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  • Ep. 410 A New Speculum: The Nella with Fahti Khosrowshahi
    Dec 26 2025

    In this episode, HeHe sits down with Fahti, the powerhouse creator behind the Nella Speculum, to talk about something long overdue in women’s healthcare… a speculum that doesn’t feel like a medieval torture device. Yes, finally.

    Fahti shares the story behind redesigning one of the most dreaded tools in gynecology and turning it into something that’s temperature-neutral, gentler, and actually built with patient comfort in mind. They dive into the real issues facing people during pelvic exams, how advocacy is reshaping the landscape, and why we should all expect better tools and better treatment.

    You’ll hear about the design process, clinical feedback from both patients and providers, and how the Nella Comfort Kit is giving folks the option to bring their own speculum into appointments. They also unpack the recent TikTok controversy that highlighted major trust issues in women’s health care — and how innovations like the Nella can help rebuild that trust.

    If you’ve ever braced yourself during an exam or wished the system cared more about your comfort, this conversation is going to feel refreshing, validating, and deeply empowering. Tune in to learn how the Nella Speculum is changing the future of gynecological care, one thoughtful design choice at a time.

    Guest Bio:

    Fahti is the Founder of Ceek Women's Health - the first company to develop and launch a modern comfortable speculum for women.

    Learn more about the Nell and Ceek Women’s Health here: https://www.nellaspec.com/

    SOCIAL MEDIA:

    Connect with HeHe on Instagram

    Check out Nella Speculum on Instagram

    BIRTH EDUCATION:

    Join The Birth Lounge for judgment-free, evidence-based childbirth education that shows you exactly how to navigate hospital policies, avoid unnecessary interventions, and have a trauma-free labor experience, all while feeling wildly supported every step of the way

    Want prep delivered straight to your phone? Download The Birth Lounge App for bite-sized birth and postpartum tools you can use anytime, anywhere.

    And if you haven’t grabbed it yet… Snag my free Pitocin Guide to understand the risks, benefits, and red flags your provider may not be telling you about, so you can make informed, powerful decisions in labor.

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  • Ep. 409 Placenta Encapsulation: A Practice with Ancient Wisdom & Power with Sophia Johnson
    Dec 24 2025

    In this episode, HeHe sits down with Dr. Sophia Johnson to pull back the curtain on one of the most misunderstood topics in postpartum recovery: placentophagy. Together, they dig into the science, the cultural traditions, and the ancient wisdom behind consuming the placenta… a practice that’s been normalized around the world long before Western medicine ever tried to dismiss it.

    Dr. Sophia breaks down what we actually know about placenta encapsulation, why so many parents report better mood, energy, and hormonal balance, and how oxytocin and postpartum hormone shifts come into play. You’ll also hear practical tips for handling and preparing placenta safely, plus a look at why these rituals hold such deep meaning across cultures — and why the traditional medical system still struggles to acknowledge the value of them.

    If you’re curious about the real role the placenta plays in healing after birth, this conversation is rich, grounding, and packed with the kind of nuance you won’t hear anywhere else. Tune in and let this episode expand what you thought you knew about postpartum recovery.

    Guest Bio:

    Dr. Sophia Johnson studied human medicine at the University of Witten/Herdecke. During her studies, she expanded my training and took part in the university curriculum for Chinese medicine and Anthroposophic medicine. Since 2014, she has been working as a researcher and completed my doctorate at the Placenta Laboratory at Jena University Hospital.She works in an outpatient practice specializing in integrative women's medicine.

    Connect with Dr. Sophia:

    https://sophia-johnson.de/en/

    SOCIAL MEDIA:

    Connect with HeHe on Instagram

    Connect with Dr. Sophia on IG

    BIRTH EDUCATION:

    Join The Birth Lounge for judgment-free, evidence-based childbirth education that shows you exactly how to navigate hospital policies, avoid unnecessary interventions, and have a trauma-free labor experience, all while feeling wildly supported every step of the way

    Want prep delivered straight to your phone? Download The Birth Lounge App for bite-sized birth and postpartum tools you can use anytime, anywhere.

