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  • Booted Out! When The Work Stops: Using Faith, Resilience, And Talent To Rise Again with Arvi Carkanji
    Apr 7 2026

    There is a specific kind of silence that happens when the work stops. It’s the shadow side of the professional world—the part people rarely discuss at dinner parties or on LinkedIn, but it is the reality for millions right now. When the work stops, the silence isn't just in your inbox; it’s in your home, your marriage, and your very soul.

    Whether it’s a plant shutdown, a drought, a recession, or a new AI algorithm—it feels the same. It feels like a folding chair just collapsed underneath you. Recent data shows that nearly 40% of global employment is exposed to AI disruption, and in the US alone, we see roughly 1.5 million layoffs per month. But statistics don't feel the humiliation. They don't feel the shrink that happens when you’ve been out for months and can no longer stand up firm and strong. If you’re ducking night outs to avoid the “What do you do?” conversation, this episode is for you.

    And yet, there’s another truth running alongside this one.

    There’s a moment in every career where you realize you’re not just building a résumé—you’re building a life. And sometimes that life is shaped by the people who believed in you long before you believed in yourself. For today’s guest, that spark came from a grandfather who told her she was destined for more, a son who reminded her to stay present, and a community of professionals who needed someone to advocate for them.

    This episode is for anyone navigating career transitions, leadership challenges, or the pressure to “figure it out” while the world keeps shifting. Because today, we’re talking about faith, resilience, and the real work of finding—and becoming—top talent.


    About the Guest

    Arvi Carkanji is the founder and CEO of Elite Talent, a recruiting firm that helps tech companies build Pre‑Sales and Post‑Sales teams that actually work. She specializes in placing Sales Engineers, Solutions Architects, Customer Success leaders… basically, the people who turn “maybe” into “yes” and “yes” into “hell yes, let’s expand this contract.”

    She’s got a 92% retention rate in an industry where most hires bail faster than a bad Tinder date. She calls it “professional matchmaking” because she genuinely believes recruiting is less about resumes and more about chemistry, timing, and whether someone’s going to thrive in your chaos or become part of it.

    Her philosophy is pretty simple: Pre‑Sales is where the money is made. Post‑Sales is where the reputation is built. Nail those two, and you’ve got yourself a business. Mess them up, and, well… good luck.

    She works with tech startups from Pre‑Seed to Series C, and honestly, her biggest mission? Putting Pre‑Sales on the map. She wants people to say, “I want to grow up to be a Sales Engineer,” because honestly, it’s one of the most underrated, high‑impact careers out there. These are the people who translate tech into value, who close deals and build trust. They deserve way more credit than they get — and although Elite Talent has expanded to help founders and leaders with more roles than that, the mission hasn’t changed. Pre/Post‑Sales is the company’s bread and butter, and she’s pretty confident that she understands it a lot better than some recruiters who have been in the business for 10+ years because she studies it deeply.

    Website: https://elitetalentrecruiting.io/

    LinkedIn Company: https://www.linkedin.com/company/elitetalentrecruiting/

    LinkedIn Personal: https://www.linkedin.com/in/arvi-carkanji/

    Email: arvi@elitetalentrecruiting.io

    Learn more at:
    https://www.linkedin.com/in/denleymcintosh/

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  • No! No! No! NO! How to Build Resilience in a Job Search When Every Door Feels
    Mar 24 2026

    Job loss is one of the most destabilizing experiences a person can face. It doesn’t just affect your income; it also affects your identity, your confidence, and the atmosphere inside your home. When the work stops, the silence that follows can feel heavy, disorienting, and deeply personal. Many people today are navigating layoffs, AI disruption, and shrinking opportunities, yet few feel they have a safe place to talk about the emotional toll.

    Wouldn’t it be helpful to understand what’s really happening beneath the surface — psychologically, relationally, and culturally — when work disappears? In this episode, we unpack the hidden side of unemployment: the “shrink,” the shame, the silence, and the slow erosion of confidence that so many experience but rarely name. We’ll also explore practical strategies to stay grounded, rebuild your rhythm, and rise again with dignity.

    If you’ve ever felt the weight of waiting, the sting of rejection, or the pressure to stay strong while your world feels uncertain, this episode is for you.

    Learn more at:
    https://www.linkedin.com/in/denleymcintosh/

    Listen to more episodes on Mission Matters:
    https://missionmatters.com/author/denley-mcintosh/

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    39 m
  • The Emotional Echo: How Neuroscience Shapes Resilience & How Leaders Build or Break It
    Mar 10 2026

    Resilience isn’t just about bouncing back from hard moments…It’s about staying steady in the moments that shake us. And nothing shakes a team faster than incivility, emotional leakage, or a leader whose stress becomes the room’s atmosphere.

    In this episode of The Coach’s Corner, we’re exploring the neuroscience behind resilient leadership: how the brain responds to disrespect, how emotional contagion spreads through teams, and how leaders can build “biological resilience” by regulating their own nervous systems.

