Episodios

  • Walking Contradictions, with Daniel Gainsbrook

    Walking Contradictions, with Daniel Gainsbrook
    Apr 23 2025
    We have another last minute guest addition this week, in the form of the very handsome Daniel Gainsbrook! Daniel joins Adam and Cole in the studio to share stories and perspectives on what it’s like to be an adult content creator with a Punjabi background, having grown up in Pakistan and even having been at one point married, with children. Daniel moved to Canada and took the reins of his life and pivoted into the gay adult film landscape, looking for a place to belong. Every journey into the gay adult content stratosphere is unique, and Daniel’s story is proof that sometimes going with your gut is the best way to personal liberation.
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    47 m
  • Yes, And! Derek Kage, the Sequel!

    Yes, And! Derek Kage, the Sequel!
    Apr 9 2025
    He’s back, folks! Two years after his first visit to the studio, Derek Kage returns to chat with Adam and Cole for a very well earned catch up. In the two years since his appearance, he’s risen in stardom, and in wisdom and experience in the industry, and tells us a lot of what’s happened. With several awards and starring vehicles under his belt, Derek shares about how success in the industry isn’t slowing him down at all. In fact, he’s got some new passions and projects, his foray into the straight porn industry turning heads all over the internet. Derek remains steadfast in his convictions that no matter what kind of content he is creating, he knows himself and what he offers and that an attitude of gratitude is keeping him afloat and working more steadily than ever. He also shares some important facts about his work with the Free Speech Coalition, that led to him winning their Advocacy award, proving that making adult films isn’t just about hot content, it’s also about preserving our rights to free speech and, above all, privacy. You’re gonna love this one, y’all.
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    53 m
  • Fugitive Industry Survival Guide, with Logan Stevens

    Fugitive Industry Survival Guide, with Logan Stevens
    Mar 26 2025
    This week, Adam and Cole get paid a visit by the very sexy and smart Logan Stevens, a true “multi-hyphenate” in the industry! Logan shares candidly about his path from being an only child in Wisconsin more concerned with nature documentaries than cartoons, and hanging out with trees instead of people, to getting an education in anthropology that led to international jobs and internships in government. Feeling unfulfilled by this call, he followed his more creative side by going to New York and flexing his musical skills and costume designing muscles, all while also understanding the privilege and lucrative potential of being just generally damn attractive. As creators, we grapple with these many callings, and sometimes we follow where the money is - this conversation with Logan touches on the many avenues we find to survive in the American capitalist landscape when you are creatively capable, but also gay and hot. Logan has found himself in this position because it suits him, and we go deep into why and how, and it’s oh so much fun.
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    55 m
  • The Slow March, featuring Emil Jameson

    The Slow March, featuring Emil Jameson
    Mar 12 2025
    Season 4 gets its first guest in the form of the beautiful, talented, and incredibly smart Emil Jameson! Emil visits Cole and Adam in the studio to talk about his past and present, and his three-year journey as an adult content creator. Emil details his beginnings as a midwestern kid who moved around all over the world from childhood to graduate school as a linguistics master's degree holder. He also shares with the boys how his very conservative Christian upbringing affected his coming of age as a young, closeted bookworm to his slow coming out process, and eventually coming into his own as a self-actualized gay young adult who understood that shame and modesty no longer served him. He shares about some of his favorite scenes, his eventual foray into studio work, and the boys share a moment to grieve the late Roman Mercury, who passed away suddenly a few weeks ago. To close the episode, Emil reflects on what advice he’d give his younger self from his current perspective, which proves poignant and fitting to many others in the community, in or out of the adult industry. Don’t miss this one, folks, Emil is a true keeper.
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    43 m
  • Charm Vs Cringe

