Can a little relaxation help your love life… or ruin the mood completely?

In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, we’re diving into the plant everyone whispers about and asking the real questions. Can it help arousal, lower stress, improve connection, and make intimacy better? Or can it leave you distracted, dry, anxious, or asleep before anything starts?

We’re talking dosage, strains, midlife libido, perimenopause, communication, and why no product or substance can fix relationship problems.

If you’ve ever been curious, cautious, or wondering why so many women are experimenting with it now, this episode is for you.

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Nothing kills the vibe faster than “we should talk about a prenup”… or does it?

In this episode, we’re breaking down prenups and cohabitation agreements without the drama. Because let’s be real—love is great, but clarity is better.

We’re talking about:

• What prenups and cohab agreements actually are
• Why they’re not a “breakup plan”
• The biggest myths that keep people avoiding them
• Real-life situations where NOT having one goes sideways
• And how to have the conversation without ruining your relationship

Because being grownups in love sometimes means choosing paperwork over pretending vibes are legally binding.

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Have you ever been in the middle of sex and suddenly started overthinking everything?

Am I taking too long?
Do I look okay?
Am I doing this right?

Just like that… you’re out of the moment and stuck in your head.

In this episode of Not Safe for Brunch, we’re talking about the pressure to perform in the bedroom, where it comes from, how it affects your body, and how to actually enjoy intimacy again.

Because sex isn’t supposed to feel like an audition… it’s supposed to feel like connection.

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Let’s talk about 69… and why it might not be all it’s hyped up to be.

It’s one of the most talked about positions out there, but when you actually break it down, the reality doesn’t always match the fantasy.

In this episode, we’re getting real about why 69 looks great in theory but can fall apart in practice, from awkward angles to multitasking struggles and everything in between.

If you’ve ever tried it and thought “what is happening right now”… this episode is for you.

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Spring is known as mating season in the animal world… but humans seem to be doing the opposite.

In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, we zoom out and talk about the big picture of sex, relationships, and reproduction. For most of human history, sex wasn’t optional. It was survival.

Now? Birth control, financial independence, and social change have rewritten the rules.

So why are birth rates dropping? Why are more people opting out of relationships or kids? And why does that make some parts of society panic?

We dig into the biology, history, economics, and power dynamics behind what might be the biggest shift in human mating behavior in 250,000 years.

This conversation goes deeper than dating apps. It’s about survival, equality, and choice.

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Sex hasn’t changed much over the decades… but the words we use to talk about it definitely have.

In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, we take a hilarious and honest look at the evolving language of intimacy. From old school phrases like “making whoopee” and “going steady” to modern terms like “Netflix and Chill,” “situationship,” and “sneaky link,” every generation seems to invent new slang to say the same thing.

Why do we keep changing the language?
Is it about privacy, culture, or just avoiding awkward conversations?

Amber, Coralie, and Vicki unpack the history, the humor, and the confusion behind the words people use to talk about sex.

And trust us… some of these terms might make you feel old.

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There are a lot of unofficial holidays out there. Some are harmless. Some are funny. And then there’s Steak and BJ Day.

Is it playful? Is it sexist? Is it just a joke? Or does it quietly reinforce one-sided expectations about sex and pleasure?

In this episode, we unpack where this “holiday” came from, why it makes some people uncomfortable, and what it reveals about communication, consent, fantasy vs reality, and performative intimacy.

Because desire doesn’t magically switch on when the calendar says so.

And pleasure works best when it’s chosen, not expected.

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Sex is supposed to be fun, not stressful, awkward, or uncomfortable because no one taught you the basics.

In this episode of Not Safe For Brunch, we’re breaking down sexual hygiene from head to butt to bed. No shame. No fear-mongering. Just real, practical conversations about cleanliness, comfort, confidence, toys, lube, oral, anal, kink, and everything in between.

Whether you’re new to sex, deep into midlife changes, exploring new play, or just want better sex with fewer infections, this episode is for you.

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