    And if you haven’t grabbed it yet… Snag my free Pitocin Guide to understand the risks, benefits, and red flags your provider may not be telling you about, so you can make informed, powerful decisions in labor.

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  • Ep. 408 Baby Led Weaning with Alex King
    Dec 19 2025

    Join HeHe and Alex from Baby Led Weaning Academy as they take the confusion out of starting solids and bring you back to what’s actually normal for babies. This conversation walks you through true readiness signs, how to tell the difference between gagging and choking, and what to do with the very real fears around allergies. HeHe and Alex gently debunk the myths that make starting solids feel scarier than it needs to be, while reminding you that your baby’s instincts matter. You’ll hear how BLW and purees can work together, how to follow your baby’s lead with confidence, and what a safe, calm introduction to food really looks like. This episode is packed with practical tips and grounded wisdom to support your BLW journey from the very first bite.

    Guest Bio:

    Alex King is a postpartum doula and baby-led weaning specialist who helps parents approach starting solids with calm, confidence, and trust. Through Baby-Led Weaning Academy, she supports families in honoring their baby’s cues and development—making feeding a joyful, connected experience instead of an overwhelming one. With her doula background and lived experience weaning three foster babies, Alex brings heart, real-life wisdom, and a deep respect for both baby and parent to every conversation.

    SOCIAL MEDIA:

    Connect with HeHe on Instagram

    Connect with Alex on IG

    BIRTH EDUCATION:

    Join The Birth Lounge for judgment-free, evidence-based childbirth education that shows you exactly how to navigate hospital policies, avoid unnecessary interventions, and have a trauma-free labor experience, all while feeling wildly supported every step of the way

    Want prep delivered straight to your phone? Download The Birth Lounge App for bite-sized birth and postpartum tools you can use anytime, anywhere.

    And if you haven’t grabbed it yet… Snag my free Pitocin Guide to understand the risks, benefits, and red flags your provider may not be telling you about, so you can make informed, powerful decisions in labor.

    LINKS MENTIONED:

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    Catch Alex on DoulaTok

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  • Ep. 407: Re-air-Setting Yourself Up for Breastfeeding Success with Brianne Taggart
    Dec 17 2025

    Ep. 407: Re-air-Setting Yourself Up for Breastfeeding Success with Brianne Taggart

    Today we're bringing back one of the most loved breastfeeding episodes inside The Birth Lounge, because honestly… this conversation is too good to live in the archives. If you’re preparing for breastfeeding or already navigating those early days, this re-air is going to hit differently the second (or third!) time around.

    Lactation expert and IBCLC Brianne Taggart joins HeHe to dig into what truly sets you up for feeding success: protecting your mental health, grounding yourself in evidence-based lactation education, and knowing what’s normal so you’re not second-guessing every feed.

    Together, they lovingly bust the biggest breastfeeding myths, walk you through why colostrum is absolute gold, and break down how to follow your baby’s lead with confidence. You’ll learn what tools are actually helpful, how partners can show up as real support, and how to steer clear of the endless bad advice circulating online.

    Brianne brings her calming, clear, deeply supportive expertise — and whether it's your first time hearing this episode or a much-needed refresher, you’ll walk away feeling prepared, empowered, and rooted in what matters most.

    Guest Bio:

    Brianne Taggart is a mother of three, a Registered Nurse, IBCLC Lactation Consultant, childbirth educator and Certified Educator of Infant Massage. She loves teaching and empowering families about all things babies, boobs and breastfeeding. She understands firsthand how rocky the road into parenthood can be, so she likes to make that transition as smooth as possible for the families she teaches.

    Follow Bri on Insta for quick tips and tricks @breezy__babies and at www.breezybabies.com to see the products she offers.

