Should a man have a large amount saved before marriage? Many men feel pressured to reach a financial milestone before getting married, but is that truly necessary? Meanwhile, some women prefer to date men who are already financially stable—but why? Is financial security a valid concern, or could it cause people to miss out on great relationships?
In this episode, we’ll explore saving money before marriage from a Christian perspective, looking at both biblical wisdom and practical realities. Should financial stability come before saying “I do,” or is there a better way to approach marriage preparation?

Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
2:35 Why is this conversation important?
4:12 Why men feel they need a certain amount saved before marriage
6:10 Do Christian women expect men to have a certain amount saved before marriage?
9:44 How a man's age impacts the expectation of having savings before marriage
12:42 Some women prefer a man to have a certain amount saved before marriage
14:22 Some women prefer a man to have savings before marriage for financial security
17:29 If you have a vision, you have to put in the work to make it a reality. Don’t be Lazy
20:18 If a man's vision or business isn’t taking off, he needs to get a job to provide for his family
25:46 Chris' story: Changing his view on savings before marriage
28:14 Some men save before marriage, not for security, but for the wedding day
33:00 Invest into your marriage, not just the wedding day
37:36 Some women don't want to build with a man; they want the finished product
40:17 Point 1 Men: Be diligent with finances, but don’t let fear or worldly standards delay a God-honoring marriage. Trust God’s provision
43:36 Point 2 Men: Marriage is about spiritual leadership and sacrificial love—make Christ the center, not money
44:54 Point 3 Men: Marriage is a partnership to grow together in all areas
49:06 Point 4 Men: Have a plan and be a wise steward
51:57 Point 1 Women: Value character and faith over a man's financial status
57:33 Point 2 Women: Financial security is important, but so is faith in God’s provision
59:45 Point 3 Women: Be willing to build with a man. A humble beginning with faith can lead to a strong foundation
1:06:38 Outro

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In this episode, we explore Christian perspectives on social media and ask the question: Is social media a sin, or can it be used in a way that honors God? Some believers see social media as a powerful tool for spiritual growth, evangelism, and Christian fellowship, while others warn that it leads to pride and vanity, unhealthy comparisons, and serves as a distraction in the Christian life.
We’ll dive into the impact of social media on Christians, discussing whether ethical Christian social media use is possible or if it promotes worldly values. How can believers practice Christian mindfulness in social media consumption, and is setting healthy social media boundaries the key to navigating these platforms without compromising faith? Join us as we examine both sides of the debate and share our perspectives. Is social media okay for Christians, or should we step away entirely? Let us know your thoughts in the comments!

Timestamps
00:00 Intro

Christians who believe social media is Sinful
4:00 The Temptation Social Media Brings
6:36 Social Media Distracts Us from God
11:14 Social Media Promotes Pride and Vanity
17:53 Social Media Fuels Envy and Comparison
27:59 Social Media Lacks Moral Boundaries

Christians who believe social media is Okay
32:58 Social Media is okay when Boundaries are in place
35:56 Not All Non-Christian Content is Sinful
38:09 Evangelism in the Digital Age
41:26 Using Social Media to Grow Spiritually
44:29 Social Media as a Platform for Christian Fellowship
49:05 Social Media Helps Christians Share Their Gifts with believers

Our Perspective on this matter
59:33 Kaylah’s perspective on this matter
1:00:44 Chris’ perspective on this matter

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Restoring fallen pastors and Christian leaders is a topic that sparks deep and heartfelt conversations within the church. Should leaders be required to step down after a moral failure, or can they recover and serve again? In this discussion, we dive into biblical leadership standards, exploring how grace and forgiveness intersect with the consequences of sin. We’ll examine the church’s forgiveness process, the role of church discipline for leaders, and the steps involved in restoration in ministry. Should fallen Christian leaders be permanently disqualified, or is there a path to serving in ministry again? Join us as we unpack the complexities of moral failure in church leadership and explore what the Bible says about grace, accountability, and leadership.

