14:15 Helping sons name and express feelings

    19:50 What boys need to feel safe showing vulnerability

    24:00 The invisible curriculum dads (and moms) pass on

    28:10 How gendered praise limits emotional growth

    33:45 Rewriting the script for the next generation

    40:00 Final reflections: less fixing, more feeling

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    58 m
  • HOW TO BREAK FREE FROM CLUTTER WITHOUT BREAKING DOWN
    Jun 4 2025

    You’re not imagining it—your overflowing junk drawer might actually be spiking your cortisol.

    In this refreshing and practical episode, The Forties Formula podcast co-hosts Jasmin Dhillon and Amanda Lim sit down with NATHALIE RICAUD, professional home organiser and founder of Get Organised & Beyond, to talk about how the clutter in our homes isn’t just a visual nuisance—it’s deeply emotional. Especially for women navigating midlife transitions.

    We explore how our relationship with stuff shifts after 40, why decluttering is about far more than minimalism, and how the simple act of tidying can spark real transformation—not just in your house, but in your head. Get reminded that:

    • Decluttering is never just about stuff. It’s a doorway into your values, your habits, and your sense of control—especially in seasons of change.
    • That midlife “stuff” often tells a story. From clothes that no longer fit to kids’ artwork to inherited furniture, Nathalie explains how our clutter is often tied to identity and memory.
    • Decision fatigue is real. Decluttering requires hundreds of micro-decisions. Nathalie shares ways to reduce overwhelm and build momentum.
    • Letting go doesn’t mean letting go of the person or memory. Nathalie reframes guilt and nostalgia, showing how you can honour someone without keeping every item.
    • Systems beat motivation. Consistency wins over intensity. A good system ensures your space works with you—not against you.

    Whether you’re downsizing, nesting, or just done living under a pile of “maybe one day” items, this episode is your permission slip to reset—with less shame and more strategy.

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    CHAPTERS

    03:12 Why clutter peaks in midlife

    06:58 The emotional weight of our “stuff”

    11:40 The myth of the perfect minimalist home

    15:25 Decision fatigue and how to overcome it

    18:50 What to do when your family won’t let go

    22:33 Organising for personality types

    27:45 Creating systems that actually work

    31:10 How clutter reflects your values and identity

    35:15 Starting small: where to begin today

    38:22 One thing to declutter this weekend

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    54 m