    SOCIAL MEDIA:

    Connect with HeHe on Instagram

    Connect with Brianne on IG

    BIRTH EDUCATION:

    Join The Birth Lounge for judgment-free, evidence-based childbirth education that shows you exactly how to navigate hospital policies, avoid unnecessary interventions, and have a trauma-free labor experience, all while feeling wildly supported every step of the way

    Want prep delivered straight to your phone? Download The Birth Lounge App for bite-sized birth and postpartum tools you can use anytime, anywhere.

    And if you haven’t grabbed it yet… Snag my free Pitocin Guide to understand the risks, benefits, and red flags your provider may not be telling you about, so you can make informed, powerful decisions in labor.

    LINKS MENTIONED:

    https://breezybabies.com/

    Listen to the original episode: https://podcast.thebirthlounge.com/e/ep-172-setting-yourself-up-for-breastfeeding-success-with-brianne-taggart/

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  • Ep. 406 How Doulas can bridge the gap in lactation support with Kassi Reyes
    Dec 12 2025

    In this episode, HeHe welcomes Kassi to discuss the vital role doulas can play in lactation support. The conversation touches on the misconceptions about doulas' scope in providing lactation advice, Kassi's journey from a community clinic to becoming an IBCLC, and the importance of prenatal lactation education. They explore how doulas, with proper training, can address new parents' needs, identify red flags, and refer to IBCLCs when necessary. The episode delves into practical advice on breastfeeding, pumping, and supporting new mothers, highlighting the collaborative benefits when doulas and lactation consultants work together. Kassi also introduces her 'Bridge' program, designed to empower doulas with advanced lactation support skills. This comprehensive discussion aims to enhance breastfeeding success and maternal well-being by fostering a cohesive care approach.

    00:00 Welcome and Introduction

    00:09 The Role of Doulas in Lactation Support

    01:36 Personal Journey into Doula and Lactation Work

    03:48 Challenges in Prenatal Lactation Education

    06:05 Lactation Support in Hospitals

    07:51 Insurance Coverage for Lactation Support

    09:32 Educating Families Prenatally

    16:19 Recognizing Red Flags in Lactation

    19:01 Nipple Pain and Damage

    23:53 Pumping Guidance for New Mothers

    26:14 Understanding the Roles in Breastfeeding Support

    26:55 Navigating the Scope of Doula Support

    28:21 The Gray Area of Clinical Support

    31:58 Diverse Advice in Lactation Support

    35:17 The Importance of Standardized Lactation Education

    39:14 The Role of Pediatricians in Lactation Support

    46:29 Introducing the Bridge Program for Doulas

    50:32 How to Join the Bridge Program

    Guest Bio:

    Kassi Reyes: IBCLC, RN, Doula, Clinical Educator, and Mamá + your go-to person for real-world lactation tools. She is bilingual in English and Spanish and passionate about helping birthworkers gain real-world lactation skills, because I believe they’re the missing puzzle piece in helping families feel confident and supported on their feeding journeys. When Kassi’s not working, you’ll probably find her with a cup of coffee, chasing my toddler, practicing yoga, or exploring the outdoors.

    Connect with Kassi:

    https://www.kassireyes.com/apply

    https://www.kassireyes.com/training

    Free Lactation Guide for Perinatal Professionals - Answers to the Top 10 Feeding Questions your Clients will ask: https://www.kassireyes.com/guide

    SOCIAL MEDIA:

    Connect with HeHe on Instagram

    Connect with Kassi on IG

    Connect with Kassi on YouTube

    BIRTH EDUCATION:

    Join The Birth Lounge for judgment-free, evidence-based childbirth education that shows you exactly how to navigate hospital policies, avoid unnecessary interventions, and have a trauma-free labor experience, all while feeling wildly supported every step of the way

    Want prep delivered straight to your phone? Download The Birth Lounge App for bite-sized birth and postpartum tools you can use anytime, anywhere.

    And if you haven’t grabbed it yet… Snag my free Pitocin Guide to understand the risks, benefits, and red flags your provider may not be telling you about, so you can make informed, powerful decisions in labor.

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    Check out Kassi on HeHe's DoulaTok here!