Timestamps:
00:00 Into

Christians Who Believe Repentant Leaders Should Serve Again
3:12 Repentant Leaders Can Serve Again Through God’s Restoration and Redemption
5:38 Biblical Examples Show Repentant Leaders Can Serve Again
9:07 Repentant Leaders Can Serve Again Because God’s Calling is Unchangeable
14:53 Story of Woman who Shared a Shocking Testimony
18:03 Repentant Leaders Can Connect More Deeply with Others
21:26 Repentance Reveals Heart Change, So Fallen Leaders Should Serve Again
26:38 No One Is Beyond Redemption
27:34 Cancel Culture Started in the Church
33:38 Repentant Leaders Can Encourage the Church

Christians Who Believe Repentant Leaders Should Never Serve Again
37:06 Leaders Who Break a Higher Standard Should Not Serve Again
40:20 To Protect the Flock, Fallen Leaders Should Not Serve Again
44:03 Fallen Leaders Should Not Serve Again to Safeguard Vulnerable Members
47:49 The Consequences of Sin
49:43 The Challenge of Rebuilding Trust
52:41 God calls us to use our minds
54:12 Holiness First: Fallen Leaders Should Not Be Restored to Service

Our Perspective on This Matter
57:10 Kaylah's Perspective on This Matter
58:41 Chris' Perspective on This Matter

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In this episode, we reflect on our first year of Christian marriage—the lessons we've learned, the struggles we've faced, and how keeping God at the center has strengthened our relationship. We discuss first-year marriage struggles, the importance of spending time with God in marriage, and how spiritual warfare in marriage can challenge couples. From learning to love our spouse the way they want to be loved to navigating the role of prayer, we share real insights into building a God-centered relationship. Keeping faith strong in marriage is essential, and we explore how a God-honoring marriage requires intentionality, prayer, and trust in Him

Timestamps
00:00 Intro
1:51 The Challenge of Finding a Community in a New City
5:31 Loving my Spouse The Way They Want to be Loved
10:28 How Fathers Shape Their Daughters' Relationships
14:32 Intentional Love: Stopping What You Dislike, Repeating What You Love
19:33 Different views of marriage growing up
20:19 Intentional in showing love
22:22 Really Consider Who You’re Marrying
23:28 Good Communication is Necessary in relationships
25:41 Spending Time with God, Together and Apart
29:11 Praying for Your Spouse
29:48 The Devil Hates Marriage as Much as God Loves Marriage
32:03 Don’t Allow External Factors to Influence Marriage

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In this episode, we explore how the Easter message shapes our faith daily and how we can walk in the power of Christ’s victory every day. Easter isn’t just a one day celebration, it’s a call to live with purpose through the resurrection of Jesus Christ.
Join us as we dive into key Easter podcast topics, discussing the daily application of the Easter message and how embracing a resurrection mindset in daily life transforms our faith. We’ll also cover the importance of preaching the Easter gospel to yourself and how gratitude shapes our walk with God, emphasizing thankfulness for Easter's true meaning.
If you're looking for a Christian podcast on Easter that provides a biblical perspective on Easter, this episode will encourage and challenge you to keep the message of Christ’s resurrection alive throughout the year.


Timestamps
00:00 Intro
3:23 What is the Meaning of Easter?
6:02 What is the Gospel?
9:20 What Were Trying to Tackle in This Episode
10:14 Living with Purpose Beyond Easter
15:08 Preach the Gospel to Yourself Daily
17:07 Love God, Love Others
20:53 Sharing the Gospel, Keeps Easter Alive!
24:46 Thanking God for the True Meaning of Easter Always
31:26 Scripture Is Filled with Deep Emotion
34:54 Thankful for the Gospel
37:47 God is Not a Liar, Christ is Risen!

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In this episode, we tackle the controversial question: Are designer babies ethical? As genetic engineering advances, many see it as a way to eliminate diseases and improve quality of life—but where should we draw the line? From a Christian perspective on genetic engineering, we explore whether this technology aligns with faith or if it’s a case of playing God with genetics.
We dive into the pros and cons of designer babies, weighing the potential to prevent suffering against the moral issues with designer babies and the risks of human pride. Should Christians embrace these advancements, or does it challenge God’s sovereignty? Should Christians support genetic engineering, or does it contradict biblical principles?
The discussion also covers trusting God vs. human control in science, asking if modifying genes for personal preference overstep God’s plan. We examine the Biblical view on eugenics and the ethical concerns about CRISPR babies, questioning whether eliminating genetic diseases is a medical breakthrough or a spiritual danger of genetic engineering.
Finally, we ask an important question: Should we cure disabilities through genetics? Or should we focus on compassion, care, and accepting that every life has a God-given purpose? Join us as we explore how Christians should view genetic advancements and whether this technology is a blessing—or a step too far.


