In this episode, Asha Dore chats with Mary. Alice Stewart, a writer, electrician (!!), and book agent at ENLIVEN ENDEAVORS.

More about Enliven here: ENLIVEN is a future-thinking agency which provides a dynamic, interdisciplinary home to writers and creators of all stripes. Our goal is to expand the definition of what a literary agency does to support its clients. We strive to be a true creative partner, helping writers to grow and develop across all mediums. We are proud to say that many of our clients are multi-hyphenates– writers, actors, dancers, musicians, visual artists, poets, translators, and performers. We believe that by truly understanding and tapping into their unique gifts and aspirations, we can break boundaries and help them thrive. https://www.enlivenendeavors.com/

About Mary Alice: Mary Alice Stewart is a writer, editor, and a literary agent at Enliven. She holds an MFA and a BA from Bennington College and is currently a student at Central Maine Community College in their Electromechanical Technology program where she also teaches writing to students heading into the trades. Mary Alice has lectured/consulted for Tin House, The Shipman Agency's Work Room, North Carolina Writers' Network, Maine Writers and Publishers Alliance, Caricon: A Celebration of Caribbean Literature, Chelsea Hodson's Morning Writers' Club, and more. She has attended The John Ashbery Home School and the Disquiet workshop in Lisbon, Portugal, and received a residency with Virginia Center for Creative Arts. As a private editor, her clients have gone on to publish with premier publishing houses. Her writing has appeared in Forever Mag, Rose Books' inaugural anthology Primal Scream, Joyland, No Tokens, and elsewhere. An essay of hers has been translated into Italian for Edizioni Black Coffee's website. Mary Alice is from, and lives in, Maine. Totally Biased Reviews is a Parley Lit production in collaboration with Parley Productions. Hosted and Edited by Asha Dore and Rebecca Tourino Collinsworth.

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Our host, Asha Dore, talks with Amanda McCracken about her 2026 book, When Longing Becomes Your Lover published by Worthy Books

Find it here: https://www.amazon.com/When-Longing-Becomes-Your-Lover/dp/1546008535/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0

About the book: Journalist and late-in-life virgin Amanda McCracken dated over 100 men by the time she was in her late thirties. She was so certain she was doing everything she could to find the loving, lasting relationship she wanted. So why wasn't it working? After another breakdown in her therapist's office, she came to a startling realization: she was addicted to longing.

This realization was part of a 10-year journey to understand the cultural, neurological, and psychological factors that shaped her beliefs about love, sex, and commitment. She began to understand that longing for someone feels good. It can even feel better than being in a secure relationship. Longing can provide a sense of control when life is uncertain and offers a safe place to hide from emotional vulnerability, especially in today's online dating and hookup world. But longing can trigger an addictive neurochemical boost that can derail us from forming healthy, intimate relationships.

In this searingly honest book, Amanda shares the crushes, relationships, situationships, travel, friendships, hookups, bad dates, wins, losses, and brushes with fate that came with her journey. Starting with her early childhood hero fantasies and how they evolved in her tween and teen years into a commitment to the purity movement espoused at her church, she chronicles her profound longing for love that led her to her lowest point. She provides a deep, exploratory look into the state of mind known as limerence: an obsessive rumination on an idealized version of someone. Amanda weaves together her personal journey with research, storytelling, soul-searching questions, and quotes from experts and nonexperts alike to reveal the addictive nature of longing while providing hope through her journey of breaking her patterns and ultimately choosing the path towards healthy, authentic intimacy.

About the author: Amanda McCracken is a journalist and the host of the podcast The Longing Lab. Her TEDx talk, "How longing keeps us from healthy relationships," was a TED editor's pick. She's been interviewed about her essays on relationships, sex, and longing by Kate Couric, USA Today, Bloomberg News, and the BBC. She's also the author of the forthcoming book "When Longing Becomes Your Lover." Follow her on Instagram or LinkedIn.

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Our host, Asha Dore, talks with Kristine Langley Mahler about her 2026 book, Teen Queen Training published by Autofocus Find it here: https://nyupress.org/9781957392431/teen-queen-training/ About the book: It takes a lot of work to erase the rules of being a teenage girl. Desperate to know what behaviors would produce the "right" adolescence, during the late 1990s Kristine Langley Mahler sought instruction from outdated etiquette guides and Seventeen magazine to subdue her central fear: how to convince someone to choose her. Twenty years later, married and mothering three adolescent daughters of her own, Mahler stumbles upon a 1963 edition of The Seventeen Book of Etiquette and Entertaining—elegant, archaic directives that push her right back into her old frustrations and propel the creation of Teen Queen Training: a series of 26 erasure essays created from its 26 chapters, illuminating the differences between what she was told and what she really learned. About the author: https://kristinelangleymahler.com/ Kristine Langley Mahler is the author of three nonfiction books: A Calendar Is a Snakeskin (Autofocus Books, 2023), Curing Season: Artifacts (West Virginia University Press, 2022), and the erasure essay collection Teen Queen Training (Autofocus Books, 2026). Kristine's work has been supported by an Individual Artist Fellowship from the Nebraska Arts Council and a residency from Art at Cedar Point Biological Station, thrice named Notable in Best American Essays, received the Rafael Torch Award from Crab Orchard Review, won the Sundog Lit Collaboration Contest, and has appeared in print and online at Salon, DIAGRAM, Fourth Genre, Ninth Letter, and Brevity, among others. Kristine is the director and publisher of Split/Lip Press. A memoirist experimenting with the truth on the suburban prairie, Kristine makes her home outside Omaha, Nebraska. Cancer sun, Aquarius moon. Ask her where she's "from" and she will spread out the maps. email Kristine: kristine at kristinelangleymahler dot com Bluesky: @suburbanprairie / Instagram: @kristinelangleymahler newsletter: Creepsakes Totally Biased Reviews is a Parley Lit production in collaboration with Parley Productions. Hosted and Edited by Asha Dore and Rebecca Tourino Collinsworth. Music by Nuclear Peasant. Find more at www.TotallyBiasedReviews.com