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  • Ep. 405 Boob School 101: Real Talk About Breastfeeding, Pumping, and Surviving the First Year with Kelly Kendall
    Dec 10 2025

    In this episode of The Birth Lounge podcast, HeHe sits down with lactation superstar Kelly Kendall, RN and International Board Certified Lactation Consultant (IBCLC), to get real about breastfeeding — the joys, the struggles, and everything in between. They dive into the realities new parents face, from hand-expressing colostrum and mastering proper latching to managing oversupply, nipple trauma, and sleepy newborns. HeHe also introduces the Birth Lounge app, packed with bite-sized, evidence-based tools to help you feel confident navigating parenthood.

    Kelly shares practical, heart-centered advice for building a supportive environment, getting your partner involved, using pumps effectively, and keeping your milk supply healthy — without shame or pressure. Whether you’re expecting your first baby or navigating feeding with a little one already at home, this episode is overflowing with actionable strategies, evidence-backed guidance, and a dose of compassion only HeHe can deliver/

    00:00 Embracing the Realities of Parenting

    01:06 Introduction to The Birth Lounge App

    02:16 Features of The Birth Lounge App

    05:04 Breastfeeding Statistics and Challenges

    08:27 Interview with Lactation Consultant Kelly Kendall

    13:52 Breastfeeding Techniques and Tips

    25:41 The Importance of Baby-Led Latching

    36:03 Common Breastfeeding Challenges and Solutions

    38:31 Avoiding the Vicious Cycle of Breastfeeding

    38:43 Frequency of Feeding and Its Impact on Supply

    39:32 Sleepy Newborns and Feeding Challenges

    46:11 The Importance of Night Feedings

    47:48 Breastfeeding and Postpartum Self-Care

    48:57 Navigating Social Media Expectations

    49:33 Breastfeeding Subsequent Children

    52:55 Dealing with Nipple Trauma

    58:17 Introducing a Pump: Timing and Tips

    01:03:40 Partner Support in Breastfeeding

    01:05:22 Final Thoughts and Advice for New Parents

    Guest Bio:

    Kelly Kendall is a registered nurse and internationally board-certified lactation consultant (IBCLC) who’s been elbows-deep in boobs and babies for years—both in the hospital and as a private practice After watching too many parents get steamrolled by outdated advice and sugarcoated nonsense, she created Boob School: a no-fluff, all-facts lactation program that shows you how to prevent breastfeeding chaos, survive the messy middle, and get back on track when it all goes sideways.

    INSTAGRAM:

    Connect with HeHe on IG

    Connect with Kelly on IG

    BIRTH EDUCATION:

    Join The Birth Lounge here for judgment-free childbirth education that prepares you for an informed birth and how to confidently navigate hospital policy to have a trauma-free labor experience!

    Download The Birth Lounge App for birth & postpartum prep delivered straight to your phone!

    LINKS MENTIONED:

    https://firstdroplets.com/

    https://link.springer.com/article/10.1186/s13006-020-00261-4 https://firstdroplets.com/science/ https://www.thebalancedboob.com/boob-school-expectant Use code Hehe10 to get 10% off boob school!

    https://www.cdc.gov/breastfeeding-data/media/pdfs/2024/05/Dietary_Guidelines_for_Americans_2020-2025.pdf#page=65

    https://www.cdc.gov/breastfeeding-data/about/index.html?utm_source=chatgpt.com

    Listen to episode 240 of The Birth Lounge Podcast all about hand expression here!

    Listen to episode 356 of The Birth Lounge Podcast all about perceived low milk supply here!