    Because resilience isn’t only personal.
    It’s relational.
    It’s cultural.
    It’s biological.

    When leaders understand the Emotional Echo — the way their internal state becomes the team’s external climate — they unlock a new level of resilience for themselves and everyone they lead.

    This is the science of resilience.
    This is the biology of leadership.
    This is how you create a workplace or a home where people can think, innovate, and thrive.

    Learn more at:
    https://www.linkedin.com/in/denleymcintosh/

    Listen to more episodes on Mission Matters:
    https://missionmatters.com/author/denley-mcintosh/

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    37 m
  • How to Stay Steady in the Storm: Building the Next Level of Resilience Through Emotional Intelligence
    Feb 24 2026

    If you listened to the last episode — How to Bulk Up and Bounce Back — you know we explored the 3 R’s of resilience: Release, Reflect, Respond.

    This episode builds on that foundation.

    Because resilience isn’t just about recovering from impact.
    It’s about staying steady when life shifts.
    It’s about emotional intelligence — EQ — guiding your steps when everything feels new, uncertain, or overwhelming.

    And as I shared recently:

    Fear is part of the process of jumping into the cold water of newness.
    It’s scary because it’s new — not because you’re incapable.

    Join us today…We’re talking about how to stay grounded in the storm by using EQ to strengthen our resilience in real time.

    Learn more at:
    https://www.linkedin.com/in/denleymcintosh/

    Listen to more episodes on Mission Matters:
    https://missionmatters.com/author/denley-mcintosh/

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    33 m
  • How to Bulk Up and Bounce Back: The 3 R’s of Real Resilience
    Feb 10 2026

    Want to bulk up and bounce back?
    Do these 3 R’s.

    Not reps.
    Not barbells.
    Not gym time.

    We’re talking about lifting inner weights — the emotional and mental strength that helps you absorb life’s blows and return to form.

    Because life hits hard.
    Not with fists, but with:

    • Unexpected news
    • Harsh comments
    • Workplace pressure
    • Grief and loss
    • Emotional fatigue

    And like any good boxer, you need a strategy — not just strength.

    In this episode, we explore how to build resilience using the 3 R’s: Release, Reflect, Respond, supported by research, real stories, and lived experience.

    Let’s talk about how to stay grounded, centered, and strong — even when life pushes you into the ropes.

    Learn more at:
    https://www.linkedin.com/in/denleymcintosh/

    Listen to more episodes on Mission Matters:
    https://missionmatters.com/author/denley-mcintosh/

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    59 m
  • How to Make a Life in 2026: Essential Lessons from the 2025 Top Hits (Part 2)
    Jan 27 2026

    We’re keeping the celebration going at The Coach’s Corner—where curiosity stays sharp, tough conversations get tackled head‑on, and creative breakthroughs are just part of the rhythm.

    Jump into Part 2 with us as we relive the last year's final knockouts of success, spotlighting the home front, the leader’s inner narrative, and the legacy we shape through the connections that carry us forward.

    Learn more at:
    https://www.linkedin.com/in/denleymcintosh/

    Listen to more episodes on Mission Matters:
    https://missionmatters.com/author/denley-mcintosh/

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  • How to Make a Life in 2026: Essential Lessons from the 2025 Top Hits - Part 1
    Jan 20 2026

    Last year has been an amazing year for The Coach’s Corner. As we delved into topics you wondered about or even worried about, we tackled them head-on, offering practical advice to support you in this ring of life.

    Join us in Part 1 to relive these knockouts of success as we look at the power of focus, the rise of AI, and finding resilience at rock bottom.

    Learn more at:
    https://www.linkedin.com/in/denleymcintosh/

    Listen to more episodes on Mission Matters:
    https://missionmatters.com/author/denley-mcintosh/

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  • Walking into the Ring of Life (Why You need a Strong Corner): Being Interviewed by Patrice Bonfiglio of The Burnout Club
    Dec 30 2025

    Loneliness is rising, burnout is spreading, and many of us are carrying emotional weight we rarely name. Whether it’s at work, in our relationships, or in the quiet corners of our own minds, people are struggling to stay grounded in a world that keeps pulling them in every direction.

    In this episode, I step into the guest seat — joined by host Patrice Bonfiglio of The Burnout Club — to explore the emotional habits and inner narratives that shape how we show up. I share how engineering, theology, sociology, and leadership all converge in my work, and why simplifying the complex matters for people trying to navigate the ring of life.

    We talk about workplace loneliness, identity, parenting, relationships, burnout, and the Script–Soul–Story framework that helps you rewrite your inner narrative. We also explore why Gen Z and Gen Alpha are hungry for purpose, why high capacity people burn out quietly, and how reflection helps us see ourselves and others more clearly.

    If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, disconnected, or unsure how to stay grounded when life feels heavy, this conversation is for you.

    Learn more at:
    https://www.linkedin.com/in/denleymcintosh/

    Listen to more episodes on Mission Matters:
    https://missionmatters.com/author/denley-mcintosh/

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    57 m