Timestamps
Worldly Perspective on Designer Babies
00:00 Intro
3:05 Definition of Designer babies
5:42 Genetic engineering could eliminate genetic diseases
8:19 Genetic engineering could prevent suffering
18:43 Genetic engineering could improve the quality of life for people
21:36 Genetic engineering is just another technological advancement
31:08 Genetic engineering could have population benefits
34:32 Genetic engineering could allow parents to select their baby's traits

Christian Perspective on Designer Babies
39:32 Christians should trust in God’s Design Not Human Control
42:43 God is Sovereign so Christians shouldn’t engage in genetic engineering
45:55 Christians should show compassion over genetic selection
49:45 Ethical concerns about eugenics
53:30 Story of Mephibosheth
1:00:22 People with disabilities have given me so much joy
1:02:35 Genetic engineering is playing God
1:09:22 Genetic engineering is a gateway to pride

Our Perspective on Designer Babies
1:13:27 Chris’ Perspective on Designer Babies
1:16:48 Kaylah’s Perspective on Designer Babies
1:21:33 Outro

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In this episode, we sit down over a delicious Nigerian meal of pounded yam (Iyán) with ila Alasepo to share our Pentecostal church experiences, from funny church moments to truly scary church experiences that left a lasting impact. We dive into spiritual warfare testimonies, including intense casting out demons stories, and discuss how these moments shaped our faith. We also explore the Biblical view on praying against enemies, looking at Imprecatory Psalms in modern Christianity—do Old Testament calls for justice still apply today, and how do they align with Jesus' command to love our enemies? Join us as we unpack Pentecostal perspectives on spiritual manifestations, reflecting on the powerful, awe-inspiring, and sometimes shocking realities of faith.


Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
1:13 Food Intro
6:01 Experience 1 - A woman was possessed, then the demon left her and attacked the pastor
13:45 Experience 2 - Being scared as a child because the pastor would lay hands on people and they would fall
18:13 Experience 3 - The Pastor Ainotinted People's feet and people are slipping everywhere in the church
23:13 Experience 4 - Mum would cry during Worship and I didn't know what to do as a child
23:55 Experience 5 - The Pastor told the congregation to put a bowl of water in their room to keep demonic presences away
25:21 Experience 6 - I saw the Power of God through Healing at Church
27:32 Experience 7 - Pentecostal Churches Faith is on a Different Level
28:34 Experience 8 - Pentecostal Church Prayer Before and After Service Starts
30:05 Experience 9 - The differences between English churches and African/Caribbean Pentecostal Churches
34:05 Experience 10 - When I was 4 years old I thought God was Bold and Lightskin
36:06 Experience 11 - Calling Fire Upon Enemies
48:51 Rating the Food

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In this episode, we talk about navigating everyday struggles as a Christian and offer practical tips for overcoming daily challenges in Christian life. We explore how to conquer common obstacles in living out your faith and discuss ways to strengthen your faith through these challenges. We also share how to find strength in Christian struggles and stay faithful during life's toughest moments.
We dive into overcoming doubts in your Christian walk and provide Christian solutions for struggles to help you find hope when faced with difficulties. We also talk about making time for God even in the busyness of life and how to avoid feeling inadequate in serving God. Plus, we share insights on disputing faith-related issues from a Christian perspective, doubting God's promises, and navigating struggles with faith and emotions as a Christian. Tune in for encouragement and practical advice to help you grow in your faith journey.


Timestamps:
00:00 Into
2:49 Why is talking about struggles important?
3:35 Announcement: New addition to the family
7:00 Struggle 1: Knowing how best to Discipline children at work
16:02 Struggle 2: Making intentional time with God, reading the Bible, and understanding the Bible
22:45 Struggle 3: Is what I do enough for God
23:49 Struggle 4: Overthinking
26:08 Struggle 5: Disputing things that go against my faith
31:22 What advice would you give to stop overthinking?
36:23 Struggle 6: Trying not to doubt God's promises
40:52 Struggle 7: Not choosing music that adds fuel to the fire when I'm sad
41:52 Struggle 8: Feeling sad for no reason

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