    Get 10% off Silverettes to support your breastfeeding journey with code HEHE

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  • Ep. 404 Epidurals: Pros, Cons & Alternatives with Marissa Mulder
    Dec 5 2025
    This episode is brought to you by Cozy Earth, one of HeHe’s all-time favorite ways to stay cozy during pregnancy and postpartum. Their ultra-soft PJs, loungewear, and sheets make those long nights and lazy days feel a little more luxurious — and they’re a simple way to detox your home while you’re at it! Right now, you can use code HEHE to stack up to 40% off holiday sale prices on anything from dreamy PJs to new sheets: https://cozyearth.com/ Understanding Epidurals: Everything You Need to Know with Marissa Mulder of Sassy Anesthesia In this episode of The Birth Lounge Podcast, HeHe dives into the real talk on epidurals with Marissa Mulder, a Certified Registered Nurse Anesthetist (CRNA) and the brain behind the popular Instagram account Sassy Anesthesia. They break down why every labor is unique (so stop comparing yourself to everyone else!) and go step by step through the epidural process — the risks, benefits, pros, cons, and the myths you’ve probably heard. Plus, they cover the difference between epidurals and spinals, how to advocate for a birth experience that truly works for you, and how tools like the Birth Lounge App can give you bite-sized, evidence-based education to feel confident from pregnancy through postpartum. Whether you plan to use an epidural or not, this episode is packed with the knowledge and empowerment every parent deserves. 00:00 Introduction and Personal Advice on Epidurals 01:00 Welcome to The Birth Lounge Podcast 01:53 Introducing The Birth Lounge App 02:10 Features and Benefits of The Birth Lounge App 05:21 Today's Topic: All About Epidurals 05:54 Guest Introduction: Marissa Mulder, CRNA 06:54 Epidural FAQs and Common Concerns 10:41 Epidural Placement and Procedure 30:03 Medications Used in Epidurals 36:49 Postpartum Comfort: Cozy Earth's Bamboo Jogger Sets 40:20 Eating and Drinking During Labor: What's the Risk? 42:54 The Importance of Honesty with Hospital Staff 43:55 Why Partners Might Be Asked to Leave During Epidural Placement 48:36 Adjusting Your Epidural: What You Need to Know 51:53 Epidurals and Labor Progression: Myths and Facts 58:40 Epidural Risks and Benefits Explained 01:01:56 Spinal vs. Epidural: What's the Difference? 01:09:53 Emotional Aspects of Choosing an Epidural 01:13:59 Final Thoughts and Where to Find More Information Guest Bio: Marissa is a CRNA and first time mama to a busy 5 month old and can be found on insta & tiktok at @sassyanesthesia . SOCIAL MEDIA: Connect with HeHe on Instagram Connect with Marissa on Instagram BIRTH EDUCATION: Join The Birth Lounge for judgment-free, evidence-based childbirth education that shows you exactly how to navigate hospital policies, avoid unnecessary interventions, and have a trauma-free labor experience, all while feeling wildly supported every step of the way Want prep delivered straight to your phone? Download The Birth Lounge App for bite-sized birth and postpartum tools you can use anytime, anywhere. And if you haven’t grabbed it yet… Snag my free Pitocin Guide to understand the risks, benefits, and red flags your provider may not be telling you about, so you can make informed, powerful decisions in labor. Learn how to stay in control of your birth and reduce the risk of unnecessary interventions in our Avoid a C-Section Webinar. HeHe breaks down the cascade of interventions, explains what’s really happening in the hospital, and shares practical strategies to protect your birth plan, advocate for yourself, and navigate labor with confidence. Perfect for anyone who wants a positive, informed hospital birth experience. Feeling nervous about speaking up in labor? Our Scripts for Advocacy give you the exact words to handle the most common conversations that can make or break your birth experience. From declining unnecessary interventions to asking the right questions about procedures, these scripts empower you to stay in control, speak confidently, and protect your birth plan — even when the pressure is on. Think of it as your personal toolkit for advocating like a pro, so you can focus on your baby, not the stress.
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  • Ep. 403: Speaking Up for Yourself & Your Goals: Scripts for Advocacy in labor
    Dec 3 2025
