If you're a man who's tired of secrets, this episode for you.

Kirk Oliver is living proof that God has freedom and purpose planned for even those stuck in sexual immorality.

Kirk is the author of Tip of the Spear, a 30-day men's devotional for discipleship and he shares about his double-life, the miracles that God pulled off to restore his marriage, and the workaholism that he and so many men give into.

YOU'LL LEARN

✅ Why discovering pornography as a boy rewired Kirk's brain — and how the need for affirmation drove decades of hidden sin.

✅ What happened when Kirk's wife came downstairs at midnight and asked the question he'd been dreading.

✅ Why his first Christian counselor didn't work — and how he finally broke free.

✅ How a random Sunday at a new church changed Kirk's life forever.

✅ What Biblical accountability really is

QUOTES

"Convenience and sacrifice are opposites."

"Sacrifice is an act of worship."

"If you're full spiritually and emotionally, you're not easily tempted."

"I used to think, what's the least I could do to be free? That's just not God's economy."

GET THE BOOK

Search "Tip of the Spear by Kirk Oliver" on Amazon to get your 30-day discipleship plan for men.

TAKE ACTION

If you're struggling with sexual sin and want help, join The Armory — a transformational men's discipleship community rooted in Biblical teaching. restoredministries.ca/armory

Bonnie Pue of The Union Movement has written the book parents didn't know they were waiting for — a practical, biblical, and deeply honest guide to talking with your kids about sexuality before the world does it for you. Bonnie and her husband Bryan, parents of six boys, bring theology, storytelling, and a lot of lived experience to one of the most avoided conversations in Christian homes today.

HIGHLIGHTS

✅ Why talking to your kids about sexuality isn't one big conversation — it's a series of small, age-appropriate moments you capitalize on as they come.

✅ How the enemy specifically targets sexuality because it bears the image of God — and why parents need to move from defense to offense.

✅ The real reason parents stay silent: not because they lack love, but because nobody had the conversation with them either.

✅ Practical tools for starting the talk — including a dinner table game that had six boys squirming and laughing at the same time.

✅ Why fear makes parents either helicopter or disengage — and how to find the confident middle ground.

QUOTES

❝If it's always tomorrow, it's never going to happen.❞

❝I don't just want this to be an information transfer — I want people to connect with God himself and invite the Holy Spirit into this journey.❞

❝The voice of the parent needs to be the strongest voice on this topic, through attachment and relational development with their son or daughter.❞

RESOURCES

➡️ Awkward by Bonnie Pue — available on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Audible, Kobo, and Google Play. Search "Awkward Bonnie Pue"

➡️ The Union Movement — resources, events, and more: unionmovement.com

TAKE ACTION

If you're struggling with sexual sin and want help, you can experience transformational community and Biblical teaching that has impacted the lives of men around the world. Join The Armory at restoredministries.ca/armory.

Bryan and Bonnie Pue of The Union Movement have spent years equipping the church to talk honestly about sexuality. Not as a side topic, but as a core pillar of discipleship. Bryan and Bonnie bring an incredible depth to their understanding of Biblical sexuality and a conviction that we can find the gospel in the midst of our sexuality.

HIGHLIGHTS

✅ Why sexuality cannot be separated from discipleship — and why 25 out of 27 New Testament books address it directly.

✅ The Old Testament sexual framework God established from the very beginning

✅ What the laws in Leviticus and Numbers show about a God who is radically different from every false god demanding sexual worship.

✅ How the slow erosion of sexual identity is a strategic scheme to destroy the image of God in humanity.

✅ The freedom available in 1 Corinthians 6: "Such were some of you" — washed, sanctified, justified. You are not bound to your past or your struggle.

QUOTES

❝If you're not purposely and strategically leading with sexuality, there's a huge deficit within your church culture.❞

❝God is so pro-sex, but He also understands the danger when it's taken outside the context he designed it for.❞

❝Christ's cleanness, his purity was so strong, it actually healed her. That's what happens when you come close to Christ.❞

❝Within this message is a revival message because if we don't get to the root of some of this stuff, revival cannot be sustained.❞

RESOURCES

➡️ The Union Movement — video courses, blogs, podcast, and church leadership resources: theunionmovement.com

➡️ Follow them on Instagram: @theunionmovement

TAKE ACTION

If you're struggling with sexual sin and want help, you can experience transformational community and Biblical teaching that has impacted the lives of men around the world. Join The Armory at restoredministries.ca/armory.