    Charm Vs Cringe
    Feb 26 2025
    Aaaaand we’re back! Season 4 of Sorry For Asking begins with Adam Ramzi and Cole Connor catching up over the best things about the holidays, how they navigated the week of the LA fires, Adam’s trip to Costa Rica, Cole’s multiple trips to Florida, some recent shoots, upcoming opportunities, and the hopes they share for the upcoming year. Adam has entered his reading glasses era while he continues headfirst into his relationship, as well as the growing business of party planning, and Cole tells tales of how massage has become more of a career while his content has had an uptick in MMF content (look it up). Also, the boys discuss a little bit about the difference between charm and cringe, when dealing with the wandering hands of partygoers in shared queer spaces. The world is in a weird place, but Adam and Cole are still here to pontificate thoughtfully on all that goes into being adult content creators in LA during this strange time in history.
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    44 m
  • What We Do In The Hot Tubs, Season 3 Finale!

    What We Do In The Hot Tubs, Season 3 Finale!
    Dec 18 2024
    And that’s a wrap on season 3, folks! To close out the chaotic and crazy year that was 2024, eavesdrop on Adam and Cole as they catch up at the beginning of this holiday season, sharing about holiday plans, some scene work, recent creative endeavors, competition in their fields… What kind of energy do we wish to bring in to the new year? Adam’s new home and Cole’s upcoming creative redirect are two examples of how switching things up in the new year can bring some inspiration to their lives, in order to kick some old habits and jumpstart new ones. The boys pontificate on how to take better care of themselves as winter approaches, mentally, physically, and even financially, in order to ensure a fruitful and clearheaded start to the looming new year. Thank you all for listening to season 3 of Sorry For Asking, and we will be back!!
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    41 m
  • A Different Kind of Pizza, featuring Davey Wavey

    A Different Kind of Pizza, featuring Davey Wavey
    Dec 4 2024
    Lube up more than your nethers this time, folks. Your brain, heart, and soul could each use a good yank, as evidenced by today’s conversation with OG YouTube sensation turned holistic adult content producer, Davey Wavey. Adam and Cole dive deep into Davey’s history, growing up Catholic in Rhode Island, and falling into the early days of YouTube video diaries going viral and making coin, ultimately leading him to creating his own porn studio. After cultivating a community of followers and inviting them into the ongoing conversation of our collective queer sexual awakening and authenticity, Davey created Himeros.TV. In this episode, we get into the mission statement behind what Himeros is about, offering a different way to experience adult content that reflects a variety of physical as well as emotional and spiritual touch points. Did you know that porn could be healing? Davey had an inkling, and he turned it into something special with Himeros, an alternative to the gay erotica we are more familiar with, that may open up new avenues of how you process, consume, and enjoy erotic art, and thereby your erotic self. Adam and Davey share stories of how they met and worked together, and how working in this field has helped all three gentlemen on the path to deeper self discovery. May require a second listen, sorry not sorry!
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    49 m
  • Shame Game Daddy, featuring Viktor Belmont

    Shame Game Daddy, featuring Viktor Belmont
    Nov 20 2024
    After gushing about him at the end of our last episode, Adam and Cole give a warm in-studio welcome to the iconic emperor of trans masculine adult content and sexual healing, Viktor Belmont! In this hilarious and heady conversation, Viktor shares about his exceptionally unique experience of self-actualization, not only as a sexual healer and formidable adult content presence, but also as a trans man. Growing up in rural Oregon as a young punk rock lesbian, Viktor came to learn some things about himself before taking the transition plunge and relocating to San Francisco, where he lived modestly while developing an immediate understanding of the need to brand himself as a well-known sexual internet presence. In the days of MySpace and Tumblr, he gained a following as well as a very specific understanding of what it was he could bring to the table, not only to monetize his sexuality but also to bring some healing to clients of all kinds who could benefit from the firm hand of a trans male dom daddy. Viktor is a fascinating storyteller, so put on some headphones and fall under his captivating spell just as Adam and Cole do. Thank you Viktor, we love you, sorry not sorry!!
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    52 m
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