    In this special re-air of our milestone 200th episode, we hear when HeHe celebrated ten years of supporting over 2,000 families through all kinds of birth scenarios from serene vaginal births to unexpected twists while sharing how ancestral wisdom has shaped her approach to childbirth. With warmth, humor, and that signature bold honesty, she dives into the art of trusting your body, making confident choices, and saying “no thank you” to unnecessary interventions. This episode covers everything from declining cervical checks and IVs, navigating late pregnancy ultrasounds, intermittent fetal monitoring, and pushing positions, to handling unwanted inductions, all while keeping your birth experience empowered and trauma-free. HeHe also highlights the Birth Lounge App, your go-to for evidence-based education, bite-sized guidance, and a supportive community to help you rock your pregnancy and labor with confidence. Whether this is your first listen or a welcome refresher during maternity leave, tune in and let HeHe help you claim your power in birth, because your choices, your voice, and your baby deserve it. 00:00 Introduction and Personal Anecdote 06:17 The Birth Lounge App: Empowering Birth Experiences 09:06 Re-Air Announcement and Podcast Highlights 10:46 Celebrating 200 Episodes and The Birth Lounge 14:32 Navigating Conversations with Your Provider 15:45 Declining Cervical Exams: Your Rights and Options 22:25 Pushing Positions: Advocating for Your Comfort 25:38 Pushing Effectively in Labor: The Secret Sauce to Pushing 25:55 The Baby Soap Debacle: A Better Alternative Use code HEHE at coconu.com 28:03 The Importance of Organic Products During Pregnancy 29:01 Understanding Big Babies and Late Pregnancy Ultrasounds 31:18 Alternatives to Ultrasounds for Fetal Monitoring 35:51 Setting Boundaries with Healthcare Providers 38:11 Electronic Fetal Monitoring: What You Need to Know 44:17 Declining an IV During Labor 47:54 Navigating Unwanted Inductions 53:58 Empowering Your Birth Experience SOCIAL MEDIA: Connect with HeHe on Instagram BIRTH EDUCATION: Join The Birth Lounge for judgment-free, evidence-based childbirth education that shows you exactly how to navigate hospital policies, avoid unnecessary interventions, and have a trauma-free labor experience — all while feeling wildly supported every step of the way: https://www.thebirthlounge.com/ Want prep delivered straight to your phone? Download The Birth Lounge App for bite-sized birth and postpartum tools you can use anytime, anywhere: https://www.thebirthlounge.com/app-download-page And if you haven’t grabbed it yet… Snag my free Pitocin Guide to understand the risks, benefits, and red flags your provider may not be telling you about, so you can make informed, powerful decisions in labor: https://www.thebirthlounge.com/pitocin Learn how to stay in control of your birth and reduce the risk of unnecessary interventions in our Avoid a C-Section Webinar. HeHe breaks down the cascade of interventions, explains what’s really happening in the hospital, and shares practical strategies to protect your birth plan, advocate for yourself, and navigate labor with confidence. Perfect for anyone who wants a positive, informed hospital birth experience: https://www.thebirthlounge.com/csection Feeling nervous about speaking up in labor? Our Scripts for Advocacy give you the exact words to handle the most common conversations that can make or break your birth experience. From declining unnecessary interventions to asking the right questions about procedures, these scripts empower you to stay in control, speak confidently, and protect your birth plan — even when the pressure is on. Think of it as your personal toolkit for advocating like a pro, so you can focus on your baby, not the stress: https://www.thebirthlounge.com/Scripts-for-Advocacy The Secret Sauce to Pushing course gives you step-by-step guidance on how to push effectively — whether you have an epidural or not — so you can reduce tearing, labor faster, and feel in control from start to finish. HeHe teaches which muscles to engage, how to position your body, and the techniques that actually work, giving you the confidence and tools to achieve your best birth possible. Learn more: https://www.thebirthlounge.com/SSP Say goodbye to hospital “baby soap” and hello to safe, nourishing lubrication! CocoNu is one of HeHe’s favorite all-organic lubes, made with coconut oil, coconut water, shea butter, cocoa butter, and other natural ingredients that keep your pH balanced and your downstairs happy. Perfect for your birth bag, pregnancy, or just better, safer intimacy, CocoNu comes in oil-based and water-based options, plus convenient single-use packets for labor or on-the-go. Because what you put in and on your body — especially down there — truly matters. Use code HEHE for a discount at CocoNu.com
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