In this episode, Mardi Winder talks with Jamie Lima, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, Certified Financial Planner, and mediator, to discuss the complexities of money during divorce and how financial concerns can influence decisions both before and during the process. Jamie brings a personal and professional perspective, sharing his own story of navigating divorce and how those early experiences shaped his career and approach to financial planning.

Throughout their conversation, they explore why having a diverse team of professionals, including financial planners, divorce strategists, attorneys, and, at times, forensic accountants, is essential to achieving clarity and support during such a challenging transition. Jamie notes the common pitfalls of expecting attorneys to cover every aspect and encourages building what he calls "Team You," where specialists collaborate for the best outcome. The discussion highlights the value of understanding one’s financial options, preparing relevant documents, and using supportive resources wisely, especially as emotions can interfere with decision-making.

They also touch upon the evolution of collaborative divorce formats and how emerging technology, like AI-assisted financial analysis, is making asset tracing more accessible and affordable. Jamie generously shares details about free and practical resources, including budgeting worksheets and online tools, aimed at empowering listeners with knowledge as they plan or move through divorce.

This episode offers not only practical steps but also reassurance for anyone feeling overwhelmed,reminding listeners that thoughtful preparation, education, and the right support system can help ease the process and set the foundation for a brighter financial future after divorce.

About the Guest:

Jamie Lima:

I grew up in a family that always seemed to have money challenges, especially after my parents divorced when I was very young.

They tried incredibly hard, but I knew, even as a small child that it was rough on them.

That led me to a career in finance as I wanted to learn and understand how to better support myself and my future family.

After going through an incredibly difficult divorce myself, I decided to become a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® and founded Allegiant Divorce Solutions to help others better prepare for, navigate, and recover financially from divorce.

I promised myself early on that I would do whatever was required to ensure that my clients never felt the same struggles related to money that I did growing up, and through my divorce.

After over 20 years of experience, I really love helping clients make important financial decisions and making the puzzle pieces ‘fit’ for them. But I also noticed a need in the Divorce space. The software we are using is antiquated, and I knew there had to be an easier way. That led me to build SecureSplit. SecureSplit Pro helps divorce professionals organize their cases in an easy-to-use and modern layout. I also created quick calculators to help consumers that are unable to work with professionals, SecureSplit Essentials.

Outside of work my wife, Dawn, and I spend a lot of time in our Jeep off-roading, traveling the country in our RV, and trying to keep up with our 5 (yes, 5!) kids.

For Jamie’s gift: https://allegiantds.com/resources

To connect with Jamie:

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamielima/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allegiantdivorce/

Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allegiantdivorce

Facebook: www.facebook.com/groups/preparingfinanciallyfordivorce/

About the Host

Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and...

Welcome to this episode of The D Shift: Redefining Divorce And Beyond. Today, host Mardi Winder welcomes life coach and spark-restorer for women, Megan Bunnell, to share her powerful journey of rebuilding life after divorce and trauma. Megan opens up about navigating the aftermath of an abusive relationship, facing deep grief and an identity crisis, and finding her way to a "10 out of 10" life.

Through candid conversation, Megan explains how women—especially high-achieving and accomplished ones—often hide their struggles, and how acknowledging where you are is the first step to rising after divorce. She offers practical advice on self-love, rewriting your inner narrative, and intentionally laying the groundwork for a fulfilling new chapter.

Whether you’re just out of a relationship or looking to redefine your own happiness, this episode is filled with inspiration, actionable strategies, and hope for anyone refusing to stay broken after adversity. Plus, you’ll hear about Megans “Unstoppable You Assessment” and tools to help you start living your best life today.

Tune in for genuine insight, encouragement, and the reminder that transformation is not only possible, it begins with loving yourself and taking one small step forward each day.

About the Guest:

Megan Bunnell is a life coach, speaker, and unapologetic spark-restorer for women who refuse to stay broken after divorce. A former teacher and corporate professional, Megan rebuilt her life after an emotionally abusive marriage, deep grief, and a complete identity unraveling.

Now, as the founder of Tantalum Coaching and host of the Empowered & Unstoppable podcast, she helps high-achieving women stop merely “coping” and start creating 10/10 lives they’re obsessed with waking up to. Equal parts science nerd, straight-talking best friend, and bulldog with a heart of gold, Megan blends thought and emotional management with brutally honest self-reflection to help women rise stronger, softer, and more powerful than ever. Her message is simple: your past may explain you, but it does not define your future.

For Megan’s gift: https://unstoppableyouassessment.meganbunnellcoaching.com/

To connect with Megan:

Website: www.meganbunnellcoaching.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/meganbunnell.lifecoaching/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MeganBunnell.LifeCoaching

Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/megan-bunnell/

About the Host

Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.

Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".

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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women

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This episode of The D Shift focuses on the often-overlooked possibilities offered by collaborative law for divorce. Mardi Winder is joined by Manisha Patel, an attorney known for blending legal expertise with a compassionate approach to the challenges of family separation. Through their conversation, Manisha Patel shares her journey from traditional litigation toward embracing alternative dispute resolution, particularly collaborative law. She explains how her experience with adversarial cases led her to realize that families benefit most from processes that prioritize emotional, mental, and financial well-being.

Listeners will gain a clear understanding of collaborative family law and how it differs from mediation. Manisha Patel outlines the collaborative law framework, emphasizing open disclosure and a commitment not to pursue litigation, allowing couples to maintain greater control over their outcomes. The episode also touches on the role of other professionals, such as child welfare specialists and financial neutrals, in supporting families through this process.

Through practical examples and thoughtful insight, Manisha addresses common concerns, including fears about working collaboratively when tensions or personality conflicts arise. She underscores the value of communication and the potential for collaborative law to prepare parents for healthy co-parenting beyond divorce, regardless of their current relationship. The conversation highlights choosing the best path for your unique situation and reminds listeners of the power and ownership they retain when making decisions together.

About the Guest:

Manisha Patel is known for combining deep legal expertise with a calm, practical, and compassionate approach that helps clients make good decisions in some of the most stressful moments of their lives. As a collaborative family law attorney, certified mediator, and founder of a boutique family law firm in Greensboro, North Carolina, Manisha focuses on helping families navigate separation, divorce, and co parenting with less conflict and more clarity, using collaborative law and mediation to keep people out of courtroom battles whenever possible.

She is an elected Councilor to the North Carolina State Bar and past President of the Greensboro Bar Association, as well as a longtime leader in organizations that support women in the legal profession, pro bono service, and lawyer wellness. Her new book, End Your Marriage Peacefully: Your Guide to Successful Collaborative Divorce in North Carolina, launches in 2026.

For Manisha’s gift: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1mdfky2F_12czu_q0QCIBJFvO_OKezzcz/view?usp=drive_link

To connect with Manisha:

Website: www.lawofficeofmpp.com

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/manishappatel

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/law-office-of-manisha-p-patel-pllc/

IG: https://www.instagram.com/lompp18/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lawofficeofmpp

About the Host

Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.

Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".

Connect with Mardi on Social Media:

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/

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