Are you wondering should Christians marry unbelievers? In this discussion, we explore the biblical perspective on unequally yoked marriages and whether it’s okay for a Christian to marry a non-Christian. We break down key scriptures like 2 Corinthians 6:14, 1 Corinthians 7:12–14, and Deuteronomy 7:3–4 to understand God’s guidance on faith and marriage compatibility.
This episode dives into Christian dating advice, the concept of evangelistic marriages, and real challenges faced when one spouse isn’t a believer. Can God use an unequally yoked marriage for His glory? What does it mean to have spiritual unity in marriage, and why is it so important? We also discuss practical issues like raising children with an unbelieving spouse and the impact of marrying outside the faith.
Whether you’re single and wondering can Christians marry non-Christians, or married and navigating faith differences, this video provides biblical wisdom, examples from scripture, and thoughtful advice for anyone facing these questions.
If you’re looking for honest, faith-based relationship guidance, don’t miss this honest conversation on Christian marriage, interfaith marriage challenges, and walking in agreement spiritually.

Timestamps:
00:00 Intro

Christians Who Believe It’s Okay to Marry an Unbeliever
2:40 Marrying an Unbeliever to Evangelise
11:14 Can God use an Unequally Yoked Marriage for His Glory?
17:21 Can't Control Who You Love
19:13 Believer or Not—God Knows the Heart
23:37 They Support My Faith—Is That Enough?
26:45 Not Enough Christian Men/Women?
33:51 Marrying an unbeliever for the Child’s Sake?

Christians Who Believe It’s Not Okay to Marry an Unbeliever
37:04 Clear Command Against Unequal Yoking
43:02 Can Unequal Yoking Reflect Christ Love?
46:07 Marriage Needs Spiritual Unity
49:53 Hard to Raise Kids Spiritually When Unequally Yoked
57:41 Christians Should Marry Christians.
58:40 The Old Testament Warns Against Interfaith Marriages
1:03:19 Examples in the Bible Show Unequal Yoking Fails!

1:06:54 Our perspective on this matter
1:10:52 Advice for Single and Married Christians on this Topic

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Should Christians watch Love Island? In this episode, we respond to a powerful episode request about one of the most popular reality dating shows on TV. Love Island is known for promoting hookup culture, casual s*x, drama, and shallow relationships, but how does that align with the values Christians are called to live by? As believers, we must ask: Does watching shows like this glorify God?
We take a biblical look at what Love Island represents and how it may affect our hearts and minds. Philippians 4:8 challenges us to think on what is pure, noble, and true, yet shows like this often glorify lust, deceit, and emotional manipulation. Are we becoming desensitised to sin through entertainment? Are we feeding our flesh while starving our spirit?

We explore whether Christians watching Love Island could be considered supporting content that goes against God’s Word. We also discuss the difference between what is permissible and what is spiritually beneficial (1 Corinthians 6:12), and whether our media consumption helps or hinders our walk with Christ. This episode unpacks the spiritual risks of normalising immodesty, se*ual sin, and worldly definitions of love.
Love Island may be “just entertainment” to some, but entertainment is never neutral. It shapes our worldview, our values, and even our definition of relationships. As followers of Jesus, we’re called to be set apart (John 17:14–16) and live in a way that honours God with all our heart, soul, and mind.
If you’ve ever wondered whether Christians can enjoy popular dating shows without compromising their faith, this episode is for you. We challenge you to think biblically about what you're watching and ask: Is this helping me become more like Christ, or slowly dulling my sensitivity to sin?

Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
2:36 What is Love Island?
3:22 What does Love Island Promote?
10:42 Does Watching Love Island Glorify God?
15:23 Guard Your Heart and Mind from Love Island
19:25 Is Watching Love Island Permissible?
24:23 What Are You Feeding Your Spirit?
27:14 Watching Love Island desensitises you spiritually
31:04 Is Love Island Feeding Lust in You?
40:21 Christians Are to be Set Apart
44:59 The Danger of Passive Participation Watching Love Island!
48:57 Will Love Island Matter in Eternity?
51:09 Romance & Marriage: What expectations do you have from watching Love Island?
55:14 Is it Bad for Church Leaders to Watch Love Island?

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Having a crush as a Christian can sometimes feel confusing, especially when you’re trying to honour God with your emotions. In this video, we’ll explore what it really means to have a crush from a Christian perspective and how you can protect your heart without feeling ashamed. Whether it’s a single crush or you find yourself crushing on multiple people, you’re not alone, and these feelings are completely normal.
We’ll talk about the important difference between a crush and lust, and why attraction itself isn’t sinful. We will share how you can bring your feelings to God in prayer and why seeking spiritual discernment is key to navigating your emotions in a healthy way. Along the way, we’ll examine encouraging Bible verses that remind us to guard our hearts and seek God’s peace.
If you’ve ever asked, “Is having a crush as a Christian wrong?” or “How do I keep my heart safe while dealing with a crush?” this episode offers honest and practical Christian relationship advice. We also cover the importance of seeking wise counsel, maintaining emotional discipline, and ensuring your faith remains strong throughout the process.
If you’re single and curious about how to handle crushes in a godly way, this video will help you grow spiritually while honouring God with your feelings.

Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
2:59 Definition of a crush

Having a Crush as a Christian
3:33 Are Crushes Normal or Sinful?
6:05 Bringing Your Crush to God in Prayer
13:09 How to Guard Your Thoughts and Emotions in a Crush
19:03 Is It a Crush or Is It Lust?
28:17 Rushing into a Crush Can Lead to Regret
31:46 Seek Wise Counsel Before Acting on a Crush
35:18 Is This Crush Helping or Hurting Your Faith?
43:40 You Don’t Have to Feel Guilty for Having a Crush

Having Multiple Crushes as a Christian
44:48 Is It Wrong to Have Multiple Crushes?
48:07 Why Emotional Discipline Matters With Multiple Crushes
51:41 Let the Holy Spirit Guide You Through Your Feelings
54:17 Keeping Your Crushes Healthy: Avoid Fantasising and Idolising

58:10 What to Do When You’re Crushing Hard
1:01:27 Encouragement for Christians Feeling Confused About Crushes

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